Topic: RE: I need help. BADLY! I'm sure most of the people here have felt how you're feeling at one time or another. In the big picture of things,whether it be a 12 month or 20 month wait it's really not that bad. Before the surgery was offered here, a friend of mine had to wait 4 years to go and have it done in Medicine Hat. The surgeons have your referral and it's all in their hands now. I'm sure within the next 8 - 12 months the ball will start rolling and once it does the time goes by very fast.
Although sometimes difficult, I do believe an opitimistic attitude makes all the difference. Try not to let food be your crutch in the coming months while you wait to hear from the surgeons. You don't want to gain weight during this time as that may just put the surgery back another month or two if you are asked to lose the weight before proceeding forward in the program.
From start to fini**** will be a 14 month wait time for me. Looking back now, the time has gone quickly. Keep your chin up, the end result will be worth the wait.
It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves. Edmund Hillary
HW 282 CW 229 Height 5'9" NUT Goal: 195-199 My Goal: 175