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Topic: RE: Before and During...lets post our progress!!!!
Wow, ladies you all look fantastic....... I can't believe the difference..... makes me wish I would have taken some before pictures.......  I have avoided cameras for years LOL...

You are all an inspiration!!!!
Topic: RE: What are we eating this Saturday?
Just had my second fill yesterday so soft food

B: Decaf coffee with cream and sugar from Dunkin Donuts

L: Pintos and cheese from Taco Bell

D: 3oz homeade crab cake, mashed broccoli, sugar free pudding
Topic: RE: I broke down...
Is there a way to turn off the weight and obese notification..........I am thinking about it but don't want the kids or hubby to be able to access it.....

Sounds like fun!
Topic: RE: Has anyone ever froze a protein shake?
Wow, Ladies thanks!!!!!

Great ideas, and I am going to try them today!!  I know it isn't going to be a Ben and Jerry's New York super fudge crunch but it will be legal and I won't feel guilty...........those days are gone....

Have a great weekend Ladies............. I need to be careful the football eats!!!! It's football season again!!!!!!!
Topic: RE: Has anyone ever froze a protein shake?
Good evening, I was wondering if anyone has ever frozen a protein shake? I was wondering if it would make a good substitute for when I want something frozen......I am thinking maybe some Chocolate Unjury, I went for a second fill today and the PA gave me a sample........of course I can't try it out because I am on clear liquids............but I am going to!!!

Thanks everyone!!!!
Topic: RE: Coffee?
I am allowed to have decaf

I must admit that at least once a week I have a dunkin donuts decaf with cream and sugar.....

I just allow for the extra calories......... besides I never used to leave dunkin donuts with just a coffee LOL

I guess that could be a NSV!!
Topic: RE: Lump
Thank you all so much, I will find out tomorrow when I see the doc but feel so much better.......... I was curious because I can only feel it when I am standing up.......at least this time they should be able to find it easy!!!

Thanks again!!!!!
Topic: RE: Lump

I found a lump on my abdomen midway up to the left , approx a little over an inch from my rib.  I don't think it is my port, the PA had a hard time finding and feeling it when I went for my first fill and this is just a little higher then were it was during that fill....... with this lump when I am standing it doesn't take much for me to feel it.........  Do they move? or could I have pulled something? It hurts after pushing and feeling on it for a while and seems to be around the size of a quarter....

I have an appointment on Friday but was wondering if anyone else ever had this.........

Topic: RE: B*TCHFest: Off you go!
On September 3, 2008 at 4:27 PM Pacific Time, Tantrica wrote:
TO my dear husband:

Yes I realize it is hunting season.  In fact i believe we planned two separate trips together this week for moose and waterfowl....so why is it that the last two mornings you have gotten up and slipped QUIETLY out of the house and LEFT ME HERE?!?!  Hello you insensitive ***** you leave for Iraq in a few DAYS (not weeks anymore so quit saying that!) Don't you think I'd like to spend some time with you before you leave for a year?!?!  What if, god forbid, you don't make it home?  You'll have robbed me and the girls of their last few days with you!!  Oh that goes for the evenings you have spent sitting over at the neighbors while we eat dinner without you too.  At this moment i am so furious with you that I'd like to throw all your **** out on the lawn and let the dog pee on it!!

To my band:

Look, this isn't a game.  I have to eat to live so would you PLEASE make up your mind on what is OK and what isn't so when I make a "safe food" for dinner I don't have to go running to the nearest toilet, PLEASE!!  Thanks!

Kari
I think he is distancing himself now so it won't hurt him as much when he leaves...........think about it, it is easier to leave when you are mad or upset........just a thought.

It still sucks none the less and you have a right to be upset.
Topic: RE: OT Special education teachers (kinda long)

I don't teach but adopted two special needs boys one is in ESE classes and one classified as EMH and if it weren't for the great teachers my son in ESE had when in elementary school I don't think he would be doing as good as he is now...he is in 8th grade still ESE but made honor roll all last year, now loves to read even though it is a challenge, and is striving for honor roll this year.

So hang in there, you make such a difference in these childrens lives, it may not show today but it will in the long run.........it does sound though as if you are short handed and don't have much support which is needed.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! 

Topic: RE: Poll: How many WAYS did you invest in weight loss before WLS?

I had a THIGH MASTER......does anyone remember that?......I can't tell you how much time I spent squeezing my thighs together with that tourture device thinking I would get great thighs.......this device needs a special place....... 

Topic: RE: Switching Physicians for Aftercare support and Fills
Sorry I didn't write sooner......bunco night!

So far I am happy with the aftercare......I went for a post op visit one week after surgery, (saw the other surgeon in his practice he took out the staples and took all the time I needed to answer my questions). 

I then had my first fill was 6 weeks later........I was told that I can go when I want to....they schedual every six weeks for fills however the PA told me it was up to me, if I felt I didn't need one then I didn't have to go.........I did try to get in earlier because I had no restriction and I got it moved up a few days but they were booked solid.

His nutritionist that came to the pre op visit was very good and is always available for questions if we need it after the surgery.

The PA had a hard time locating my port, but after a semi sit up we had it.......she was very good, gave a numbing shot and I didn't feel a thing....... took time with me......

I will let you know how it goes this Friday, I lifted some heavy tiles and are having some port pain.

I would like it if they would reopen the mandarin office.........but I do love Robert and some of the other office staff.........

I wasn't so sure at first because it took some time to get a surgery appointment and the insurance girl didn't get back with me when I left messages.............but after the preop appointment when I met Dr. Jawad it was on!!!! I felt very comfortable with him.

Topic: RE: Switching Physicians for Aftercare support and Fills
I was also banded by Dr. Jawad, I am in Middleburg so I am only about 1hr 45 min. away.....

I am due to go back for my second fill on Friday.....

He used to have a satelite office here in Jax that they used to come to a few times a month for aftercare for the local patients........his PA that used to come left and it was my understanding that they were going to start up again at some time....... I am hoping soon.....I am going to ask this Friday.

Good luck, I am curious as to how you make out.........try Drs. Herrera and Chapano at St. Vincents.... that who I was going to go with originally.....
Topic: RE: I need to tell you how great my BF is!!!!
On September 1, 2008 at 6:44 PM Pacific Time, Sherry S. wrote:
 What a guy!  I am a big Patriot's Fan....Go Pats!

I agree...........GO PATS!!!!!!!!!

Topic: RE: Killer Headaches with Protein Powder

I had a headache for the first few days and come to find out it was from the carbohydrate withdrawal.......I was doing the atkins shakes and it has a very very low carb count.

I also had a hard time because I don't do artificial sweeteners well, but the headache was from no carbs........it did leave eventually but made things difficult because pain relievers don't work...

If you gave up caffine it could be that also............... both carb and caffine withdrawals will cause a temporary headache.......

good luck!

Topic: RE: Why do I let him get to me...

OMG it sounds very simular........I was a overweight baby, child and around the age of 10 started binge eating my Dad has been critical of my weight my most of my life except for the two times I managed to loose some weight......

Well anyway since the surgery it has gotten worse, he is always asking how much I have lost (I am a slow looser) told me I'm not trying hard enough, asking if I am working out. When he is over for dinner he is always scrutinizing what i have on my plate.........I had one small bite of a homeade brownie and he asked "do you really need that" while he had the biggest piece of pie I had ever seen.

Mind you that he is slightly overweight now but always overweight as long as I can remember...he has type ll diabeties and since then has lost some weight.....

You'd think that by having a surgery that it would show how motivated and how bad we want to loose weight.....I thought for sure it would slow down his comments. I try to ingnore them but there is this need for me to have his acceptance and to have his approval.......

it is just so crazy and i could go on and on........... I don't know what it is with Fathers and daughters.

I do know that life is too short so I am trying to focus on his good points.(he hasn't changed in 46 years.......he may not be around much longer and some day I am going to wish I could hear his voice no matter what it was saying........................

Good luck and remember you are doing it for you, it is the only way it is going to work...............

Topic: RE: Are protein drinks part of my life forever???
I only had them pre and post op.....my doc said no liquid calories and that means protein drinks...maybe after a fill but thats it....he states that the band is not designed to work with liquid.....
Topic: RE: Fish Oil pills???
I take liquid fish oil by Barleans.......it is orange flavored and you only need a tsp. so it isn't much I take it with my orange chewable centrum and it isn't bad.......... it has omega 3's , 6's and 9's has to be refrigerated...........

Topic: RE: Sweets
I learned along time ago that if I deny myself a craving it leads to a binge............so since the band if and when I crave something I have a little of it........and it works for me.

For salty and crunchy I weigh out a 1 oz serving of baked lays if I want chips only 3 grams of fat and great flavors

If I have a chocolate or candy craving I grab a caramel peanut chew from Atkins (just like a snickers)......I get net carbs, and protein and it satisfies the craving.....

I only have sweet and salt cravings and I would rather just have the craving then trigger a binge episode which would be painfull and impossible.........

everyone is different, for me I can not deny, but I can compromise!!!!
Topic: RE: just posted four new stall busting, low carb recipes!
I can't wait to try all of them...........I will be doing the beef burgandy first!!!!!!

Thanks and keep them coming!
Topic: RE: scared to eat REAL food
My surgeon and NUT said to only progress as tolerated, so if you need some more time in the phase your are in take it......I was on liquids for two weeks, then puree stuff, then mushies and only started real solid food around week 5-6......had no issues due to no restriction........

Good luck!!!
Topic: RE: What website can I go to to keep track of calorie intake??
I use  My Food Diary but I think they charge 9 dollars a month.......

It has alot of features that I like, it gives a breakdown of all nutritional information for a day, you can set your own goals like how much water in a day ect....... has calories burned counts for various excersises...... lots of charts ect........

Which ever site you choose it is a good idea even if only for a while so you can get an idea of how many calories are consumed in a day.
Topic: RE: OT: Would you be a guest on Dr. Phil?
If it would get him help then yes, just be careful,  I heard a show were they interviewed past guests and they said that he sometimes railroads them while on the show and likes to get the controversy going by creating arguments. After all it is a ratings game.

If he really wanted to help he could do it without the cameras.

I will keep you in my toughts and prayers
Topic: RE: Dont know what to do.......
If you have insurance check with your insurance company, they are the ones that dictate to your pcp what is needed for a referral and can provide his office with instruction on what to do if they don't know.......

Most likely she is thrown about it being for bariatric surgery not so much a referral. I would hope she had done one before....

Bottom line is you want your referral and have the appointment but you also will want the bills to get paid......

Good luck!!

Topic: RE: Nausea after a few months
Thank you both so much, yes I have nasal allergies and I have noticed some stuffiness lately that may be the cause. Also with school starting I am stressed, so it could be a combination........

Glad to hear that it may be allergies and stress and I am grateful for the extra restriction LOL it will help me till I get a fill.......


Thanks again!