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I'm with you on getting my head back in the game. I really want to lose 20 more pounds, and I haven't even tried!

Here's what I'm doing. I cut the alcohol out to only 2 nights a week vs any time I was going out. I started back at gym over the weekend. So far so good. I'm feeling better, even if I'm a little sore.

Oh, I'm also tracking my food on sparkpeople, which I never really got away from. I'm just trying to be a little more mindful of empty carbs. I'm not always successful with that, but I don't beat myself up.

Get back in the game, you can do this!

No words of wisdom, but I get it, weight regain is like 1lb=10lb mentally.  I swear.  It sucks, I have gained and lost that 10lbs before, swore I would never gain any of it back and do, lose it back again and again, it sucks.  You have to motivate you, you have to want it off and remember how good it felt when it was gone, when you clothes slipped on and felt like butter on your skin, not like a vice grip.  Is there a reward you can give yourself that will help keep you focused?  Something that will help keep you motivated?  My saving grace is I love photography and when I am out taking pics I get lots of exercise, my treat is spending more time alone taking pics of wildlife.  I crawl around the marshes and through the woods and think who is this person, because let me tell you I never did any of this MO, but I love it and appreciate it.  I can feel if my jeans are tight when I am sitting on the ground, it ****** me off.  I am fasting this week, because I want to prove to myself I can get off carbs.  It sucks, I am not recommending it but its what I am doing this week because typically the week of my period I let myself eat whatever and I don't want to do that this time.

Hi Emily! No real words of advice or wisdom here just wanted to tell you that you are not alone!!!
So many of us (me included) deal with the same struggle as you are.  I am trying to get off 14# I gained. (I am 3-1/2 years post RNY).  I try and remember how I felt almost 200# heavier and all that I can do now that I couldn't before.  It helps me some but dang! Then I get those cravings or worse yet, I tend to eat/drink at the same time.  A very bad habit for RNY'ers to develop!! I am working on it like you!!
Hang in there! Cut back, drink more water and get a bit more active, too if you aren't already.  Good advice I guess I'll just have to follow it  too :)  Mary

Wanted to gain 10-15 lbs. Gained 25+ ouch..
It took "forever" to lose the extra... but it can be done.  Now I am back where I can stay, or lose another 5... but that would be it..

here are my rules:
no alcohol
6 meals a day, water, tea, vitamins
low net carbs (minus fiber)
snacking - OK - as long as it is planned - needed
treats once a day (high proteins, ie. protein bar - so I do not feel deprived)
moderate exercise- changing exercise routine, and more slimming than bulking
calorie cycling (low days with high days) to confuse the body into losing

 I stock up on Questbars and eat in place of a meal.  I eat some fruit and vegetables.  No longer eat very much protein at all.  Most of the time just lowfat cheese sticks or a slice of American  Cheese on a high fiber piece of toast.  I eat a "meal" once of twice a week, usually from a restaurant and bring home the leftovers for a second or third meal.  I find that the less I eat, the less I want.  I have Lean Cuisine in the freezer.  I drink a lot of water from 64 to more than 130 ounces a day.  

I do a lot of exercise, sometimes two or three hours.

I live alone so don't have to worry about feeding others.  The less I eat, the less interest I have in food.  I weigh myself everyday and get upset over a one pound gain.  I have no crackers, chips, pretzels, etc in the house.  I very rarely eat any sweets.   I have broken off my relationship with Coke Zero and replaced with water.  I no longer look forward to meals or really enjoy food.  It is just something that I need to do in order to stay alive.  I no longer enjoy any food enough to overeat.

By avoiding sugar, carbs, and protein, I maintain my goal weight and feel great.  If I really want something I will endulge in a Lean Cuisine version.  Today I had a Lean Cuisine pizza.  It was not that great.  I could have gone back to eating like before surgery and I would have ended up regaining the weight.  

 First stop beating yourself up.
Second, look into counselling.
When you are ready, you will do it for yourself.  
Attitude is everything!

Dawn