I completely understand your point Karen, believe me. Like I said previously I feel terrible for feeling the way I do, I hate it in fact, as that is not the kind of person I see myself as being. I feel selfish and then guilty for feeling so selfish add that to the way I feel about myself due to my weight and the whole thing becomes even more of a mess.
As far as I know, nothing has changed in regard to wait times at all. My understanding was the lack of operating room time was the biggest problem and the government's refusal to fund any surgery at private facilities such as Maples. So the times continue to bottleneck.
I have been thinking its time to call Andrea and see what's what.