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    KristenThePhotograph
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    Member Since: 02/03/12
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    My name is Kristen... Ive never posted here.. infact until this week I had never been here! I have been considering Gastric for about a year now.. No I know that only I can know if it is right for me.. but from some personal blogs that i have read it seems the first month or two is very traumatic? is this the case for everyone? Ive read about nightmareish emotional rollar coasters ect. once you make this change can you never really eat some of the foods you enjoyed again? any wisdom would be helpful! thanks!
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    MyLady Heidi
    Member Since: 07/30/04
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    No nightmarish anything for me, I was thrilled to have a second chance at life and was positive I was not going to screw it up.  I never felt all those emotions you mention either, I don't grieve food, I can eat most of the things I want, the ones I can't I shouldn't be eating anyway.  Size 6 feels better then any Ho Ho's any day.
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    Emily F.
    Duodenal Switch (04/05/10)
    Member Since: 03/26/08
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    Well. I had duodenal switch but I had similar fears. I had no complications and did really well. No rollercoaster just a wild ride from all the changes.

    Good luck.
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    White Dove
    Member Since: 09/08/03
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     Had surgery on Tuesday, home on Thursday. Called my friend on Friday and asked her when it was going to get bad and she said that it would only get better

    She was right. 
    You are not what you eat, you are what you think.
     RNY 10-17-2007.  Currently at goal weight.    
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    slrm2m
    Toronto, Canada
    Member Since: 09/10/10
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     I'm 17 days post op and I found surgery and recovery to be one of the hardest things I've ever done.  I researched for a year before having the surgery, attended support groups and talked to others who had the surgery.  Even given all that preparation, I was still surprised by how much pain I had post-op (for about the first 5 days, then it got much better).  

    The psychological and behavioural changes are intense post-op...at least for me.
    I don't regret having the surgery since I had very clear and compelling reasons to go for it.  Not having the surgery had consequences and risks, too, and these ones were not ones that I wanted to tolerate.

    Everyone has different pain thresholds, responds to change differently and has unique social supports available to them.  Its hard to say what your experience will be like.  It is a risk because there are several unknowns.  Make sure you are clear about your compelling reasons to go ahead with the surgery, if you decide to do this.

    Best of luck with your decision!

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    DebsGiz
    FL
    Member Since: 07/25/08
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    I second what Heidi reports.  I've not had any problems and none of the emotional stuff either.

    My surgery is probably one of the best things I've ever done for myself. 

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    abrown8434
    VA
    Member Since: 08/23/01
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    I had the gastric sleeve and I could not be happier. Everyone is different and you never know what the outcome is until you go through with it. Today's WLS is not the same as the WLS of yesterday years. However, you do need to do your research, find out why you believe you eat what you eat and what has made you gain weight, and then see what surgery would come closest to providing the tool you need to help you lose weight.

    From my experience, I wouldn't say I experienced anything traumatic, there was just an adjustment period for the first couple of months. The body experiences some type of shock because there is a dramatic difference in what you eat preop & postop. Then there is some hair loss, bouts of tiredness, adjusting to the new regimen of trying to get all your protein, water & nutrients although you would rather not be bothered.

    At the end of the day, you have to remind yourself of why you are pursuing WLS in the first place. I'd rather experience these moderate temporary inconveniences than continue to shorten my life and add multiple health ailments because I refuse to take advantage of help that is available.

    Best of luck to you!!!!
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    Amalia S.
    Athens, Greece
    Member Since: 12/14/09
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    Hello Kristen and welcome. When I first came out of surgery, my main question was: "What the heck did I do to myself?" I'm happy to report that it was a short-lived question. The answer was not that long in coming. Within a few short weeks I was on the road to losing weight at a rate I had never seen before and happier than ever. Now, two years later I'm still losing weight (at a much more logical rate) and still happy about it. I no longer have all the life-threatening complications I once had. I look and feel almost normal. I had the VSG, so there are no "forbidden" foods but I have switched to a much healthier way of eating because I wanted to, because I feel much better with it, because I never want to go back to the way I was and because I COULD! 
    No long-term regrets here, only happiness.

    Amalia



      
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    ilex
    Garland, TX
    Member Since: 07/16/10
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     The emotional part varies a lot from person to person.  The toughest thing for me has been going out to eat and watching others with big plates of food that I liked before, but can't have now.  I might be able to have small amounts of most things later, or not.  Also right now a lot of things just don't taste good at all.

    As to giving up foods forever RNY and the DS are malabsorption procedures and from what I read both are quite sensitive to carbs/sugars.  RNY patients tend to get dumping, while DS patients tend to get diarrhea.  Patients with VSG (sleeve) can have these problems, but don't always, or even most of the time.

    Post surgery your taste will probably change and there may be foods that you no longer tolerate.  It varies a good deal from person to person.  Some lucky ducks come out with no intolerances and can eat anything.

    I had my sleeve at the end of 2011.  For me eggs feel like I ate bricks, ground pork made me feel ill, and (at least for now) beef and chicken don't taste good.  I've read that the meat might taste fine again in a few more months.  I was told that rice is a no, never food because it expands in the stomach and it is painful.  My surgeons nutritionist included pasta too, but some seem to tolerate pasta, at least in the small amounts that one can eat after getting in one's protein.  For now I'm not supposed to have any grain products.  I was told to not add them until 6 months out.

    And about the cereal and milk?  Yeah, that is a problem.  Most surgeons advise that you don't drink with your food to avoid vomitting.  Maybe a long timer could chime in on if they have been able to eat that...I wouldn't depend on it.


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    MacMadame
    Northern, CA
    Member Since: 02/10/08
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    Well, you are recovering from surgery in the first couple of months. Plus your life changes quite a bit.

    But I'm pretty easy-going about that kind of stuff so I don't think if you read my blog that you'll find it full of hard times and roller-coaster emotions. 

    I do try to be honest so people can see what life with WLS is really like. But what it's like for most people is a few months of adjustments followed by a lifetime of good quality of life.

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