Thanks, Jane for the response. I do like sunflower seeds also, but there are just so many calories in those and the soy nuts. I would probably eat a quarter cup of them. If I have liquids, that usually helps, as do sugar free popsicles. I will have to try a smoothie or protein shake in the evening. I do like popcorn, but don't have it often because it has made me sick. All those starchy things are really "red light foods"for me that I have to stay away from. If my kids are eating some, I may have a couple of small handfuls and call that a snack, but it still remains a challenge for me to stop and not to graze on it all night long. I am better off to not even touch it. (Light popcorn is one of the few snacks that my kids still have in the house. Like I said, I have to keep the chips and stuff out of the house because they are too tempting to me.)
Lester, thank you again for answering my many questions. I guess that thinking about how I can screw this up and become fat again EVERY time that I go to snack would be a great incentive!

I continue to work hard at making healthy lifestyle changes, such as walking 2 miles at least three times a week and being more active in general. Heck, I even climbed up on a playground the other day chasing after my 22 month old! Could have never fit up the ladder before! I just don't always feel that I have adequate control over my eating. Granted, I have totally changed what I eat and the amount that I eat, but still find myself grazing sometimes - and then I feel like I have no control. I am just going to have to keep working to cure myself of those bad habits that I have always had - even as a child.
Thanks again for all of the advice and encouragement.
God bless,
Andrea