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Yvonne McCarthy
Plano, TX
Member Since: 01/18/01
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Today I will be sending out a group email to everyone that has signed up to send me your before and after pictures (or your story) so I can work on some video production.  If you haven't signed up yet I will be sending another request in another week or so.   I don't think I've "stressed out" more about an event ever but then I think about the people I will see again, the people I will meet for the first time and all the wonderful stories that come from events like this.  I want everyone to know that everyone involved is doing their very best to make this something that you will remember.  We want everyone to get something out of it and please...if you have requests, suggestions...whatever...we welcome your input.  I am personally looking forward to celebrating our journey and I hope that no one is holding back for fear of not knowing someone.  I didn't know a soul when I went to the Obesity Help 2004 conference and guess who I met for the first time that weekend.  RAMON!  If you look at my entry in my profile after the conference, you will see this: First OH Seminar [Edit Post]
on May 25, 2004 8:22 am
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I attended the OH seminar in Arlington and couldn't have done anything better for myself if I tried. I didn't realize that I was still not confident in public because I was still programmed as the fat girl. After that weekend I am no longer afraid to just be me wherever I go. Thanks again ObesityHelp. I could never repay the debt I owe so I'll just keep trying by spreading the word.  

I also met Ramon Lopez who I'd been emailing since February.  I was so pleased that he attended the party.
Little did I know that Ramon and I would become the best of friends.  If I hadn't gone or if Ramon had not attended it may have all been different.  I can't imagine how scary it was for Ramon...it was certainly scary for me.   This hotel is sort of in an area of just hotels and so we will probably have the place pretty much to ourselves. We will have someone to greet you and of course we will be looking for you when you come down to the meet and greet on Friday.   Please don't let that stop you.  Remember we are here to give you love and support.  I'll want everyone to be on the look out for anyone that isn't with someone.  We are all just wanting to fit in and if there's ever a place for that to happen...it will be at this conference.  Let me know if you're on the fence about coming and I'll do my best to get you over that fence!  I'm so ready to get past the planning and get to the attending! hugs, Y CLICK HERE TO SEE NEW OH VIDEO ON EVENTS! (Go Ramon!)

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Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Join my group WLS Success on OH! Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Facebook Bariatric Girl PagePhotography site and Justyvonne you tube and www.rydobesity.com. See my show WLS Journeys on the WLS Channel.      .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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charlenecarlile
Mansfield, TX
Member Since: 06/13/03
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I had never met a single person from the Board when I went, by myself, to the 2004 Arlington Conference. I was just about 6 months post op and had not yet come into the confidence I now enjoy. The minute I walked in I started recognizing faces from the board. I felt like I was meeting movie stars. It was so exciting. Come to find out they were as scared and nervous as I! Who knew???? We spent the next couple of days getting to know one another and lifetime friendships were born that weekend! My face hurt at the end of the weekend from laughing and smiling non-stop, and I thought I was going to have to have the smile surgically removed from my face! It was stuck there! I had so much fun! I  will enjoy seeing the same thing happen in Dallas next month! If you see me before I see you just run up and hug my neck! Trust me I will hug back!
XOXO
Charlene

"If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything" ~R. Weeakes
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Yvonne McCarthy
Plano, TX
Member Since: 01/18/01
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Oh Charlene you described exactly the way I felt!  I was so afraid.  I thought HOW on earth would I be able to go to that meeting by myself?  Well, I'll tell you.  I found a way to go and be somewhat comfortable.  I contacted OH and volunteered my services to photograph the event.  That way I could feel a little bit of comfort...hiding behind my camera.  Here I am wearing a shirt that I spent a long time making.  It has my before picture on it, my surgery date and weight loss.  I sure wish I knew where that shirt was now.  By this time at the event, I didn't care if I had a camera or not.  LOOK AT THE SMILES ON OUR FACES!  They aren't little smiles, they are HUGE smiles. Then we had the luau party.  I remember Charlene from that party because she was glowing. I've posted this picture before but you'll see Charlene on the right. See the smiles??? I can't tell you how much energy there was at this event.  There was another woman I got to know and has a laugh that everyone LOVES.  Miss Connie!   And then Ramon.  I even photographed him from the dimple side! And for those that don't know, Eric Klein is the CEO of Obesity Help and he's the second from the right next to me.  I swear he looks the same now...he doesn't age! I remember coming home from the event and a really bizarre thing happened,  This may sound strange but when I had surgery my cats would lay on me because they do that when my emotions are elevated...good or bad.  When I walked in the door I had bags of stuff and camera stuff and I just dropped it in the floor.  All 4 cats came running up to me and circled around my feet.  My energy was off the scale.  I remember feeling more confident after that event too because I was still a fat girl in my head.  I'm still a fat girl in my head some days but it gets better little by little.  The thing I learned is that it was OK to speak to people in the elevator or in the hallway and they would speak back!   Thanks Charlene for your post....and you DO hug back and you hug back REAL GOOD!  The same goes for me! If you see me first, run up and hug me!  hugs, Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Join my group WLS Success on OH! Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Facebook Bariatric Girl PagePhotography site and Justyvonne you tube and www.rydobesity.com. See my show WLS Journeys on the WLS Channel.      .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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Yvonne McCarthy
Plano, TX
Member Since: 01/18/01
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AND where else would anyone get to meet "Daffodil"?  She's very famous now. hugs, Y CLICK HERE FOR DETAILS ON RYD OBESITY EVENT!

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Join my group WLS Success on OH! Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Facebook Bariatric Girl PagePhotography site and Justyvonne you tube and www.rydobesity.com. See my show WLS Journeys on the WLS Channel.      .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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AttyDallas
Garland, TX
Duodenal Switch (08/12/06)
Member Since: 03/03/06
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Ahhh  and that reminds me, I wouldn't have met you or Ramon if it had not been for the San Antonio event last September!  I was roaming the halls of the hotel rooms my first night in San Antonio after check in and went to get some ice or something and Ramon spotted me (I was wearing my Brazil DS t-shirt) and came up to me and introduced himself very warmly  ..  He said he figured I was there for the event .. I had no idea who he was ..  He invited me to attend his breakout group the next day, which I did and enjoyed very much ..  I remember you came in near the end of the session to take pics of him from the back of the room and I wondered "who is THAT good-looking gal???" (I assumed you were a staff photographer for OH) ..  Later we chatted and then I found out when I got back to the forums who you "were"!   &:-)     So .. yes  the OH events are great for meeting new friends ... !
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Kathy B.
TX
Member Since: 10/02/07
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Hello Girl,

I am going to the conference. I wasn't sure I was going. But, now I need to pay for it. Is it too late to pay for it by check to you? I do not want to pay for it by paypa. Can we pay at the door?? Thanks so much.

Smile, it increases your face value.

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Yvonne McCarthy
Plano, TX
Member Since: 01/18/01
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I AM SOOOOOOOOOOO HAPPY YOU'RE COMING! I was hoping that you'd be able to come.  No it's not too late to send a check.  Just put it in the mail and there's plenty of time. Will that work for you?  Just in case you need it, here's the registration link. www.rydobesity.com/register.htm Let me know if that works for you and if I can answer any questions, I'm here to help. hugs, Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Join my group WLS Success on OH! Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Facebook Bariatric Girl PagePhotography site and Justyvonne you tube and www.rydobesity.com. See my show WLS Journeys on the WLS Channel.      .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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