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Bette B.
on 9/19/12 8:02 pm

Topic: RE: Need your advice

John:

I just wanted to give you a wave from BRIDGEPORT!

Banded since 2003, maintaining my weight loss and still knowing I made the right choice for me. If you want information on what life is like for a band success, have questions or need help and suggestions on band life, feel free to message me. Otherwise, just read the Lapband Forum.

Bette B.
on 8/17/12 11:47 am

Topic: RE: Anyone want to be a part of history?

Stamford is running a CPR-training event on August 25, trying to break the world record for most people gettting CPR-certified in one day. . .

http://www.handsforlife.org/

Bette B.
on 8/17/12 11:45 am

Topic: RE: Looking for an OB/GYN in F airfield CT

OMG, I haven't seen you in a hundred years!!!!

Bette B.
on 8/6/12 8:45 pm

Topic: RE: Looking for an OB/GYN in F airfield CT

I've used John Manning in Bridgeport for years.

Bette B.
on 5/28/12 3:22 pm

Topic: RE: hello

AND still leave a tip!

Bette B.
on 5/28/12 12:50 pm

Topic: RE: OT Repost: Tattooed? Share your story

If, as the sayings go, “a picture is worth a thousand words” and “every picture tells a story”, what does it say about a person when the picture in question has actually become a part of their human anatomy?

Tattoos and those who have them used to be considered to be from the “wrong side of life”: prisoners, gang members, bikers, sailors doing god-only-knows-what with god-knows-who as they travelled the world. “Good people” from “good families” wouldn’t be caught dead getting one.

A tattooed woman was nearly unthinkable, unless you were to visit your local freak show or, perhaps, a Polynesian island.

We all know that things have changed quite a bit now that tattooing is in its heyday. In fact, it’s become so commonplace as to be mundane. And yes, you might say that in some cases, we’ve gone more than a bit too far. Although, upon reflection (and some in-depth Googling), “a bit” may be somewhat of an understatement.

Yes, that IS an eyeball getting tattooed.

But what’s the story behind all the ink we’re seeing in today’s society? It can’t all be explained by too much booze while on Spring Break in Cancun and too many bachelor parties in Vegas. While a lot of ink can be passed off as a mere impulse buy, one that’s no different from a Snickers bar at the cash register, most body art can be explained in deeply personal terms: “I had this done when . . . “, “I got this design to honor . . .”

There are serious reasons and crazy reasons. Sad ones and joyful ones. There are tattoos to memorialize lost loved ones and to act a reminder of good times. They celebrate birth and death and pretty much everything in between.

To those of you who are among the inked, what was your reason? Why that design, on that part of your body, andthat point in your life? What were you thinking? Were you thinking at all, or acting on impulse? Was it your first and last tattoo, or just another in a long line in your, shall we say, personal collection?

I want to hear about it. I want to know your inspiration or, if you will, your INKSPIRATION. “My Inkspiration: The Tattooed Tell Their Tales” is a work in progress which will, if God is willing, allow me – as researcher/author and, at times, photographer – to tell your story.

I want to hear the where and why and when behind what is now a part of you forever. Tell me your story. Or, “stories”, if you have more than one. If there’s one thing I like more than looking at and admiring someone’s body art, it’s hearing about the genesis of its very existence.

For more information on how you can be a part of this, email me at MyInkStory@yahoo.com. And let YOUR tale be told!

Bette B.
on 5/28/12 9:25 am

Topic: RE: hello

Had 1/4 of a Mike's Hard Limeade yesterday and I was loopy.

Bette B.
on 5/25/12 5:09 am

Topic: RE: A place in CT to buy protein-rich foods

A friend of mine who lives in Stratford was telling me about some PB that she wants me to try. Maybe it's the same thing. I'm looking forward to trying it!

Bette B.
on 4/3/12 6:04 am

Topic: RE: A place in CT to buy protein-rich foods

A friend took me here the other day. Lots of options for grab-and-go stuff that's not a sweet shake or sweet protein bar (which I really, really get tired of after a while.) We went to the one in Orange, but there are others.

www.nutmegstatenutrition.com/index.php

Bette B.
on 2/21/12 3:26 am

Topic: RE: 2 days post surgery!

YAY! Glad to hear it!

Bette B.
on 2/15/12 9:38 am

Topic: RE: 2 days post surgery!

The gas you are experiencing is, most likely, the gas the doc puts in your abdominal cavity during surgery. There is little you can do, other than getting up and walking around as much as possible, to get it resolved. It usually takes its sweet time to dissipate, usually about a week.

Bette B.
on 6/30/11 9:33 pm

Topic: RE: Dr's in FFld County (GP) not Bariatric Surgeon

Glenn Rich, up in Trumbull. He's my PCP and a great guy! Don't know if he takes Anthem.

Bette B.
on 3/20/11 11:29 am

Topic: RE: 3 weeks to BALD BETTE!

Somewhere today . . .

there are parents hoping against hope and praying to God that they won't hear that dreaded word: "cancer" from their child's doctor tomorrow.

With your help, we may see a day when that never has to happen again.

The St. Baldrick’s Foundation makes grants to research institutions to find new cures for childhood cancer, and to find treatments to ensure a better quality of life for patients and survivors. The Foundation funds research projects conducted by established pediatric cancer experts, as well as younger professionals who will be the experts of tomorrow. Funds also enable hundreds of local institutions to participate in national pediatric cancer clinical trials, offering the best available care for every child.

This is my fifth year of shaving my head for the St. Baldrick's Foundation. I've set a goal of a thousand dollars from friends like you guys who are supporting my tonsorial madness by sponsoring me in this year's St. Baldrick's Day head shaving for kids with cancer. THANK YOU to everyone who has taken time out of their busy day - and dollars out of their wallets - to help me in the fight against childhood cancers. Thanks to friends like you, I've EXCEEDED my goal, but there is always room for more donations!

At St. Baldrick’s events, volunteers get bald to raise money and stand in solidarity with kids who typically lose their hair during cancer treatments. Since the first head-shaving event on St. Patrick’s Day in 2000, St. Baldrick’s has contributed more than $50.5 million dollars to pediatric cancer research and held events around the globe. In fact, St. Baldrick's Foundation is second only to the United States government in monies given to fund grants for pediatric cancer research, and Team Brent, of which I am a part, is the number one fund raising team in the nation.

If you are interested in becoming a "shavee", participating as a barber, or just want to learn more, please visit stbaldricks.org

Or, if you can find it in your heart (or wallet, or pocketbook) to sponsor me in my journey, please visit www.stbaldricks.org/participants/donorlist/participantid/414808

and click on the big, green "Make a Donation" box.

Thank you so, so much for your interest and thank you all for your continued support!

Love,
Bette B
Bold, Bald Broad

Bette B.
on 2/13/11 9:11 am

Topic: RE: OT: Unemployed? I need your thoughts

I'm working on an article/editorial about the myth of the "happily unemployed" that some in Congress have been discussing in the press: the belief that people actually LIKE not having to work, that they LIKE getting that paltry check every week and "not having to do anything" to get it, that the unemployed are content and comfortable with their revised income and prefer it to working.

If you are (or were until recently) unemployed, I'd like to hear your experience(s). You can certainly skip any questions that you are uncomfortable discussing. You can post here or, for privacy, respond by PM. NO NAMES or identifying details will be mentioned in what I write.

- where do you live?
- how long have you been out of work?
- how long were you at your previous job?
- what was your job prior to losing it?
- are you happy being unemployed?
- how many jobs have you applied for since you became unemployed?
- how many job interviews have you been on?
- are you struggling (financially, emotionally, physically), and how?
- are you still carrying health insurance? What are you monthly payments?
- what was your income PRIOR to losing your job, and what it is now?
- how many people are in your family? Their ages?
- what are your biggest fears about being unemployed?
- what is the WORST PART of being without a job?

Bette B.
on 1/10/11 2:45 pm

Topic: RE: INTRODUCE yourself....

Well, hideeho from Bpt!

Bette B.
on 1/9/11 9:37 pm

Topic: RE: INTRODUCE yourself....

Well, my list will have to be a little different from most, since I am 7+ years out of surgery. But here goes:

1. Bette
2. Bridgeport
3. December 2003
4. Timothy Ehrlich
5.. 376
6. Not sure. I'm trying to stay off the scale, since it makes me nuts.
7. Still December 2003
8. Goal Weight: 196 (achieved 18 months postop)
9. LOL -*****members so far back?
10. The Lapband was, and still is, the only surgical option that does not involve any permanent cutting, removing or resecting of the digestive tract. That is why I chose it,

Bette B.
on 1/9/11 9:33 pm

Topic: RE: surgery tomorrow

I think I lot of people do. There is sadness for having reached the point of NEEDING surgery; there is sadness in thinking that you will be losing a longtime though dysfunctional friend (food); there is sadness at the prospect of the unknown. Then, add to that the family difficulties you are dealing with, and the crying is totally explainable.

However, you should know that there is always support on OH, either here or on one of the many other boards. Don't be afraid to reach out!

Best of luck with your surgery and please let us know how everything goes!

Bette

Bette B.
on 12/12/10 6:43 pm

Topic: RE: OT: MIssing dog in Haddam/Colchester area!

Missing for two weeks. She's a very skittish rescue that got away in East Haddam and was last seen in Colchester a week ago. She's microchipped and wearing a collar.

She belongs to my good friend who is just heartbroken! If you see her (or HAVE seen her) please email me as soon as possible.

Bette B.
on 12/8/10 7:40 pm

Topic: RE: Anyone got the stones to join me?

I'll be the one with the really, really saggy white ass and the comfy, warm, all-about-the-coverage granny panties . . .

http://improveverywhere.com/2010/12/06/save-the-date-no-pants-subway-ride-2011/

The 10th Annual No Pants Subway Ride will take place on Sunday, January 9 in New York City. More info with the meeting point and start time will be posted to this site in early January. For now, save the date. You can RSVP on Facebook.

Bette B.
on 11/25/10 12:06 pm

Topic: RE: Happy Re-Birthday #8

Happy anniversary! My seventh is next week!

Bette B.
on 11/21/10 12:22 pm

Topic: RE: Revision Surgeons in CT?

IMHO? Tell Aranow to sit his ass down and damned well LISTEN to your problems and issues. You've given him enough money over the years that he OWES you that much respect.

As for the revision, tell me what you're thinking about having done and I'll see if I know anyone who's had that revision.

Bette B.
on 10/30/10 7:37 pm

Topic: RE: Dr. Floch/Dr. Ehrlich

No question - Tim Ehrlich. By a mile!

Bette B.
on 10/18/10 4:24 pm

Topic: RE: Frustrated with my doctors

What the hell. What's he gonna do - contact you ASAP to discuss it?

Bette B.
on 10/12/10 3:45 pm

Topic: RE: Frustrated with my doctors

The next time they want to get paid, tell THEM that you're busy and that they should leave a voice mail . . .

Bette B.
on 9/12/10 5:17 am

Topic: RE: Need someone to talk to ,Having problems healing

Have someone else look at it. Can you see your PCP?