Chilipepper
on 8/6/11 9:20 am

If she feels he is abusive...then he is abusive. She realizes this already...now it is up to her to make necessary changes in her life.

"The first thing I do in the morning is brush my teeth and sharpen my tongue." --- Dorothy Parker

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Winnie_the_Pooh
on 8/6/11 2:45 pm

I guess my first question is why does she stay in the abusive relationship? Why does she care if she "sets him off?" She should tell him then leave.

Winnie

OT: How to tell someone they are verbally/emotionally abusive