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    Topic: RE: 1st day post-op.... is this normal?
     Kelle, congrats finally your wait is over.
    Expect everything to hurt for a while, I had a rotten 4-5 weeks. You are raw inside and the tunnels take 6 -8 weeks to heal ( so the Surgeon says).
    Sounds like you are doing well.
    Congrats!
    Topic: RE: Liquid Diet - Day 5.........My stomach has revolted.......
     Kelly-Ane, How did it go?????? msg me privately pls
    J
    Topic: RE: 6 weeks out tomorrow-coffee not tasting too good
     RNY 6 weeks ago, been a rough recovery.  I need coffee to work ( start next week). I have tried it a few thimes and dont like the taste. what the heck, loved coffee, it is barely tolerable as iced coffee with a little milk, what's happened, my tastes have changed??????
    iS THIS JUST PART OF THE EARLY RECOVERY????
    Topic: RE: Back home after RNY-9 day update
     sorry to hear you are still nauseous, there is nothing worse. If the nausea started at the same time you started this prescription, get another antibiotic. There are many types, I remember having one (years ago) that was rough on the stomach. That's my suggestion anyway.
    As for the vit. pill, it seems go down okay if I take it when I feel okay,no consitant timing. The flavor is there as it dissolves.
    Protein is still a challenge, I am trying to eat more shellfish (scallops, smoked oysters on a cracker etc) as shellfish is really high in protein.
    i eat what I crave and that is not sweet stuff eg ensure tooooo sweet, protein shake too sweet. So I am eating cheese and meat/fish/shellfish every meal. A meal might consist of 2 ritz crackers loaded with cheese, 1/4 beef soup. Such tiny meals. I know I am not getting the protein in. I visited a friend the other night, she is over a year out. She can eat 2 cups of food now, I will be thrilled to get to 1 cup ( long way off ) then you can look like you can eat.
    I wasnt able to return to work at 3 weeks. I will go back on Jul 3rd. 
    was so weak, now getting stronger. I think my blood sugar was so low it was making me sick too. I am not a diabetic but if I tried to force down some ensure with coffee ot anything sweet I was so sick. The dietican thought that I was so sensitive to the sugar spike so I now drink/sip a perrier/pure OJ mix and it seems to have helped even out the blood sugar so ot so hypoglycemic.
    I am hoping to go to Popeyes today and get samples of different proteins, I plan to hide in soup or coffee or something. Can't do hot drinks yet, you noticed your taste is heightened? hope I drnk coffee again one day.
    eating is such a challenge, I am going to eat what I crave because I have to eat. So yesterday made thick beef tomato borcht, cheese crackers and pickles, a perogy, if I cant desire the food I will not get it down pyschologically. Mt dietician is very supportive, that helps a lot.
    Topic: RE: Sick and Surgery is a week away.... :(
     hope you are better and ready for the big surgery
    Good luck
    Topic: RE: Ensure HP vs Store Brand HP drink
     Hi Kelly-Anne 
    where did you get the zero flavour whey protein, will have to hide it in food, not even getting close to enough with this nausea
    J
    Topic: RE: Ensure HP vs Store Brand HP drink
     Hi Kellie, the President's choice brand HP is identical to Boost and Ensure and a fraction of the regular price of boost and ensure. Another tip ensure has a club where they send you coupons ($4.00 OFF A 6 PACK,no expiry) so wait until ensure goes on sale then use the coupons. the more you use the more they send.
    I have to use the choc. HP drink in coffee (50/50) otherwise I gag on the sweetness. My WWC dietician could care less what brand I drink, just compare your labels.

    Topic: RE: Reintroduction
     A, I see Birch on the 11th also, can't remember the time ? 10:30, maybe see you there
    J
    Topic: RE: EBSG Support Group - June Meeting
     wow we are both up early, damn birds chirping at 4 am. Hey how you doing, any loss since surgery? I am down 24 lbs, too fast.
    Never did see Karmelli
    J
    Topic: RE: looking for a surg sister, june 5
    just wanted to wish you a safe and uncomplicated surgery and a speedy recovery!!!!!!!!!!!!,
    this forum provides good support, if you need more encouragement post on  the RNY surgical forum and you will get lots of support from experienced people all over the US.
    I'm at 2.5 weeks post RNY, its been a rough recovery, bought all this stuff but didnt want it e.g. Jello.
    The hospital food is horrible, if you have a favorite soup ( purreed or broth) have someone bring it to you. Like apple sauce? bring it in, I survive on flat diet GA, no pop in the hospital menu.
    take lip gloss, soap, shampoo, flip flops, your favorite pillow, your robe, anything for comfort
    Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Topic: RE: EBSG Support Group - June Meeting
    Hi A.., still too weak ( and nauseous ) to make this meeting maybe next meeting. I could never make it from the parking lot to the WWC building.
    Thanks for the well wishes. So you guys at a meeting soon
    Topic: RE: EBSG Support Group - June Meeting
     Hi A...., this is your ER companion from last SAT. night, the girl next door ( stretcher bay ).
    Hope things went okay and the HAs are gone.
    I was admitted out Tuesday, throw clots, hate hospital. Been a rough 15 days since RNY been so nauseous.
    Just wanted to see how you were, and the lovely wife?

    Topic: RE: Back home after RNY-9 day update
    Hi Everyone, thanks so much for the support!!!!!!!!!!

    Been a rough 9 days but getting some repreives now where I don't have nausea.
    Been impossible to eat or drink much with the nausea, during the few mild nausea hours want real food like 5 pieces of penne.
    So sick of yoghart, not interested in anything sweet ( apple sauce etc) makes gag.
    Weight is falling off, probably most of it is water and couldn't/can't stomach much food
    13 lbs in 9 days - toooo fast.
    If at 9 days you can tolerate soft solids ( penne ) can start adding them carefully???

    Had 2 sips of a McD. fruit smoothie yesterday, tasted and felt great ( needed calories, isnt that a change in thinking hey?) Experienced dumping for the first time.
    Wow not 5 mins later had terrible left sided abdo pain for 30-45 mins. Guess it was sweeter than it tasted. Wow hard introduction to dumping.
    Incisions healing beautifully.
    So sick of TV ( and my own company), anyone else get nausea for so long?
    Topic: RE: Back home after RNY
    Well it will be a week today, rough week. Surgery Tuesday, got  nausea, a fever and hight heart rate that night so they went back in again the next day.
    Ended up just being unable to fully inflate my lungs so got some fluid on my lungs. Apparantly my surgery and healing was great, surgeon was great too.
    ( You see more of the residents, they were great too)
    Had not issue with this before but with an extended belly and horrible nausea, deep breathing was the last thing on my mind.
    Out friday discharged myself a day early due to an overcrowding issue ( don't ask ) knew I would be more comfortable at home, still had horrible nausea until yesterday.
    Now it's off and on and becoming more tolerable.
    I knew I was dehydrating but switched to a non sweet gatorade with tons of ice, finally at about 400 mls a day. 
    I am sure some of this nausea is related to getting rid of two sets of anesthetic.
    The taste of the sweet stuff they offer you in hospital made me more nauseous. 
    Hard to eat things I never liked like scrambled eggs, hot soft cereal etc. so went for what I craved and hoped to keep down. By this stage I had so little calories  or fluid over 6 days I was not concerned about what the dietican would say. I did keep to the one food, thicker fluid type as laid out in the post surgery instructions.
    Nausea is starting to ease up been awake since 1 am, nausea meds finally starting to work. 
    Still to weak to walk one flight of stairs without having a 10 min recovery time.
    Its been a rough week, cant look at the stuff I bought ahead of time, the diet jelly, protein puddings eek the only thing that I enjoy is about 2 large teaspoons on Raseberry sorbet (a life saver)
    The pain was really just discomfort for the first two or two, 6 days out I came lay comfortablely on my stomach.
    Even though everyone said 'WALK" I couldnt with the horrible nausea.

    I thought long and hard about writing this as hate to discourage those waiting for surgery.
    It's better you know you might have a rough week, hope your first week goes smoothly.
    Topic: RE: the wait is over - I have a date -May 15th
    Hi Alvina,
    Someone asked that yesterday at the 'maintaining the change" session. the answer was 'If you are a bit heavier around the abdomenal area they try to shrink the liver in people they belive to have fatty livers. Depends on one's liver enzymes also. 
    (The blood work will show the liver enzyme levels ).
    Probably 2/3 of the group yesterday had to have the pre op liquid diet. I have heard some surgeons have different practices (pre op liquid diet) but my RN didnt really think that was a factor.
    She also said it is harder to retract a larger liver ( because it is fatty throughout ) out of the way during the surgery. 
    So that seemed logical to me.

    So interesting to see you did the same thing as me, went in leaning towards the sleeve and going for the RNY. I expected some push to the surgeon's preference but that didnt happen.
    I have thought about it for many weeks, wonderng if the RNY was too drastic, but after much thought I am happy with my decision.

    I am excited and a bit nervous about the whole introducing each food item back into my diet, seems like such a process, one item at a time.  Will I be able to tolerate it again or wont I......

    Anyway 2.5 days to surgery, as Keelan said (I think it was her ) 'before you know it you will be being wheeled into the OR ....."  Wish me luck..........


    Topic: RE: Wonderful Turn of Events!!
    Great Kellie, we all felt your pain and disappointment.
    5 days and counting for me, interesting all the things that go through your head when you are close to the knife.
    It's a new and exciting life, a second chance to be the best we can be.
    Waiting for a date is a killer, hope you are more patient than I was :)
     
    Topic: RE: the wait is over - I have a date -May 15th
     Hi Kelly-Ann, it was an interesting process within a month I went from band to sleeve to RNY. I did a huge amount of research, I read the informal research ( read all the different surgical forums on this site ) , watched all the surgeries on youtube, then looked at the medical research read some 80 different comparitive surgery papers and looked at long term outcomes world wide. I looked at the revision rates and complication rates for all three surgeries.

    What I cae out with was that because the sleeve is relatively new, it lacked the research data to show long term success. The gold standard (RNY) seemed to be the best for all outcomes, the idea of malabsorbsion bothered me but the more I looked into it the less the malnutriten seemed to be true. So I went in to see the surgeon well prepared and hoping he would direct me in one direction or another. He didnt but he eleviated my fears about the RNY, so that what I finally decided on.

    Many responses to my questions ( on this web site ) on which direction to go, stressed the 'do the research".
    I was lucky enough to be in the med. field so I could read the heavy medical research. I encourage you to do as much research as possible, informal ( from those who have had the surgeries  ) and formal from medical publications. ( avoid the sites that "sale" the surgeries )

    If you are in Edm. WWC offers the names of a few patients who are prepared to talk to you about their surgeries.
    Good luck


    Topic: RE: the wait is over - I have a date -May 15th
     I saw the surgeon and he said nothing other than you will be put on the wait list and called.
    The staff guessed 4-6 weeks but I knew it would be longer.

    Ask him, every surgeon has a different load ( number on their wait list ).

    So you wait for the surgery coordinator to call you.

    If you are in Edmonton, the summer is bad as their slates are reduced due to summer vacation. For example my surgeon Birch has two Tuesday a month to perform his bariatric surgeries. So with vacation, his and the other staffing issues he may do one day a month until fall.

    If you can talk to Lorraine she could give you a more accurate guess of when it might be. She knows how many ahead of you, if you dont need a pre surgery liquid diet then you could go on a cancellation list. But be ready to go, short notice, PACS clinic etc etc etc.

    who is your surgeon? know what you want? RNY/VS/AB? if you dont research read all the forums and decide before you see the surgeon, they will not direct you, you have to decide.
    Good luck keep posting okay :)

    Topic: RE: the wait is over - I have a date -May 15th
     Thanks Kee,
    You are right, time is going fast. PACS clinic today and only 4 more work days left. IF it doesnt get postponed, that's always a risk.

    I know this is the right thing to do but certainly remember one terrible thing a person on the RNY forum said... "you are mutilating your organs" makes one wonder doesnt it.

    Still I have tried everything else and there are so many sucess stories, last minute jitters I guess.
    So tired of being tired and pain in feet and knees, all because they were not designed to carry an extra 100 lbs.

    Want to live again and not be ashamed of my body at a party or a couples event.
    3 days is what they have told me.
    Thanks for the kind thoughts, really helps
    Topic: RE: the wait is over - I have a date -May 15th
     Finally I have a date, on a cancellation I was called, having a RNY on May 15th
    So excited, anyone else having surgery that day?
    Any words of wisdom? 3 nights stay i hear...
    Topic: RE: god this waiting ( for a surgery date ) is killing me
     Hi Kelly -Anne,
    Not 100% sure but my guess is that because I don't carry the majority of me weight in the upper abdomen; likely I dont have the fatty liver and upper adbo weight to fight with through the surgery.

    The surgeon makes the decision about the pre-surgery liquid diet and he decided I didnt need it.
    Ask your RN or dietian, they could give you a better answer ( or confirm mine )
    Topic: RE: god this waiting ( for a surgery date ) is killing me
    Thanks for the tip, will let Lorraine knew my chart indicates I dont need the pre-op liquid diet
     
    Topic: RE: Inspiration post from RNY forum-worth a read
     This is worth a read, I found it on the RNY forum. This gentleman eliminates any doubts I had-:
    ----------------------------------------------------

    I have most of the requirements completed for gastric bypass surgery but continue to struggle with the decision to follow through, so I created a list of sacrifices I would have to make if I decided to go through with the surgery. Here it is. 


    Things I will have to sacrifice because of gastric bypass surgery. 

    1. Being self conscious about my weight. 
    2 Low self esteem because of weight. 
    3. High blood pressure
    4. Sleep apnea
    5. Increasing blood sugar
    6. Lack of respect from others
    7. Increased chance of joint problems
    8. Not wanting to sit in booths at restaurants
    9. Not being able to fit in normal kayaks. 
    10. Not wanting to bike because of weight. 
    11. Frustration with shopping for clothes. 
    12. Not wanting to swim. 
    13. Not wanting to walk through my own house without a shirt on. 
    14. Not being appealing to my wife. 
    15. Not wanting to get my picture taken. 
    16. Not wanting to look in the mirror. 
    17. Feeling like a failure. 
    18. Listening to sarcastic remarks from others about my weight. 
    19. Feeling like I'm blowing my witness as a Christian because of my lack of self control. 
    20. Feeling guilty when I binge eat. 
    21. Lack of motivation. 
    22. Being short of breath
    23. Thinking of myself as gross
    24. Feeling like I'm not living up to my potential
    25. Overall feeling of crappiness 

    I think I've made my decision. 
    --------------------------------------
    Good for him!
    Topic: RE: god this waiting ( for a surgery date ) is killing me
     OH new this makes sense why only 7 people are ahead and the long wait.
    Two surgery day a month for Birch and only one in May. Maybe 4 or 5 surgeries a day hmmm.
    I saw him March 26th so I am 2 weeks behind in the process than you are.
    So that makes it late June or mid July. And he is taking summer vacation.
    Great at least that makes it easier to understand.
    Apt. 2 weeks prior for PAC clinic sounds right.
    You are having the RNY also I see.
    Boy did I ever go into 'last supper mentality" for two weeks.
    I have to stop, funny I posted on the RNY surgical forum ( about the wait and Last supper mentality.
    Wow such supportive responses and the last supper thing is sooo common.
    The Alberta forum is very quiet, the surgical forum ( US/Canada wide) provides immediate support.

    I wonder if they clinic had post surgical support networks, I am sure it has.
    Been to the 'preparing for Surgery" sessions but not the 'maintaining the change" session.
    Have you been to that one yet? mine is booked for  May 9th, if I remember correctly.

    Anyone found any non bitter liquid protein supplements to add to any liquid? 
    Havent tried the specialty stores like GMC or Popeyes yet, one of the sources (? whey or soy ? ) is so bitter I cant cover the taste in soup or anything. 
    Suggestions on tasteless protein additives for the future?
    Thanks for the response Cutegirl01.
    Topic: RE: god this waiting ( for a surgery date ) is killing me
     Waiting for Lorraine to call, wonder how many surgeries ( Bariatric ) Birch does a month?
    I called her she said maybe 7 people in front of me, still no date.
    Apparently I dont need the presurgery liquid diet.
    Wonder how soon the PAC clinic date will be before the surgery....?
    Might be late May, might be June, hate this waiting can't plan one's life.
    I know .. I should just be patient.... anyone else waiting impatiently?