May 2004 Surgery Date
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    Linda D.
    Member Since: 04/30/04
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    Topic: RE: Weight Gain!
    Hi-Even though You posted this back in December 07', I'm just reading it now and I had to reply to tell You that I, too, am having the very same problem. I'd say I have gained about 50 lbs. back too. I have been seeing a therapist for just under a year now, and I know why I eat when I'm not hungry, I just don't know how to stop it yet. I am eating anything and everything, although mostly carbs. I have been on disability for the last 5 weeks, and every morning I am at Panera for coffee and a pumkin muffie, with 2 pats of butter! God, I know that what I'm doing is soooo wrong, but I do it anyway! I am kicking myself, but I don't stop. I tell myself every day that I'll get back on track soon, yet when the time I had planned to do it comes, I procrastinate about it again for another week or so. I don't know what the answer is-I wish I did. My clothes are tight too...........I put the blame squarely on my own shoulders. If You should gain (no pun intended) any insight on how to remedy this problem, please let me know. The last thing I want to be is on a DIET! I HATE HATE HATE them!!! I just want to be normal! GOOD LUCK To YOU! Believe me, I know how You feel! Linda
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    blondebomb
    FL
    Member Since: 08/19/04
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    Topic: DR. COIRIN ARE YOU OUT THERE?
    paging Dr. Coirin, paging Dr. Coirin.... Code Help!!!!!!
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    blondebomb
    FL
    Member Since: 08/19/04
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    Topic: Hey ya'll
    Well Hello California..... I've been gone for such a long time and miss the support I use to get from this place. Miss everybody soooo much. I moved very far away, such a bad girl.... I've even put on some poundage and I need help getting back. I've strayed off the yellow brick road. I'm real down, really down! Almost feel like giving up then I said, wait... I didn't go through hell and back just to go back to how I was before! But I need help. I know this is asking alot. Most of you don't even know me now. I use to go to all of the Seminars, I was so proud of who I had became, and happy with shopping for clothes had the greatest Doctor in the world, he was even a cutie pie. But now I'm so far away from home and I've lost my dirve. HELP ME IF YOU CAN. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    rhymetyme
    Six Lakes, MI
    Member Since: 05/14/03
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    Topic: RE: Weight Gain!
    My surgeon ordered an upper GI but I haven't been able to get back in to see him about the results. I'm sure they are just fine or they would have been more insistent about me coming back. I've realized that I need to stop making excuses for myself and just get back on my program. I am now down 15 of the 20 that I gained, so I know I can do it. And what did I do? Stopped eating so much junk and worked harder at getting my protein and water in. I started out officially at 329 (though I know I got much heavier than that) and I weighed 160 this morning. I may never see 150 but I'm okay with that. I look great and I feel great and I think that is all that counts, not what the scales say. But I'm like everyone else and want to see a certain number on that scale!! So if I can do it you can too! I wasn't feeling full because I was just eating junk-not good, dense, wholesome food. Once I started eating properly, I started feeling full. I'm pretty ashamed of myself, but I'm also proud that I stopped trying to put the blame elsewhere instead of squarely on my shoulders where it belonged. I will never be fat again, ever. And I went through too much to just throw this all away. Thank you SO much too all of you *****plied to me-it gave me the encouragement that I needed. I hope you all can get your weight gain back down to a manageable level. I know you can all do it!! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year and Bless you all!!!
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    lawoman
    Hellertown, PA
    Member Since: 02/08/04
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    Topic: RE: Weight Gain!
    Just a quick hello to see how you are doing? I am in the same boat but let it get to 50 pounds and all my clothes are tight and I can't afford new right now. Uggh its killing me. Can't get past the fact that yes I am eating like i used to. Really scaring me and I don't know where to turn LA
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    Kathleen R.
    Fort Wayne, IN
    Member Since: 05/08/03
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    Topic: RE: Questions About New Fobi Pouch Revision
    Hi Lisa, I had the vertical band gastric bypass...if not identical to the fobi pouch...very similar. I had my surgery done 5-11-2004 and have gone from 267 to 141. I'm 5'7. It's worked absolutely great for me! My Dr. actually was trained by I believe the same Dr. that perfect ed the fobi pouch..If I'm not mistaken...it's been awhile. If you would like any other information...feel free to shoot me a note! I realize it's been a while since you posted this...I hope you've already found the information you were looking for. Best of luck to you & take care! Kathleen
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    CVanscyoc
    Sarahsville, OH
    Member Since: 06/11/04
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    Topic: RE: Weight Gain!
    Please let me knoqwhat the doctor says... I have gained 20 also and feel the panic starting again ...it scares me to death. I certainly don't want to be a statistic in the medical and weight loss community. LEt's beat this together. Cindy
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    rhymetyme
    Six Lakes, MI
    Member Since: 05/14/03
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    Topic: RE: Weight Gain!
    Well, now it is 20 that I have gained and I am SO depressed about it. I do not feel full anymore at all and that scares me! I am going to call my doctor today and see if I should come in for a check-up. I don't ever want to go back to 350 again either. I'm calling my doctor right now!! You take care and keep me informed on how you are doing getting that 40 back off!!
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    gailwinship2006
    olean, NY
    Member Since: 04/05/06
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    Topic: hi
    hi everyone it has been a while since i posted anything i am doing great and i now weigh 185 pounds . i feel great and i am doing a lot of things i have never thought i would . i am making baby sweaters and baby blankets and lap blankets for the patients at the hospital and mothers who has babies that cant afford them . i am also going to school to get my ged i have passed one subject four more to go . i will post a picture also soon
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    shindy
    Grand Rapids, MI
    Member Since: 03/08/04
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    Topic: RE: Weight Gain!
    Hi Laura, Amazing I have found others with the same problem. Unfortunately I let myself go farther than that 10 lbs. Just keep exercising and eating right. I was ok with the 10 I gained. Everyone I knew that had surgery went through it. I had a couple medical issues that brought back my bad habits and I am up 40! Don't let yourself get there! I am really getting my butt back into shape! I feel like I did at 424 lbs.. I don't want to be there never ever again! I hope you are doing well!
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    mypookface
    Bethany, LA
    Member Since: 04/29/04
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    Topic: RE: Weight Gain!
    Hey Laura, I am in the same position. I have gained about 10 lbs. since WLS but I am okay with it because I had lost too much weight in the beginning. I started out around 225, size 16-18, and went down to size 6P, I can sometime wear some 6s but it has to be a regular 6. I am just happy to still be in 1 digit. I will start the panick if I get in double digits. Most of my clothes are now 8s. People still call me "thin" but sometimes I don't feel that way. Most my weight gain has been around my waist, but I am working on getting it down. God Bless Hettie
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    PixieButterfly2005
    Eugene, OR
    Member Since: 06/11/02
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    Topic: RE: need some help again,
    I am in the same boat. Keep telling myself I will start getting serious next week. But next week never comes. I got down to 185-190 now back up to 220. This needs to stop!!!! As a nurse I am so bad I keep hoping I will catch the flu or Norwalk or Roto Virus and have no choice but drop it. I know what needs to be done: Back to Basics- Protein, water and exercise! Just have to find the motivation again. I was so gun ho in the first year, but honeymoon is over and now I am going to have to fight to get it back.
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    PixieButterfly2005
    Eugene, OR
    Member Since: 06/11/02
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    Topic: RE: Weight Gain!
    I feel the same way I gotr down to about 185-190 after surgery, but over the last year things have creeped up. I'm back to 220 and feel like a failure, which makes it worse. I think we have just become comfortable with life, and have been enjoying life way too much.
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    Deborah S.
    stone mountain, GA
    Member Since: 10/08/03
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    Topic: help i want to upate my profile
    i'm doing great i'm about 208 now and getting ready to have a tummy tuck
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    rhymetyme
    Six Lakes, MI
    Member Since: 05/14/03
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    Topic: Weight Gain!
    Hi All! I'm just over 3 years out from surgery and have lost a total of 174 pounds. I'm absolutely thrilled with the weight I have lost, but the last month to month and a half I have gained 10 pounds and cannot seem to get it off, no matter what I do! I'm sure this has happened to others out there, but what did you do? How did you handle it? Could the horribly hot weather we've been having have anything to do with it? Could it be the hysterectomy I had a year and a half ago be part of it? Maybe I'm grasping here, I don't know, but I sure could use some advice and/or ideas. Thanks May babies and God bless all of you!!
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    HELEN M.
    HIGHLAND LAKES, NJ
    Member Since: 04/18/04
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    Topic: RE: Happy Anniversary May Babies
    I haven't been here in a while. Hope everyone is doing great. I am doing really well!
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    mdragynfly
    Piedmont, AL
    Member Since: 06/21/04
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    Topic: RE: Happy Anniversary May Babies
    Happy happy anniversary May babies! I feel great... got a little extra vanity weight but it is more the number than the way I look or feel (you know how you always have THAT number that you want your weight to be?). I feel amazing and have a whole new happier healthier life!
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    mdragynfly
    Piedmont, AL
    Member Since: 06/21/04
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    Topic: RE: Finally did it, left husband!!!!
    Congrats on your freedom! I found that once your body is healthy you can start working on the parts that you took some insulation off of... mental and emotional wellness. I left my ex husband about 2.5yrs ago, got diagnosed as bipolar with panic disorder and am now (happily) being treated, and am now remarried to the kindest, most compassionate and amazing man who completely appreciates me for everything that I am. Don't ever sell yourself short again. You have proven TO YOURSELF that you're worth a good healthy relationship with yourself, demand it from others too. xo
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    Marcia D.
    Waterford, MI
    Member Since: 09/16/03
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    Topic: RE: cool eh! another year under our belts
    S0 glad to hear from all of you, I too keep dealing with the same last few lbs 10 up 5 down 5 up so much different than the old 50 up 10 down syndrome keep up the good work and stay in touch, Good luck Laura finding that special someone, positive thinking helps, if you haven't seen the movie the secret it is a must see let me know what you think and best wishes Marcia
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    rhymetyme
    Six Lakes, MI
    Member Since: 05/14/03
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    Topic: RE: need some help again,
    Dear Leigh Ann, I think you just did give yourself a swift kick in the pants by putting your thoughts out on the board. Sometimes we have to have our peers give us support or scoldings, whichever we need. Never listen to anyone who tells you are too thin!! They are so used to seeing you big that even five pounds gone and they think you are dwindling away to nothing. I went through the same thing and just went back to day one after surgery. Do the liquid protein diet for a few days, then gradually reintroduce solid foods. Give your pouch a break and make sure you get lots and lots of water. Water and protein, those have always been my saving graces when I get "out of control". Keep thinking of the weight that you did lose and keep telling yourself that you CAN do it because you ARE worth it! You gotta love yourself lots and lots and lots!!! I hope this helped some. If you need a pal, please feel free to email me!! Hugs, Laura Surgery date 5/18/04 Beginning Weight 329 Present Weight 155
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