Trouble with COMPLIMENTS???
on 7/22/14 2:55 am
I have the same problem - I get so mad at myself for saying "oh I have a lot more to lose" or something to that effect instead of just saying thank you! Also don't you think it's more awkward the more you lose? Now I'm down 62lbs and it's gone from "you look different, have you lost weight"? to "Holy Shi* you've lost so much weight". I'm happy that I look so much better, but its a little bit embarrassing when someone reacts that way.
I say "Thank you for noticing. I appreciate it."
And yeah, I struggle with it. It's kind of funny to me now that I've lost over 100, and I get "have you lost some weight?" Usually because it's followed by "how much?" and when I tell them, they get flustered. They say "Wow, I guess I should have noticed sooner." LOL
I try to happily say, "thanks, I feel great" and then change the subject. I try not to roll my eyes or make a funny face while saying it.
VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)
Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170
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