Have the pick up lines improved?

Still Waiting
on 1/22/17 2:54 pm

I get some pretty ignorant, sexual comments directed at me by men.  Their excuse is usually because they think that since I'm obese I'm desperate and will take be talked to badly.  Just wondering if it's better, worse or the same after you lose the weight?

 

leseratte
on 1/22/17 3:11 pm - Kingston, ON,, Canada

I am sorry, but I feel really angry right now about your post (not with you, of course).

No one has to put up with ignorant, sexual comments regardless of size.

I just hope its not happening at your work!

If you could give as some specific examples, maybe we can come back with a good answer to these gentlemen?

 

RNY 03/02/2016

In Pounds: HW 296, SW 292, M1:-34, M2:-8, M3:-13, M4:-16, M5:-12, M6:-11, M7:-9, M8:-8, M9:-5, M10:-4

Still Waiting
on 1/23/17 9:30 am

Never at work.  Thankfully.  

odie
on 1/22/17 3:21 pm, edited 1/22/17 7:22 am
RNY on 05/26/14

You tell them, those who can DO, those that can't Talk!!

 

Or, "I'd ruin you for all other women".

Or, "i'm losing weight, when are you getting plastic surgery?"

 

Or"  I'm losing weight, when is your brain surgery!!"

 

 

I got tons of them!!  I was told my a guy once that I had a tongue like a drop of acid!

To Thine Own Self Be True!!

NYC-Hot-Stuff
on 1/22/17 9:03 pm

Absolutely no way ever should a woman say "I'm losing weight," no matter what phrase she may precede or follow it with, to a baboon who's insulted her because of her weight.  To do so is to apologize or ask forgiveness from the ape for her weight.  Screw that.

odie
on 1/23/17 4:08 am
RNY on 05/26/14
On January 23, 2017 at 5:03 AM Pacific Time, NYC-Hot-Stuff wrote:

Absolutely no way ever should a woman say "I'm losing weight," no matter what phrase she may precede or follow it with, to a baboon who's insulted her because of her weight.  To do so is to apologize or ask forgiveness from the ape for her weight.  Screw that.

I have to disagree with you!!  When you can turn someone's own words back on them, and thus make THEM the butt of the joke, you win!  I've been hit on crudely, both when I was slim or fat, my responses are mostly the same with variations!  Becoming too militant with any responses serves only to entertain the obnoxious!  Laughing at them and showing what an ass they are, entertains you!

To Thine Own Self Be True!!

Grim_Traveller
on 1/23/17 4:53 am
RNY on 08/21/12
On January 23, 2017 at 5:03 AM Pacific Time, NYC-Hot-Stuff wrote:

Absolutely no way ever should a woman say "I'm losing weight," no matter what phrase she may precede or follow it with, to a baboon who's insulted her because of her weight.  To do so is to apologize or ask forgiveness from the ape for her weight.  Screw that.

Yes, times 100.

6'3" tall, male.

Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.

M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.

Sharon SW-267
GW-165 CW-167 S.

on 1/27/17 3:47 am - PA
RNY on 12/22/14

A tongue like a drop of acid!!  The best compliment ever.

Sharon

Lipsticklady
on 1/22/17 4:03 pm
VSG on 05/14/13

My go to answer?  "Suck my d!ck." They have no idea how to respond most times.

ISO ... New "clique" members. You must be kind, warm, welcoming, honest, intelligent, and have a sense of humor. The words "shamed" or "victim" can not be in your regular vocabulary. Sarcasm is welcome (and wanted!), but cruelty is not. You must not be a coddler or a shamer. All members are free to classify themselves as vets, newbies, grasshoppers or anything else they desire.

I enjoy long walks on the beach, puppies, sunsets and taking off my bra as I pull in the driveway. If you are like minded, you are in!

And remember, we are ALL worthy of love, humor, and dignity.

I started a new group here for my old BP friends and any new friends who have a sense of humor. Link to join:

http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/real_talk

pammieanne
on 1/23/17 6:42 am - OK
RNY on 05/16/16

I like this answer the best so far 

Height 5'5" HW 260 SW 251 CW 141.6 (2/27/18)

RNY 5-16-16 Pre-Op 9lbs, M1-18.5lbs, M2-18.1lbs, M3-14.8lbs, M4-10.4lbs, M5-9.2lbs, M6-7lbs, M7-6.2lbs, M8-8.8lbs,M9-7.8lbs, M10-1 lb, M11-.6lbs, M12-4.4lbs

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