On September 3, 2008 at 4:27 PM Pacific Time, Tantrica wrote:
TO my dear husband:
Yes I realize it is hunting season. In fact i believe we planned two separate trips together this week for moose and waterfowl....so why is it that the last two mornings you have gotten up and slipped QUIETLY out of the house and LEFT ME HERE?!?! Hello you insensitive ***** you leave for Iraq in a few DAYS (not weeks anymore so quit saying that!) Don't you think I'd like to spend some time with you before you leave for a year?!?! What if, god forbid, you don't make it home? You'll have robbed me and the girls of their last few days with you!! Oh that goes for the evenings you have spent sitting over at the neighbors while we eat dinner without you too. At this moment i am so furious with you that I'd like to throw all your **** out on the lawn and let the dog pee on it!!
To my band:
Look, this isn't a game. I have to eat to live so would you PLEASE make up your mind on what is OK and what isn't so when I make a "safe food" for dinner I don't have to go running to the nearest toilet, PLEASE!! Thanks!
Kari
I think he is distancing himself now so it won't hurt him as much when he leaves...........think about it, it is easier to leave when you are mad or upset........just a thought.
It still sucks none the less and you have a right to be upset.