Strange compulsion
I have to start by saying that I love my sleeve! With that in mind, every time I see someone who is in the same situation I was in, I have this strange compulsion to run up to them and share my story with them. I want to just shake them and tell them how much the sleeve has changed my life. I know this is totally irrational, and I would have wanted to punched somebody in the face if they would have done that to me a year ago, but still I can't help but have these thoughts. Please tell me I am alone!?
I know! I had this happen intensely to me on vacation. I kept seeing this woman in my gym classes.
I wanted to say -- I know how hard it it! I have been there! Get the sleeve! But I didn't want to offend. My mom sent me an e-mail about the lap band several years ago and it made me really mad. I wish there was a way to share the information without upsetting people.
I occasionally find myself thinking "I bet that person could benefit from the sleeve." But who's to know they haven't already had it and have already lost 100 pounds? And I know that if a complete stranger had suggested WLS to me a year ago, I would have been completely and utterly mortified and humiliated.
VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)
Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170
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I think those feeling happen to all of us. Best to just keep it to yourself in the situation you describe.
However....
I'm proponent of telling your story when people are listening or asking how you did it. It's better to be vocal and honest and just put it out there. There is a high probably that your story will insprire someone who fits that profile you described and you might not know who. I've been on both sides of that equation.
HW: 255 (6/5/13), SW: 240 (6/19/13), CW: 169 (9/16/14)
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