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Can't hear what? *****iness?  Condescending attitude? Holier than though bull**** I'm sorry, but I chose  nicer words to describe that person and attempted to be civil . She hid behind the gap of cyberspace and plunked out advice with a malicious dose of sarcasm. If a person not hiding behind the Internet spoke to me the way she did, well let's just say I wouldn't be so nice.

Cover my ears and not hear what? I saw plenty of people say how she helped them. Good for them. I am glad some people were helped. All I saw---and I read a **** ton of posts---was a controlling, ill tempered shrew bent on being queen bee of the duodenal switch. (add in the fact that the dsfacts.com site is heavily peppered with her and her input. That in of itself is highly suspicious.) Which, frankly, aside from the band-wagoners on this particular part of OH, has yet to prove to me to be the gold standard of anything. I am still researching this. Hence, why I started poking around the DS boards to gain some insight. None to be found, I am afraid, unless I kissed her ass and followed her like a sheep. No thank you.

Her postings were filled with derogatory rhetoric and generally made me, or anyone else who dared to ask a question, feel like an ignorant moron for daring to ask.  Ridiculous.  

I initially tried to go over to the other site thinking that people had finally had enough of her, only to find out she had been banned from here. Good! I for one reported her several months ago for bullying. I read her bull**** story that smacks of Stephen King on a bender as to why all whatever happened. Oh my God, who the hell cares??? There is more to life than he said/she said on a damn Internet board!!! Get a ******g life.

Well, I hope that clears up whether or not I heard her. Yes, I heard a ***** try and tell me what she thought. And not as a helpful friend or someone who has been there. NO, it was a do as I say or suffer the consequences dictatorship of Queen of all that is Duodenal Switch!

I tried to be nice, but when someone is as cruel as she and markets it as "help", well then I guess Dr. Mengele was helpful too. I am done being nice. To hell with this particular part of OH. For every bad apple over here, there are dozens of good and caring people on OH. I just have to keep reminding myself of that.

I haven't been on the boards here at OH for the last couple of weeks thanks to work and holiday stress. I am lurking at work today and I was shocked to see all the ship jumping.

I cross post here and on the VSG boards because I am gearing up to revise my surgery.

What the heck happened here?

I did some reading and found they banned a frequent poster on the DS board. I have to be honest, I am so glad she is gone as her acid posts kept me away from some valuable information here. So I am not sorry about that happening. But what is up with the whole moderator free enviornment flipping the script and going Nazi?

Thanks for the input :)

 I'm guessing if she's been deactivated that she'll be back on with a new name--at least I hope so.

 I couldn't wait to go back to taking baths instead of showers.

Now I fit just fine, can even fit hubby in with me if I want, but what fat I do have is in the wrong places, and bones, particularly my spine on the floor of the tub is a drag.