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Talulah_Belle
Folsom, CA
Member Since: 01/04/08
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Topic: RE: what is your 6 mth loss?
I've lost 100lbs and am shocked that it came off sooo quickly.  This last weekend was the first time that I went shoping with a girlfriend and felt comfortable shopping in ALL of the stores.  It was sooo fun!  It you aren't there yet you will be!
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Michelle A.
Lincoln, CA
Member Since: 09/30/07
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Topic: RE: what is your 6 mth loss?
I am down about 70 pounds.  I started at 5'6" and 254(was 260 at the height pre-surgery).  I am now somewhere around 186.  I went from a size 22/24 to a size 12/14.  I have about 30 more pounds to go but honestly I would be happy with the results even if I never lose another pound.  I feel so great about how I look and I finally have learned to accept compliments from others.  I do, however, sometimes put on my pants and wonder if, in 5 years, I will still be able to fit in them.  It just almost seems too good to be true.....like so many of the other things I have tried that worked temporarily.  Either way I am loving life.....Is it now time to switch over to the plastic surgery board to perseverate on the parts that now sag :)
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SCushway
Daphne, AL
Member Since: 08/21/03
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Topic: RE: Time for me to be thankful

You just have to have faith that you are getting there. even if it's one lb at a time.  Accept the compliments with grace and lmpw tjat one day you will eventually see the thiner you when you look in the mirror.  It takes a while to adjust  your self perspective to how you look now.

Sandi

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bukkykat
apex, NC
Member Since: 10/03/07
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Topic: RE: what is your 6 mth loss?
I have lost 102 lbs in six months. So many inches that is the most amazing part.  love my RNY.  like the Feb club because I had surgery the last day of Jan.

Faith


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glitzigirl
Teaneck, NJ
Member Since: 10/05/07
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Topic: RE: what is your 6 mth loss?
I am down 82.5lbs in 6 months. The weight loss is slowing a bit, but that is ok since I only have a little over 50lbs to go. I am still losing between 7-9lbs a month.
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SCushway
Daphne, AL
Member Since: 08/21/03
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Topic: RE: what is your 6 mth loss?
WoW!  It's amazing how you've charted your inches lost.  Wish I had done that.  I have lost about 83 lbs in six months.  I have about two lbs that fluctuate depending on the time of the day.  I tend to lose for about 2-3 weeks, then stall for 2-3 weeks.  I also went from a size 22W down to a regular size 16, which is now beginning to get lose.  I have ZERO winter clothes for the fall/winter and don't know which size I will be wearing to stock up.

I am happy with the amount I have lost so far, but wi**** hadn't slowed down so much.  My surgeon said I am losing at the rate I should be for six months out so I reckon I shouldn't be worried.

Sandi
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MichelleS.
North Jersey, NJ
Member Since: 01/08/08
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Topic: what is your 6 mth loss?
I haven't lost as much weight as I've noticed others have, but loosing 70lbs in 6 mths is impressive enough for me right now.  I've gone from a size 22 down to a size 14/16 & have more energy then I have in a long long time.  The biggest WOW is my loss in inches:
     02/24/08   08/22/08   Total Loss
  neck    15    13       - 2   
  upper arms (x2)    16 1/2    14       - 5   
  full chest    52    44    - 8   
  under chest    43    36 3/4    - 6 1/4
  waist    45    38    - 7   
  hips    55    48       - 7   
  thighs (x2)    33    28 1/2    - 9   
  calves (x2)    17 3/4    16 1/2    - 2 1/2
  ankles (x2)    9 3/4    9 1/2    - 1/2
   
  Total inches lost        - 47 1/4

How is the rest of my FEBRUARY club doing?
-Michelle

 

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Christine S.
long island, NY
Member Since: 03/23/07
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Topic: RE: Time for me to be thankful
Shawn, I know just how you have been feeling. I have been in a funk too. When the weight loss slows down after coming off so rapidly for months prior it is depressing. But I have begun to rethink my situation too and realize that I have come a long way. I am now 5 lbs away from my 1st goal (100 lbs) and can fit comfortably in an 18 pants and an XL top. I even got my self into a 16 pants (although tight) which I haven't been that size in about 12 years. I have much more energy. I would be too tired before to even do the easy chores and now I find such a sense of accomplishment in doing my housework. I have begun to enjoy the company of my best friend again, no longer embarassed of my size. We go out dancing, hang out by the pool, or just grab a light bite to eat. Reconnecting with her was the suprise benefit of my surgery. I hadn't realized that I had gotten so disconnected from my friends. It was work and home and maybe sometime with mom or inlaws. Now we make plans to do something fun at least once a month and talk just about everyday. Continued success to you and let's continue to look on the bright side!
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melswifey
WI
Member Since: 06/20/07
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Topic: Time for me to be thankful
Ok All, I've been doing some thinking. Over the past two months or more, I have gotten myself into this funk. So upset that my weight has been stalling. Seems like I stall for three solid weeks then I drop about 4-5 pounds. And this was depressing me. I felt as if I should be losing more. That I was a failure. People would tell me how wonderful I look, I would shrug my shoulders in disbelief. I still don't like to be called skinny, just because I know it's not true. And I have a long way to go before would even be close to skinny. But over the last few days I have been feeling pretty good about everything. I am ONE pound away from the weight I was when I met my husband. I am 25 lbs lighter than the day I got married. I am 95lbs less than the day I had surgery. I can go on a treadmill, multiple times a day and I love to sweat. When I first started I could not stand (or handle) being on the treadmill for more than 5 min. Now I go 30 min and increase my incline all the way up to 12. No I don't stay at that pace for long, but I CAN finally do it. I went shopping on Saturday and bought a pair of size 18 jeans, I didn't even try them on because I knew they would fit, and they did. and are actually a little loose. I am now in a 1x shirt. Can't wait until I'm in a XL or even better a size large. I know this will come, I now know, I have the tool it took to get me to the point where I am now that I can finally excercise and feel good about it again. This will keep my weight off. Thanks for listening to me. Not to many people can relate to how all this feels. I just need to tell myself how wonderful life is!!!! I hope everyone else is doing well. I know a lot of Feb losers have lost more than me and thats ok. We all need to just keep truckin!!!!!! let's hang in there together!
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SCushway
Daphne, AL
Member Since: 08/21/03
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Topic: RE: Setting short term goals
I am averaging about 2 lbs a weeks loss (when I am not on a stall...lol). That, to me, is adequate weight loss. Not too fast, not too slow. I met my goal of making 175 by the end of July and am now at 173. I eat what I want, within reason and still lose a little here and there so I am content. I think those losing such large numbers must have a whole lot more to lose than some of us. My next short-term goal is to be at 165 by Labor Day weekend when I go to Atlanta to visit my sister. She had her surgery six months before me so she hands me down her clothes as she out grows them. That has been REALLY convenient. Sandi
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tobee43
NJ
Member Since: 02/24/08
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Topic: RE: Setting short term goals
i agree with you michelle...i see these people that have lost like 40 lbs in a month?? i was so dispressed about that compared to my own weight lose. my surgeon said to me, this is not a race, each person loses at their on pace and like you said some have like 200 lbs to lose. i have always used the phase " i have to lose 5 lbs this month" as not only my short term goal, but also my long term. and, at some point, i do plan to stop losing. i'm not looking to be a size 0....just healthy! actually, neither by surgeon or my pcp gave me a "goal weight" ! so, i just made one for myself. i just take one day at a time then one week and then one month...i seem to be averaging over 10 lbs a month since i began at 240 and now as of this moring i'm 165. that's plenty good for me since i don't want to pick pieces of me up off the floor!!
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Christine S.
long island, NY
Member Since: 03/23/07
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Topic: RE: Setting short term goals
Everyone here should be happy with what they have accomplished so far regardless of their highest or pre-op weight. Being on of those people as you described as "Really Really Obese" I am happy to post that I have lost 93 lbs from my highest weight which was close to my pre-op weight. We cannot gauge our success with the results of others, but hopefully can be encouraged by everyone here at OH success.
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SCushway
Daphne, AL
Member Since: 08/21/03
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Topic: RE: Setting short term goals
I agree with you. I am almost six months out and have lost 80 lbs (started at 258) and am very pleased with my results so far. I don't compare MY loss with anyone's for the very reasons you stated. We are all different and thusly, will lose weight differently. Sandi 2/21/08 RNY 258/178/130
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MichelleS.
North Jersey, NJ
Member Since: 01/08/08
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Topic: RE: Setting short term goals
Hey Michelle - I've come to the conclusion that the people that have these extreme weight losses are either one of two things. 1) REALLY REALLY obese to start (there is no nice was to describe someone that is 325 lbs), or 2) they included all their pre-surgery weight loss in their counter. My surgery was 2/25 - and at the end of the 4th mth I noticed that the loss was beginning to slow down (I'm not really eating more or poor choices, I'm drinking & excersing). My nutrionist figured out that I was starting to slip on my total protien (I got lazy & was only getting like 45-50 grams a day instead of 75). I'm now 5 1/2 mths out, with a surgery date weight of 263.5. I'm 5'4" and I now weigh 195.5 = 68 lbs lost. Not what others seem to be posting, but I'm still happy with the numbers.
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Christine S.
long island, NY
Member Since: 03/23/07
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Topic: RE: STILL STALLING FOR OVER 4 WEEKS????
I have not heard about that 10lb per month thing. I wi**** were true. I would be happy with a consistant loss. I too got on the scale a had a gain 2lbs. I am hoping it will be gone plus another 2 when I get on the scale next week. I was using my clothes to see if I was losing if the scale wasn't moving, but I have not even noticed too much of a difference there. I want to reach my 1st goal by mid September and I have 10 lbs to go to get there. So I have to find something to get the scale moving down again. Good luck and keep me posted.
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SCushway
Daphne, AL
Member Since: 08/21/03
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Topic: RE: Setting short term goals
A longer term goal of mine is to be wearing at least a six 10 by February when I go on a cruise. I, too wanted to get my weight down so I could do something exciting...zip-line in Cozumel. I have always wanted to, but at 258 there was no way. They actually base their limits on hip width and I would have NEVER made the cut. Now I will easily. I am in a size 16 comfortably now, so I hope that I can drop three sizes within the next six months. At the slow rate I am losing, I better bump it up a notch or I may not make it. I started at 258 (5' 4") pre-op and am now at 178-179 depending on the time of day...lol. Things have definitely slowed down. Sandi
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Michelle A.
Lincoln, CA
Member Since: 09/30/07
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Topic: RE: Setting short term goals
My short term goal was to get under 200 pounds so that I could go skydiving. I accomplished that last week after a 6 week stall at 204. I AM somewhat dissapointed by the weight loss as it hasn't been as quick or as much as I thought at 6 months. I started at 260 (254 day of surgery) and am now at 196. I had 100 pounds to lose so I have lost about 60% of my excess weight. I am hoping to lose at least another 20 before stopping. It has really crept along the last month. Now after I skydive I think the next goal will be size 12 pants (I am in a 14 now). I think I need to recognize the weight on the scale but go by the feel of my clothes.
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melswifey
WI
Member Since: 06/20/07
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Topic: RE: STILL STALLING FOR OVER 4 WEEKS????
Ok I hope I didn't jinx myself. I'm at another stall. I read somewhere, I think on this site, that at about 6 months out you can expect to lose 10lbs per month until you are one year out. Has anyone else heard this too???? I lost 6lbs about a week and a hal*****hen lost another 4..but put it back on????? I dont' know how I managed to do that. Maybe I weighed myself at the right time...if there is such a thing, but When I saw that number I almost crapped...got back on the scale it was still there...but the very next day I was back up 4 lbs...Weird!!!!!!!!!!!! so total for the last 3 1/2 weeks is only 6lbs...and last month only 7lbs for the whole month.......how about everyone else...how much are you losing the last few months?????/ Keep me posted, I need encouragement.....not too many people I know understand what we are going thru.
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johesn56
NJ
Member Since: 03/06/08
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Topic: RE: HAIR LOSS!!!!!!!
I had a big problem I had the RNY and I was losing my hair like a ckemo patient so I was forced to go for a short haircut and my hair loss is very slight now. I am only 6months post. But before I got my short hair cut I couldn't even run my fingers thru my hair without losing strands at a time. I have got used to the new me now but it took abit to get used to the short hair exspecially when u don't have much to begin with lol but I would do it again even if I had to be bald because I feel like a whole new person. So take care always johesn56
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SCushway
Daphne, AL
Member Since: 08/21/03
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