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kellymb
Albuquerque, NM
Member Since: 10/29/07
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Topic: RE: 9 month anniversary for us December people.. how are you doing?
My nine month anniversary will be on the 26th, wow, already??  I too need to get back on the walking schedule and exercise more.  I'm down 135 pounds total (100#'s post op), BUT, I've developed hypoglycemia recently.  The doc says to eat more protein and more frequently - but it's hard to eat more, how weird was that to say??!!  Other than that, I'm feeling better than I have in years, my hair is finally starting to come back in and I turned 50 on 8/10.  I am so grateful to God and Dr. Davis for giving me my life back.  I am also blessed with an incredible husband who loves me no matter what size I am.  Thanks to my OH friends for their ongoing support.  Kelly
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KellyMASS
MA
Member Since: 02/11/07
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Topic: 9 month anniversary for us December people.. how are you doing?
Hello everyone with December 2007 as your surgery month!.. I wanted to check in and see how everyone was doing... Tomorrow I'll be 9 months out, I see my surgeron on the 10th for my check up. Things are going well although I have noticed that my want for food is back... Bad foods.. not fast foods but things that I should not be eating,... So that has been hard... My kids are back in school as of today So I'm going to get back into my routine.. I was a slacker over the summer with my walking.
I wish you all well...
~Kelly

353/324.5/299/193/180/165
high/consult(4/18/07)/surgery weight/current(08/28/08)/hopeful goal/ultimate goal
Surgery date 12/04/07...299 lbs... Ticker is from consult date.



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sweetpea4u
., NH
Member Since: 05/25/07
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Topic: RE: Question for other Decembers
southern belle52~~~~sounds like your doing well then!. i eat more than the 60 grams of protein a day too!. i shoot for 80 or more..........

wow! your doing awesome with the fluid intake. you must be drinking allllllll day long!

my dr didn't give me a gola weight either. i don't think my dr gives anyone a goal weight. i set one for myself to get to. then if i think i can go lower i will..oh yes i will!.... i just set it for a normal bmi( kinda in the mid range)

i like coming in here and seeing how others from our month are doing. it's to bad it so darn slow in here!








 

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southernbelle52
Jacksonville, AL
Member Since: 08/19/07
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Topic: RE: Question for other Decembers
He just tells me protein first.........etc. When I saw him at six months I asked about the calories and he said, "I bet you aren't eating 1200." I said you are right, I eat about 600-800. He was pleased with my weight loss. He also won't give me a goal weight either. He just tells me I will know when it's time to quit losing. The nut is not much help either.

I also use the dailyplate for tracking. I like it so much I became a gold member.
  Vickie 






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barbccrn
Las Vegas, NV
Member Since: 10/15/07
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Topic: RE: Question for other Decembers
Why won't they give you your calorie needs/guidelines?? I saw my surgeon when I was 7 months out. Told him that I was eating 750-900 calories/day and he said that was perfect.

I use dailyplate.com to log my daily intake. Its great!!! Has an extensive library of foods listed. Hasn't been anything that I haven't been able to find nutrition info on.

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southernbelle52
Jacksonville, AL
Member Since: 08/19/07
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Topic: RE: Fear of Failure
I completely understand what you are talking about. Since my surgery I have lost 113 pounds and for a total of 150 pounds since I began to check into wls. I have gone from a 26/28 to a size 12 pants. Since last Thursday I have gained 5 pounds. I know I must be retaining water because I have not eaten over 900 calories in any one given day. I am just frustrated at the moment because I have never stalled and this is definitely a first.
I believe as long as you have the fear, you will be careful and not gain the weight back.
Good luck in your endeavors.
  Vickie 






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southernbelle52
Jacksonville, AL
Member Since: 08/19/07
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Topic: RE: Question for other Decembers
Thank you so much for replying. I usually get more protein than that and I eat usually around 700 to 1000 calories per day. Today I have had about 190 oz, of water.
Good to know I am doing what someone else does.
  Vickie 






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sweetpea4u
., NH
Member Since: 05/25/07
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Topic: RE: Question for other Decembers
i was told that i should be eating
between 800-1000 per day until my one year appointment.
at least 60 grams protein
over 64 oz of water
and always eat protein first








 

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southernbelle52
Jacksonville, AL
Member Since: 08/19/07
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Topic: Question for other Decembers
Hi my surgeon and nut won't tell me how many calories I should be consuming. How many calories do you all eat per day and do you keep track?
Thanks.
  Vickie 






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jonelle32514
Pensacola, FL
Member Since: 09/11/07
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Topic: RE: Time to Check In Again!
I had surgery on 12/31 and I am down 138 lbs since that day. I am in a S top and size 6 bottom.  I have issues with my skin. Standing up, I look good, laying down is another story. I had no idea that I have so much excess skin.  I am hoping a TT is in my future.  My goal weight is 135, my Dr's goal weight was 160-165. 

I still have food issues. Bread, pasta and red meat hurt my pouch. 

I saw a picture of me pre-op and about died. I can't believe I was that big. I still haven't told anyone about my surgery. Its my secret.  I have decided it will be my secret forever. 

 278/143/135
SurgeryWeight/Current/Goal
5'10"

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INQE
THORNTON, CO
Member Since: 10/07/07
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Topic: RE: December 20th People How the heck are ya???
I think I am doing pretty good...not as good as some.  I have lost 87.6lbs since the week before my surgery which was 12/15/07 and my surgery was on 12/22/07.  I really feel like I should be over the 100lbs marker by now.  But, my nutritionist and surgeon say I'm still doing good.  Not great, but good.  I still haven't "plateaued" knock on wood....so I still will lose about 1-2lbs per week.  Also, I have had NO, NONE, NEIN complications.  So, I wonder if that's why I am losing slightly slower than others. I have little to no dumping and I can eat anything....which is not good. but, luckily my pouch still helps me keep quantity in check.  if I try to overdo it, I feel it right away and it's no problem to stop.  even though I feel like it's a little slow, I am reassured knowing that at this pace I should still be under 200 by my surgiversary which makes me feel tons better! My first goal is to get to the 100lbs club and then second is to get under 200.  I feel like I'm on my way! 


 

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sweetpea4u
., NH
Member Since: 05/25/07
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Topic: RE: Fear of Failure
i feel that all the time!.........
stay strong!








 

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sweetpea4u
., NH
Member Since: 05/25/07
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Topic: RE: Time to Check In Again!
ok. time for a checkin!

hi!

a little over 8 months. dec 18th was the day
i've lost 99 pounds since i began the program and 80 pounds since surgery. i guess i am a slower loser!. but i'll take it. i want to lose another 39 pounds, that will put me in the middle of a normal bmi........i would love to make that gol by my one year, but that is another 39 pounds to lose by dec 18. so i'm not sure my body is going to do that!.... as long as i keep going in the right direction i'm happy.....

i'm not real adventurous with my food choices, i tend to eat alot of the ssmae stuff. i guess i get a little nervous of stuff making me sick. i don't throw up and haven't gotten foamies since the very beginning

i'm like genisis, i have not shared about my wls to basicly anyone, i personally find it very personal and did not want to be under the magnifying glass......i certainly don't lie about it, i just don't get into any details......... " it's been alot of hard work, changing my eating plan, and working out regularly "..........people don't really question it to much really proabably cuz they have seen me go up and down like a yo yo through the years..........and they probably are saying"oh here she goes again".....lol

i've been losing hair. but i do have a ton of hair to begin with, but i'm looking forward to it stopping! nobody can actually tell i'm losing it, but i know kinda thing

i just found out from my surguen that i have to have my gallbladder out...... BUMMER~... first he was thinking it was an internal hernia. but now the test result are in  GALLBLADDER....ugggggggggg. very bad timing for me too with work...... i just keep shaking my haed and wishing it would all just go away, but i know it's not going to and these attacks will continue and proabbly get worse or more frequent....

i'm so happy to hear from a few of you that were in dec also!. keep up the hard work and post away! i like eharing about everyone from the month of december








 

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scrappergirl
Inland Empire, CA
Member Since: 10/27/06
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Topic: RE: Time to Check In Again!

I had surgery on 12/28 and I've lost 82 lbs (I'm a Lite weight). I watch things carefully as I easily gain the weight back. Thats what happened at the beginning of August, I went on a short vacation and had fun eating way to much. 4 lbs in the blink of an eye. I learned a good lesson even with my tool I must be careful and pay attention. I'm back on track now and  everyday getting closer to my goal weight.

Bekki  

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Kelly73
Waynesboro, PA
Member Since: 10/06/07
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Topic: RE: Time to Check In Again!
I had surgery on 12/4 and am down 125lbs, only 3 lbs from goal. I am wearing a size 10/11 pants and a medium/large top. My skin is sagging terribly, especially at my arms and pouch area. In fact if I were to have some plastic surgery I am sure that I would be able to fit into a size 5 at largest, unfortunately my insurance won't cover it and I don't have that kind of money. I would much rather be this size with sagging skin than heavy so I am not complaining at all. I know that I look much better and I get compliments a lot and see men looking at me, which is a great feeling. I was exercising regulary before baseball season began for the boys and am now just getting back into it. I actually played church league softball this summer and had fun, although it was odd readjusting to my new body. I do not regret one day that I had this surgery, in fact it is just the opposite. My friend convinced me to join Match.com and I met an incredible man. The relationship is new but I see good things in the future, hopefully. There are lots of pictures on my page if you want to check them out.
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Genisis
NV
Member Since: 06/05/07
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Topic: RE: Fear of Failure
Hi Becky, I think that this is a fear that we all share. The past two weeks were dreadful for me because I didn't lose an ounce or an inch. But now, I'm down 4 pounds in 4 days and less than 50 pounds to go before I hit goal! We all have stalls, or hit bumps in the road, but the most important thing is how we choose to deal with them. It is completely normal to be eating a little more at 8 months out than you were previously. As long as you're following the rules and eating the right foods, you should be fine. Just try to stay the course and the scale will be your friend again soon. If you see yourself veering toward emotional eating, go to a support group, talk to a friend, counselor, nutritionist, doctor, ME, ANYbody!!! Just remember, food is fuel, nothing more. It can't/won't fill a void, or make life better, it will just create more problems in the long run. You've been there, you know it doesn't work so there's no need to go back. That's why we're here, to help keep you on track.
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Genisis
NV
Member Since: 06/05/07
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Topic: Time to Check In Again!
Well, it is that time again. Time to share all of your successes, struggles, blessings, "wow" moments, and other random thoughts. We are all somewhere around 8 months post-op now. Hard to believe isn't it? I know I haven't been around much lately, but you know how the story goes: life just gets in the way. I'm just glad that RNY helped give me my life back! I hope everyone is doing well, staying on track, and moving closer to goal each and every day. I'm currently down 118 pounds since surgery. I'm running out of clothes What's a girl to do But trust me, I'm not complaining. I can't believe I tried on size 10 jeans a couple of weeks ago, and tada......they fit!!! Craziest part of it is, I couldn't bring myself to buy them. There's some type of weird disconnect between how I think of myself and what I see in the mirror. I still expect the sales lady to point me toward the plus size department. I'm starting to wonder if/when my mind will catch up with my body. That's probably my biggest issue right now, body image. I'm starting to notice the saggy skin issues more and more every day, but I focus on the exercise so that I'll be healthy and have some good muscle tone before embarking on the plastics journey. I have no doubt, there's a tummy tuck in my future. No real food issues to speak of. I'm one of those post-wlsers that can pretty much eat whatever. Of course, that doesn't mean I'm going to...lol After all, wouldn't that defeat the purpose? As some of you may remember, only one person close to me knows that I had this surgery. Well the fateful moment is getting closer. In about 2 months I will be seeing family members that I haven't seen in well over a year. I'm already starting to get nervous, anxious and excited about their reactions to the new me. I still have about 45 pounds to go, some days it seems like I'm never going to make it, but I just keep trying to remind myself that its only been 8 months. I have to force myself to see how far I've come rather than how much more I have to go. Okay, okay, okay......so, I've rambled on enough, now it's your turn...............
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barbccrn
Las Vegas, NV
Member Since: 10/15/07
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Topic: RE: Fear of Failure
Hi Becky...I can relate!!! I lost only 4 pounds from June-July and then BAM...lost 7 lbs in 12 days.HUH??????? I too have been noticing myself tending to graze some days. STOP STOP STOP!!!! I have to practice more self control. The good news...started in a tight 26 and now comfortably in a 14. Strange part...every day that I put on my size 14 jeans I have this awful feeling that I won't be able to get them past my knees! Driving myself crazy. I slacked off and didn't log my daily intake after month 3. Well...back on track...started logging on dailyplate July 1. Haven't missed a day...if nothing else it keeps me accountable. I don't know if any of us will ever feel comfortable enough to "just eat and not analyze everything we put in our mouth". I still have about 65 more lbs to lose...and this is gonna be harder than the first 8 months put together. Still coming here to OH every day...the support here is what drives me in the right direction. Keep in touch,my Dec. Sista!!!!!!!!!
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jephiner
Canada
Member Since: 10/09/07
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Topic: RE: Fear of Failure
OMG. Wow - what a great and terrifying message thread. It was great because I am terrified of failing and it was so good to hear I am not alone in that. It was terrifying because I am from a small city in Canada where this surgery is extremely rare and I had no idea how many people gain the weight back. What a kick in the arse!. I have been drinking with meals and grazing. In the back of my mind I have been telling myself I had to get it in check however I don't think I realized how close to being on a very dangerous road I really was. Thank you for sharing your experience. Hopefully I will be able to learn from this and get back on track......
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jephiner
Canada
Member Since: 10/09/07
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Topic: RE: Hello Everyone...
HI Calli, I'm Jenni. I had surgery on December 17th. I am down 85 lbs and it has been hard and I still worry that I am not going to lose any more weight (I have stalled for the last month) but I feel so much better physically and I love that. I think the hardest thing for me has been the head trip. I still drink when I eat my meals because I am so freaked out I am not going to get enough food...I know I need to stop but I struggle with feeling like I am anywhere near satisfied with only a half dozen bites of food. I also struggle with how often I eat (during PMS I could eat every 2 hours if I wasn'****ching myself) and eating late at night. I personally feel like hardest part is just starting because before I didn't have options but now I have to make conscious life style changes and I am so scared I will just fall back into my old habits. I have started yoga and am really liking that. I am starting to feel stronger and I know it helps me with my stress reduction which I think is a key component of me changing my lifestyle to be healthier. We are all in this together because like you said - only we understand what each other is going through. I really appreciate being able to have a place to share my successes, fears, hopes and dreams.
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kellymb
Albuquerque, NM
Member Since: 10/29/07
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Topic: RE: Fear of Failure
I'm glad I have a healthy fear of regaining or eating the wrong things. I had IBS for 15 years and know what it feels like to be sick all the time. I've eaten the wrong foods twice since my RNY in Dec. '07 and paid the consequences with vomiting and pain. Won't ever do that again! Also, I have a cousin who had a RNY and has gained back nearly all her weight from grazing and snacking. Sadly, I'm learning from her mistakes. Also, I find that keeping a daily food journal keeps me accountable to myself. My husband has strict orders (from me) to nicely mention to me if I seem to get something I shouldn't have or am eating too much. At first I didn't like it, but I need the food cops to keep me on track. Becky, don't you FEEL great!!!? I love how much better my body feels now and the energy I have, plus compliments from family keep me going. I know you will do fine and when you want to eat, eat some protein, it will fill you up more and keep you full longer. Also, up the water. I suck at exercise, but do the best I can. Seems like I get on a stall every month, then lose the next month. Hang in there and keep in touch when you need to. Kelly
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KimJ
Sacramento, CA
Member Since: 02/24/06
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Topic: RE: Fear of Failure
I have a lot of fear as well.... I have friends who have had RNYs and only one reached her goal weight, the other 4 have gained MUCH of their weight back (all had the surgery within the past 5 years).... I am always afraid, I hope the fear will help keep me from blowing back up and will help keep me on track following the "Rules for My Tool."
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