Ready to slap my MIL lol

So angry and I need to vent before I deal with this woman lol. So on Sunday my future MIL was over and found out we were a small superbowl get together with my fiances brother, girlfriend, and son. She mentioned that we should invite his sister as well. This after going on for a good 10 minutes about how sick his sisters son is with the flu. I responded by saying normally we would but as you know her son has a stomach bug and I have surgery Friday so we are not risking having anyone over that is or has been sick recently. Well didn't she go outside not an hour later and called to invite her and her son to my house. Then she came in and said she was leaving and that his sister was on her way. Of course my fiance was out back bbqing and by the time I got to the door she was gone. I was so angry but didn't want to be an ass and turn them away since they were minutes away. Well here we are a few days later and my 2 year old has it coming out of both ends. I was so angry I messaged her to tell her now my daughter is sick and if I catch it they will cancel my surgery. On top of it this will make it that much harder on her to be wih out mommy for a few days when she is so sick. Her response was it seems like only the kids are getting it so you'll be fine. Now this could be the opti anger speaking but I'm ready to lose it on her. So I am having the fiance pick up some lysol wipes and a mask for me. I will wear that sucker day and night until surgery. Has anyone had a stomach bug close to surgery and still been allowed to have it done? Thanks for letting me vent and if anyone has any anti stomach bug tips please pass them my way.

As long as you have no fever they usually will operate if you have a cold. Upto md

Mil was a ***** but sounds like some of the blame should go to the sister who showed up with a sick kid. I hope you do not get anything.

That she is Pat for sure. It's been a challenge to get along with her and she doesn't miss an opportunity to undermine me. His sister definitely is partly to blame she shouldn't have had him out around others when he was sick. It's partly my fault too I didn't want to look like a ***** and ask them to leave but I should have sucker it up and did it or got my fiance to do it. The best part was when I told her that my daughter is now sick she didn't apologize she just said you'll be fine. I called my surgeons office if I have a fever or any gastrointestinal issues they will cancel.  Here's hoping wih a lot of lysol and a mask that should be here within the hour I avoid his bug.

Take a deep breath and I hope you feel better that you had a chance to vent her where you are not judged.  Wash your hands, bleach the toilets, keep separate everything even after your surgery.  

MIL well there are some great ones and then well some not so so.  Eventually, you and your fiance will need to set some ground rules because it sounds like your MIL likes control and any opportunity will undermine you.  

Focus on you, the great change you are making for your health and well being and put you and your family first.

All the best,

Personally I would punch your mother in law in the throat and tell her to mind her own damn business and tell your stunned sister in law to stay the f $@k home when she has a sick kid. I pray you don't get sick!!!  Good luck!!

Since I just finished cleaning up round 7 of vomit I 100% love your response. Thank you.

I might be pmsing a bit lol but seriously who does that. I'm a ***** and would have actually asked her to leave. I don't care what people think of me. Family or not. Whether it's my family or my husbands I call a spade a spade. Don't like it? Too bad. Get out of my house lol. 

Oh and your HUSBAND should be cleaning up the vomit not you!  Rant done :)

He just got home from work and I just tapped out and said she's yours till morning lol. Trust me next time I won't be silencing my inner ***** at all. I'm not worrying about hurting her feeling anymore since she has no regard for mine. Ps ur awesome.