Your post sounds like a "statistic waiting to happen". Extreme jealousy, seemingly stalking behavior and the instance that he is only right are a recipe for a very poor relationship and probable physical harm to your friend. He is not likely to change. She is going to have to make the decision to leave, WITHOUT telling him. Too many statistics about women saying they want to leave an abusive relationship, and they end up in the hosptial or worse. DAVE
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WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010
High Weight (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.
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