Empowering Yourself

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 9/8/17 9:39 am - OH

I think she read Kim's "nothing for you to worry about" as rude rather than as "it's not worth your time"...

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

(deactivated member)
on 9/10/17 1:27 am

Kitten fight ! Kitten fight!

Theduffman27
on 9/7/17 5:32 pm, edited 9/7/17 10:58 am
VSG on 11/19/14

I think the message should be , just be nice, I know most of our moms told us if we had nothing nice to say , than say nothing at all. Too much hate and dislike in this workd

  1. Pre- Surgery/ Type 2 Diabetes, High BP and Cholesterol, treated with 6 medications, including Insulin. Post Op- low dose BP med 2022, Mounjaro 10/2023

HW - 299 , Consult day weight - 277, Day of surgery ( 11/19/2014) - 259,LW - 178, GW - 195, CW- 194.2 - reached goal

kitmouse
on 9/7/17 6:51 pm
RNY on 07/27/17

I actually think the first rule of Fight Club is that there's no talking about Fight Club.

Susie2756
on 9/10/17 7:28 pm
Susie2756
on 9/10/17 7:29 pm

I think this has passed fight club standards and moved onto blood sport...

LillithsDemons
on 9/7/17 10:17 pm
RNY on 03/14/17

we should be nice to help every body

Citizen Kim
on 9/7/17 5:45 pm, edited 9/7/17 11:07 am - Castle Rock, CO

Again, it wasn't ME that made that post (sheesh) as you both well know.

Elizabeth says that "someone" messaged her, but by posting this today, she's thrown YOU squarely under the bus. I'm sorry you made this choice, Pam, I wish I could tell you to choose your friends carefully because what sort of a friend would do this to you, especially if she knows what you are going through with your son.

Lots of people, myself included, are very disappointed at having their trust betrayed. Everyone in that group has your back, but you realise how this looks, right?

Look after yourself and watch your back, we are not the people you have to worry about.

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

ljbarbara
on 9/7/17 5:48 pm

It just hurts my heart to see this happening. I don't know who said or did what to whom, but it seems like you were all friends at one time. So sad...

Original surgery: VSG Feb. 2009

REVISED TO RNY FEBRUARY 2016

Height: 5'7"

Start weight: 252. Current weight: 120

Citizen Kim
on 9/7/17 6:12 pm - Castle Rock, CO

Yeah, when you find out that someone you believed was your friend has betrayed your trust and confidences, it really hurts.

I'm not feeling very empowered by this new knowledge. I hope others got what they wanted out of this, which i suppose was their end game, because there's a lot of hurt people after today.

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

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