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Yvonne McCarthy
Plano, TX
Member Since: 01/18/01
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I already post a thread about what to expect about the meetings here What to expect Thanks to Phyllis who asked about what to wear, I'm making another post on clothes and misc stuff as it comes to mind. Friday evening - meet and greet - We will be on the 2nd floor in a banquet room with some big tables and some ****tail tables scattered around.  You can sit or stand or eat but we really want you to get around and talk to people.  Bring your cameras!  You will see a wide variety of clothes here.  Some people wear jeans, some wear nicer jeans with a nice top and some people wear something like casual work clothes in an office.  It's usually not really dressy but if you want to deck out, go for it.  This is what this is about.  Wear something that you'd like to "test drive" because you will be in a safe place.   We will just hang out and talk - that's why it's called meet and greet.  At any point you are ready you can take off so that you'll be ready to go the next morning. There will be food and beverages provided. Saturday morning - we want to definitely get started on time.  We will all be in a big banquet room together and most people wear jeans/pants...whatever you are comfortable with and the speakers are usually dressed in business attire. Please bring a jacket or a sweater so that we can keep the room cool enough for people that will be hot... You can always put on more clothes but hot people can only take off so much!  We will have registration where you check in, we give you a bag of stuff, you can visit the vendors that will be giving stuff away too.  We will sit in a banquet room for the meeting (there will be water/coffee available).  There will be breaks so you can go to the bathroom in between speakers etc.  Below is a picture of some of the guys in a breakout session which is just like the big room...just smaller. We will have lunch served (a variety of things will be offered).  We have directed the hotel about our diets.  Then in the afternoon at some time will be doing the breakout sessions with speakers in smaller rooms and you can pick which you would like to go to.  Bring cameras at all times! Once we finish for the day we will have time to freshen up and then Miss Charlene will be putting on a normal dinner as always.  By all means, dress for success and strut your stuff.  Charlene will be providing all the information just like she always does.  She's the best party planner around! Sunday more of the same.  We will have prize give aways and all kinds of fun.  We will be posting a schedule as soon as possible and will be posting pictures of speakers and their subject matter as well.  We will start with a basic schedule and build from there.   On another note, we are going to have people who wish to volunteer to greet in the lobby so that you are welcomed with open arms.  If the event is in progress, there will be signs in the lobby and if you just go to the second floor, you won't be able to miss us.  If you live far away and wish to stay for the dinner and need a place to chill or freshen up, we'll find people with rooms that will share.  I do not want you to miss this event because you don't have a place to go in between.   We have guestimated that the Saturday stuff will be done by 5pm.  Most people hang around until 5:30-5:45 and I believe Charlene will start the dinner at 7pm.  Again, we'll have places to hang out.  The lobby has couches and chairs to relax in as well. In the meeting rooms there will be pads of paper and pens for you if you need them.  If anyone thinks of anything to add, please do!  If you have anything to ask PLEASE DO!  I think that's it for now.  I'm excited!!!  If anyone is on the fence about coming, post and tell me why and we'll do whatever we can to help you over that fence.  This is not just about fun and you can learn things that will help you down the road.  If I hadn't attended my first one (ALONE AND SCARED) I wouldn't have met people like Charlene.  She was at the same "first event" I was at as well as Gina and many others.  Let me know if I've missed anything! hugs, Y p.s. Sorry if this is jumbled...my brain is mush! ORIGINAL POST ABOUT EVENT REGISTRATION AND PAYMENT LINK HERE

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Join my group WLS Success on OH! Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Facebook Bariatric Girl PagePhotography site and Justyvonne you tube and www.rydobesity.com. See my show WLS Journeys on the WLS Channel.      .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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George T.
Grand Prairie, TX
Member Since: 06/05/06
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I am like a kid waiting for Christmas right now.



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Debra F.
Houston, TX
Member Since: 04/05/04
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thank you yvonne i think you have provided everything.... just going to add a few things about the hotel since i have been here all weekend there is a small fridge in the room for anyone wanting to bring drinks or food that needs to stay cool.... the pool and jacquzzi are both in door and heated so bring your bathing suit - there are plenty of tables and chairs to hang out in the pool area...i have already been in there to relax....believe me it helped.... there are chairs and couches downstairs for people to go hang out and talk..... there is a bar downstairs...... charlene is doing the dinner and will be posting all the details.... if you are nervous about coming believe me we are all in the same boat..... i am always nervous about meeting new people....but hey you guys are my family.....and i cant wait to meet the ones i havent met yet.... hope to see you soon..... hotel reservation cut off date is 4/28 so make your plans now.... wooohoooo 
Debra
227/205/135 at goal
1st Surgery/Revision/Today
8/98 - 8/04 - today
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George T.
Grand Prairie, TX
Member Since: 06/05/06
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The pool is only for hotel guests, right?  LOL



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Debra F.
Houston, TX
Member Since: 04/05/04
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if someone staying at the hotel will give you their room key you can go swimming...the doors are locked where the pool is.....
Debra
227/205/135 at goal
1st Surgery/Revision/Today
8/98 - 8/04 - today
Support Group Leader 
Co- Founder www.rydobesity.com
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Michelle S.
Burkburnett, TX
Member Since: 07/22/07
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I am so excited about this...in case I have not posted that already!  My dh and ds will be glad to know about the pool.  Hope I can find time to swim them as well.  Debbie or Yyvone, my dh and ds will probably come to the meet and greet if that is ok?  Then Saturday they have plans for the whole day doing father and son stuff.  Anyway, thanks for posting this.  Have a great weekend what is left of it.  Hugs.

Michelle

                                                        

  

 

 

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Lynne R.
Houston, TX
Member Since: 12/29/04
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I can't tell you how much I want to do this but I just don't know how I'd work it out with the kids and money. Miranda will be there with Dr. L which leaves me to stay with the kids.

Lynne
 

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Yvonne McCarthy
Plano, TX
Member Since: 01/18/01
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Lynne, I would so love to have you.  Is there anyone that could keep the kids?  I don't really know how much I'm asking since I don't know your situation but I just want you here so badly.  I just don't know what to do to help but I know I'd give anyone the shirt off my back when it comes to these things.  I'm too old to sell my body and my husband wouldn't apprecIate that very much.  Keep me posted if you get any ideas.  We'd love to have you. hugs Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Join my group WLS Success on OH! Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Facebook Bariatric Girl PagePhotography site and Justyvonne you tube and www.rydobesity.com. See my show WLS Journeys on the WLS Channel.      .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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Jenny R
Member Since: 02/06/08
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OK I have a lame question. I am certainly not a post-op-know-it-all but what is the conference geared more toward pre-ops and their families? I know the side effects to my surgery and what to expect! LOL!  Or is it more just like a supportive atmosphere and rejuvination kind of thing why everyone likes to do it? Are there real hard core things offered for people who have lived with their new ways of life for over a year? I guess I need to justify the expense (although it's not astronomical but feeding my kid something other then crap and cheese on my hubbies income is important to me).  As horrible as it sounds will I pull anything away from this? I don't mean it rudely - I just need to know it's worth my time and cash. Thanks, Jenny
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Gina (Tx)
Joshua, TX
Member Since: 11/12/01
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JENNY-not a lame question at all. These conferences mean different things to different people. I never went to one pre-op, so can't speak from that angle. I never went to one as a fresh post op, do can't help you there either..lol. My first conf was when I was 2 yrs out, in 2004. It was the first time I ever been able to talk to people who actually UNDERSTOOD what I was talking about/going thru. The TMB wasn't like it is now, and there was no "train". I've been to a couple since, and have really enjoyed "hanging with my peeps"

Will you learn anything "brand new"? Probably not. You're still relatively new in your journey, and have done so remarkably well, that you obviously KNOW what you're doing. WIll you come away energized? YES. WIll you be an icon to others-both new and old alike? YES. But only YOU know your personal finances, and whether or not you can fit this in your budget. If nothing else, try come to the dinner-though the time will be limited-as always!!!!

Hope this helped, at least a little..I haven't had coffee yet...

 

I have now completed two half-marathons. "The first to cross to FINISH line is not the ONLY winner-so is everyone who has the COURAGE to cross the START line"

(Not my quote-I stole it from a tee shirt!)

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Yvonne McCarthy
Plano, TX
Member Since: 01/18/01
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I can't thank Gina enough for her answer.  I actually tried to start a post last night to you and fell asleep during the process.  The other thing I would add is that we are geared very much toward educating people of how to have a successful journey.  I personally believe that the surgery itself is a very small part of it.  Gina said it best about the fact that we didn't have this info available to us when we were doing this and were making a stab in the dark most times.  I was very fortunate that I "stabbed" in the right places.  I so want to share this.  The second part is what you take away from helping others.  When you put yourself in a position to pay it forward and help pre-ops see what is possible, it is invaluable.   I too cannot gauge your financial situation but I hope you will be able to join us.  I would love that you might get a break to come and get rejuvenated and have some quality time for yourself.  It is not big party and it's not just classroom type stuff.  Believe me if I didn't think this was valuable information, there is no way that I would get involved in the work necessary to try to make this happen.  I have been attached at the hip to my computer trying to answer questions and make posts to try to convey the dynamics of a meeting like this.  Gina took a huge weight off of my shoulders by being kind enough to share her experience.  Ramon and Debra have great stories to share and I've really never known anyone that walked away from one of Ramon's talk disappointed.  Debra kind of stays in the background and makes things happen.   I am trying to get the the RYD site so that I can combine all these excellent posts so that the information is in one place.  I hope to get that done today.  If you have any questions, they are never lame....ask anything you'd like. hugs, Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Join my group WLS Success on OH! Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Facebook Bariatric Girl PagePhotography site and Justyvonne you tube and www.rydobesity.com. See my show WLS Journeys on the WLS Channel.      .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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Phyllis M.
Irving, TX
Member Since: 11/19/07
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Thank you Yvonne !! That helps me alot !!

Surgery fixed our stomach and has given me a tool to use to help lose weight, but the surgery didn't fix the mindset of habits.
Newbies:  Please get Dr Connie Stapleton's Book: Eat it Up !! You will be glad that you did. 
Total Lost:  139 lbs
Current Weight:  252
GOAL:  200
RNY: 10-16-07 - 338  Lowest Weight: 199 



  

  
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lisaboss
Corinth, TX
Member Since: 08/26/07
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Yvonne, I'm so bummed and want to come.... But I have school on Saturday's and that's a test day...   Guess I'll just have to go to the Saturday night dinner and catch up with folks instead...
Lisa from Texas - Go Aggies Go!!!
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Yvonne McCarthy
Plano, TX
Member Since: 01/18/01
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OH NO!  I was going to ask you to play hookey until I saw the test part.  What time does school end???   hugs, Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Join my group WLS Success on OH! Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Facebook Bariatric Girl PagePhotography site and Justyvonne you tube and www.rydobesity.com. See my show WLS Journeys on the WLS Channel.      .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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lisaboss
Corinth, TX
Member Since: 08/26/07
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It starts at 9:00 and ends around noon, then about 45 minutes to the conference.  I could still make it, but would miss everything that a.m.
Lisa from Texas - Go Aggies Go!!!
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Yvonne McCarthy
Plano, TX
Member Since: 01/18/01
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Hey can you PM me or email me? Email is justyvonne@gmail.com. Thanks!

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Join my group WLS Success on OH! Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Facebook Bariatric Girl PagePhotography site and Justyvonne you tube and www.rydobesity.com. See my show WLS Journeys on the WLS Channel.      .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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