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MistyLynn81 IN Member Since: 05/04/07 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 5:32 pm 'Hearty Eater' Says Buffet Banned Him5 hours agoHOUMA, La. — A 6-foot-3, 265-pound man says a restaurant overcharged him for his trips to the buffet line, then banned him and a relative because they're hearty eaters. A spokesman for the restaurant denies the claim. Ricky Labit, a disabled offshore worker, said he had been a regular for eight months at the Manchuria Restaurant in Houma, eating there as often as three times a week. On his most recent visit, he said, a waitress gave him and his wife's cousin, 44-year-old Michael Borrelli, a bill for $46.40, roughly double the buffet price for two adults. "She says, 'Y'all fat, and y'all eat too much,'" Labit said. Labit and Borrelli said they felt discriminated against because of their size. "I was stunned, that somebody would say something like that. I ain't that fat, I only weigh 277," Borrelli said, adding that a waitress told him he looked like he a had a "baby in the belly." Houma accountant Thomas Campo said the men were charged an extra $10 each on Dec. 21 because they made a habit of dining exclusively on the more expensive seafood dishes, including crab legs and frog legs. "We have a lot of big people there," said Campo, who spoke for owner Li Shang, whose English is limited. "We don't discriminate." Labit denied ever being told he would be asked to pay more than the standard adult price. The argument grew heated, and police were called. The police report states, "The incident was settled when the management advised that the bill was a mistake and, to appease Ricky, the meal was complimentary." Labit said he insisted on paying but was told not to come back. He complained that when seafood on the buffet line runs out, the restaurant only grudgingly cooks more. Campo said the proprietress tries to reduce waste of quality food, he said. "Food is for eating, not toys for your child," reads a sign posted on a wall in typewritten text. A handwritten addition reads "Or 20% added. |
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Kathy & Rich Fairfax, VA Member Since: 10/11/04 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 5:45 pm My mom's cousins were politely asked to leave a buffet back in the late 1960s. One was 6'7" and one 6'8" (non-obese) and both Navy men with appetites to match.
Kathy ~Kathy~5'7.5"~lap RNY~05/20/2005~ 279/276/244/160/148/185 (high/consult/preop/goal/low/current)~Rich~6'5.0"~open RNY~08/05/2004~>500+/450/437/250/239/320(high/consult/preop/goal/low/current) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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ladynitewolf BFE, CA Duodenal Switch (07/19/06) Member Since: 02/21/06[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 6:28 pm Heh! My husband's Navy buddy was asked to leave an all-you-can-eat McDonalds in the 1990s after he ate the entire menu and then went back for more. That boy could pack the food away and not gain a pound! What is it with Navy boys and their appetites? ~ Sarah P. |
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Ridgefield , WA Member Since: 08/19/02 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 5:48 pm Sorry but I dont think going to a all you can eat 3 times a week and eating them out of house and home is right either. Sure the sign says all you can eat, but do you really want the resturant you like to go out of business cause you cant be ok with an up charge for gorging. People dont go into the resturant to feed people they go in to make a living too... to take advantage isnt ok. |
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Michael S 5K From Everywhere, MN Member Since: 12/21/07 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 5:52 pm Every once in a while, there's a similar story from a different part of the country about this kind of thing happening. I think the problem is a little bit on both sides of the coin - a management issue, workers/owners not on the same page with what 'buffet' eating means, and then some Americans who treat a buffet like a trough and let their kids pile food on plates that they don't end up eating. Neither scenario is better or worse than the other. Sounds like this was probably the business' problem in this particular case, if they don't want people depleting the seafood due to cost, they should charge more and seperate the seafood from everything else that's available or shut up and bear the loss. Other buffet-style places do it that way - you pay extra to enjoy the seafood, you get a wristband or a tray marker that tells the person staffing the seafood island that you've paid to take from there - the restaurant recoups their investment, the diner gets what they like or they're free to choose differently from the other things included in the standard price.
If you look a little more into the article - it sounds like a fat discrimination case, but I think it's more about them being mad that customers would (duh!) take more of the good stuff, and the staff went the not-uber-smart route because that's probably the only way they knew to explain it, with some language issues thrown into the mix for good measure. ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ |
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imonmyway Indianapolis, IN Member Since: 08/06/05 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 5:53 pm Missy,
WOW- this seems so unfair, however I can relate!
My husband and I used to frequent a restaurant on the eastside of Indy long before my WLS! I loved it, after I had surgery we still went there and they took the WLS restaurant card- great! Then suddenly after I had lost the majority of my weight, mind you the waitress knew us, although I think some of the employees doubted my surgery- we went again, I was given the discounted price before going to the bar, after returning from the bar the OWNER went to the waitress and said something to her, then she came to the table and said to me, I am sorry we cannot offer you the discounted price because all you are getting is the crablegs- hello- that is all I had been getting for some time, I didn't want the fried food and all of the chinese other food options or any other choice for that fact! I normally ate 2 plates of crablegs and that was i****er to drink! I don't go back there anymore and miss the crablegs- but ~13.00 for me to eat what little I was getting was crazy, especially after being a regular and having had other meetings with fellow OHers there as well! It didn't set good with me. I know some don't agree with using the cards, this is just my opinion!
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MistyLynn81 IN Member Since: 05/04/07 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 6:02 pm Our Ryans told me that they will no longer accept my card from St. V's and I can only get 3 oz of food in maximum at a time sooo therefore we just chose to no longer go there. I refuse to pay 9.00 at a buffett when I'm not getting a drink (the drink is included) and I'm not even eating the amount that a 3 year old would eat (who eats free). I'm not wanting to eat free but a kids price would be nice.. Anyways it doesn't matter now because we don't really go out to eat much anyways but we know where NOT to go around here. It's sad because the hospital here in Seymour is starting to do bariatric surgery now and very few places around here accept it. |
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Susan C. Cromwell, CT Member Since: 04/15/05 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 5:54 pm Sorry but I have to laugh at this one!!!
I don't remember which one but there used to be a comedian who as a part of his act did a chinese buffet thing. It went something like " you been here 2 hour.... you go home now!"
Can't blame them really. Our buffet charges more if you eat the seafood. They do have to make a buck : ) |
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Cher B. MA Member Since: 10/22/06 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 6:29 pm Last Edit: 1/2/08 6:31 pm I think that is John Pinette...that bit was so funny!
ETA: wait, wait...I found it on youtube...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdwuiyO7hOU&feature=related |
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Linda B. Member Since: 10/22/07 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 6:05 pm There is another side also, what about the people that pay $13.00 (or whatever) for a buffet, but one plate fills them up. Years ago, when I was skinny (and I will be again ) I could only eat a small plate of food and never got my money's worth. So for every "hearty eater" there is a "small eater". |
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James Jordan Cincinnati, OH (11/06/07) Member Since: 11/28/07[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 8:02 pm I find this story hard to believe. I mean come on, like the server really said that to him. I think he probably was abusing the buffet.
And as the story goes FAT PEOPLE DO NOT BELONG AT BUFFETS it's only asking for trouble anyway. I've only been a few times and I've seen people stack their plates up so high and keep going back and back and back. What do you expect? I have no sympathy! |
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Michael S 5K From Everywhere, MN Member Since: 12/21/07 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 8:46 pm Honestly - you may have a point about the guy maybe just trying to weasel out of paying a bill - BUT:
I have to mention another thing w/regard to fat people at buffets. If you REALLY look closely at what people are taking and the different trips they make - it's not usually the obese people who are getting up to get the most food - it's primarily the more moderately overweight, middle-of-the-road folks who do so. And this guy sounds like he fits that bill. It defies logic, but that's what I notice. Maybe it's the denial thing, they're not "that" big yet, so they think they're entitled to splurge, who knows...And there's always one glaring exception, otherwise the comedians jokes wouldn't get any laughs...but
I say that because - as a SMO person - my problem wasn't being out of control with my eating at restaurants and buffets. At most - I'd only get up for seconds OR a dessert, and that was it. I was acutely aware that I was a large person eating at a buffet and there's nothing more effective to curb your appetite than that kind of awareness among strangers.... Where I did my damage was every other point in the day.
Maybe others would have a different take on that, but that's been my p.o.v. - I was never the "threat" to a buffet that other people might have thought I was, seeing me walk in the door. ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ |
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James Jordan Cincinnati, OH (11/06/07) Member Since: 11/28/07[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 8:54 pm You know what YOU'RE RIGHT! Now come to think of it, yeah I can totally see that. I'm in the same boat as you even thought I don't know what a SMO is. I knew I was a large person eating at a buffet and felt like everyone was watching me so I didn't eat as much. |
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Member Since: 07/30/03 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 9:27 pm Who doesn't go to the buffet for the good stuff? It's unreasonable to think that a person shouldn't or wouldn't dine on these items exclusively. The problem is arbitrary treatment...mngmnt should have had a CLEAR policy on costs associated with including the crab/frog legs. Most chinese buffets charge extra when seafood is available, whether you eat it or not! I love steamed blue crabs, oysters, and shrimp...if I go to a buffet serving any or all of them, THAT'S what I'm eating! Granted I can't eat very much of them, but I wish somebody would come over talking about I have to pay more money 'cuz I didn't eat any fried chicken or wonton soup!
P.S.-those cheaper places are always slow to bring out the better items and they only bring enough for about 6 at a time anyway, so they have a lot more control than they want people to think. I'd rather pay good money for a place with good, CLEAN service that prides themselves on customer satisfaction--you can only keep people with low prices for so long! |
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willfeelsogood WA Duodenal Switch (03/26/08) Member Since: 11/19/07[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 1/2/08 9:35 pm About 25 yrs ago, a few of the college football team members, would go to a buffet on Saturdays & were asked not to come back.
Just kinda cracked me up, they went back to their Captain Crunch.
It does bother me tho, when you see people LOAD up plates for kids & then just waste it. They could'a just gone back for more. |
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~Kathy~5'7.5"~lap RNY~05/20/2005~ 





) I could only eat a small plate of food and never got my money's worth. So for every "hearty eater" there is a "small eater". 
