ObesityHelp

Hello everyone!! I have come here to inform you that I have had my profile hacked, half of it is missing and I was informed that my family, ( HORRENDOUS PEOPLE ) have decided that they would sit around and read my profile to have a laugh. I can not begin to tell you just how pathetic I think this is. You see, my family, ( if you want to call them that ) are morbidly obese themselves, there are few in my family that do not meet the qualifications for this surgery. I figure that they are just jealous or just horribly sad people. When I had this surgery, I got nothing but grief from them, hence my involvement here and with the groups I attend. That is where I get and give my support. But, the falily simply can not stand seeing someone acheive anything that they have got to tear them down. That is how they get by, by accusating everyone else for their short-comings. Believe, I have gotten so much hate mail in the last day, and it is funny because some of it looks like they are writing their own auto-biography. This is their lives not mine, the only thing that I have done wrong to them, ( or at least they are thinking it was done to them ) is have a surgery to loose weight. Well, I think it is really sad that they have taken it upon themselves to spy on me and to hack into and remove half my profile ( ironically it was the half after I moved to Texas ). There is nothing that can be done about that, but I do want to just let you know that I am leaving this site and moving forward in my life to other avenues that I am pursuing. I wish I could have stayed around awhile longer and continued to offer much needed support to those who may really need it. Those of you who are embarking on this surgery, please remember where you have come from as you move forward, so you may have some understanding of the ones who were like you before you got there. It is important to understand others and know, you can only change the outside but, you must really work hard everyday to change your inside. That is the hardest work of all, there will be ups and downs, some expected, some not. Just keep picking yourself back up and learn to really love yourself as you get to know the person that was hidden inside of the weight that hid you from the world. This is an amazing journey, not only the physical transformation, but the emotional transformation. I will never regret one minute of what I have been through, and I will forever be grateful I was given the chance. Take care everyone!!! I will still be around in my private email and you may ask Wendy Wheeler for that address if you would like to contact me. I will also continue to attend meetings. I just will no longer be affiliated with this website, as it is has been poisoned for me. Sorry!