Debby -
It's actually part of most people's experience with WLS.
By everything I read preop - you can expect to gain back up to half of what you lose after 5 years.
Anything else is extraordinary diligence and following "the rules" to the letter.
Most of us aren't great at following "the rules" or else we wouldn't have ended up where we were to begin with.
You've had a lot of health issues even post op.
I know I've had more joint issues after I lost weight (pain wise) once the heaviness and the weight was OFF the joint than I did before - just because the weight wasn't pushing down on the worn joints, so they 'slopped around'.
All you can do is try to restart. Does your surgeon have a support group? Many have realized that a "restart" program is needed and have started something like that with a medifast-kick-start...
Check, if you haven't been back in touch with them.
Your tool CAN still work.
BUT
This far post op, you're back to it taking some work to make it work..
HUGZ
Hang in there!!!
...Nick (also Feb 04)