Less tolerance for ass-holery?

I'm not having a good month. Work is a **** show and I've been given more responsibility than ever with the same pay. Husbands truck is in the shop and it's going to cost $1300 when we pick it up Friday. 

Add in PMS and we have a trifecta. So when DH said "nasty" while picking the onions out of his spaghetti last night I lost it. 

Does anyone else have less tolerance than before weight loss? I've lost almost 95 pounds and in many ways it's wonderful. But I have noted I am less patient with BS and more demanding. And that's not coming from him, I'm seeing it in myself. 

Hormone flooding? Am I just destined to be a ***** I have also noticed that I do not handle stress as well right now. I've attributed that to losing one of my coping mechanisms (food). I never thought I was a stress eater, but there it is. Thoughts? 

I went through a stage like that. I have no idea why, but it's probably a combination of a whole bunch of factors. 

Do the best you can, each day. You'll be fine. 

Hormone dump and you no longer have your old coping mechanism.... food.  I think many of us get more self confident as we lose weight and speaking out is the way it manifests.  It gets better. Being aware of it is half the battle.

I went through a similar phase only it stuck. I think when I was heavy I was a people pleaser to such an extreme that when I became a thin person I stopped pleasing others and wanted to please myself and in doing that it meant setting up boundaries.

and those boundaries often translates into me getting my ***** on, me losing my mind and me being even more frank and cutting than usual  

go with the flow, you'll do fine  

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I totally agree with you Ashley, for many of us we realise early in our journey - aware or not- we must put ourselves first to be successful.  Many of our peeps don't get it and we need to remind them, so it might mean getting snappy until it becomes more second nature to say...hey I need this so please give me your support.

I love this answer!

 I, too, get my ***** on. I heart you.

Back at you 

Luv this Get cha ***** on! I keep thinking of that Missy Elliot rap from years ago instead of get cha yo freak on, its now gonna be get cha ***** on! Get cha, get cha, get cha, get cha,get cha ***** on! 

"Only it stuck" !!!  I see how other people react to my changes... everyone is worried about how it is going to effect them. Oops sorry this is my life... and now I can do stuff... and maybe I won't be hanging around and the easy target to 'do stuff' for you....