mrslmwalker, welcome to OH and congrats on your band!
I am 18 months out and love my band. I am down about 95 pounds and this is just what I needed.
I have been a yo-yo dieter all my life and this gives me the tool to live my life and lose weight.
As far as the those who have had issues with their bands, I feel bad for them that their tool has failed them/or they failed their band whichever it is.
I know that for my band to work and to continue to work I have to diet and exercise because they go hand in hand as with any wls !
My advise is take from this board what is helpful and leave the rest.
I enjoy the posts from Bette, Nana and Joan who lost her band but is still her for support of the band. Some who have lost their bands still give support but others OMG. I skip those.
I wish you well on this journey and hope you get the support you need here.