So as I try to imagine what it would be like to be thin (I really don't know... I was a size 16 in grade 9), I imagine myself wearing things like nice heels. Is that possible? Do our bodies forgive us that much?!
Just a few years ago, I remember I used to zip through airports (I traveled a lot for work) in 3 inch wedges. For about a couple of years now, I can really only wear flats, and there's no zipping anywhere!!!
I wear heels often. I don't have any issues wearing them.
Laura in Texas
51 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); CW: 140 (BMI=22)
RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis
brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco
"If what you're doing doesn't work, change what you're doing - don't complain that it doesn't work."
Yep. I'd given up on heels, I thought forever. I had chalked it up to changing careers to nursing, and the rheumatoid disease that caused these very painful nodules to form in the arches of my feet. I started buying the expensive shoes at The Walking Company and FootSmart because they were the only ones I could stand, and while they have some that don't look like orthopedic shoes, they're not exactly high fashion.
Since losing almost 100#, I can wear heels again. Now, I still can't wear cheap shoes anymore, I have to buy quality for my feet to tolerate them. (Probably shouldn't have ever bought cheap shoes, but hey I was young...) And I can't go extreme, but I can wear a nice 3 to 3-1/2" heel now, and get through a day at the office or even an evening out in them.
All day every day! If I am not on a run and wearing my Saucony's you will find me in heels! And now that Summer is around the corner its Wedge's for days, so much fun shoes for Summer! You will love it. I recently went to a wedding and wore 4" heels all night long dancing and standing chatting, its wonderful! I do love cute ballerina flats for some outfits but my go to are heels now, never ever in a million years thought I would say that when I was MO. Good luck shoe shopping now!
Daisy 5'5" HW: 275 SW: 254 CW:125
RNY Nov 15, 2013- Dr David Urbach Toronto Western Hospital
Maintenance is extremely HARD. I had surgery on my stomach not my brain. The struggle is real and I work daily to maintain my weight loss, you can do it too!
4" heels sound incredible. My sis and I found the most gorgeous pink sparkly stilettos not long after she started dating her current bf. She tried them on... they were so so great, and she thought maybe when they get married (which will likely happen in a year or two)!
I took a pic of them, partly for her, and partly for me because I wished I could wear such beauties. I wasn't even considering wls then. Maybe these and her friends are in my future!!!
I'm back in my heels... and I now have LOTS more new pairs to go with all the outstanding clothes I keep finding at a bargain.
Oh... maybe I've transferred my addictions...
You betcha, you'll be back in heels! And you'll love the wedge and chunky heeled shoes... so easy to walk in!
52yo Height 5'5" HW 260 SW 251 CW 137.4 (9/8/17)
RNY 5-16-16 Pre-Op 9lbs, M1-18.5lbs, M2-18.1lbs, M3-14.8lbs, M4-10.4lbs, M5-9.2lbs, M6-7lbs, M7-6.2lbs, M8-8.8lbs,M9-7.8lbs, M10-1 lb, M11-.6lbs, M12-4.4lbs
Yes pretty much every day when I was working before recent layoff.. flats before WLS for many years. I love heels and miss wearing them. Have way more then I will admit to!
have fun !!!!!!!!
This makes me wonder if I'll ever get back into heels myself, I begrudgingly gave up a couple of dozen pairs a few years ago as my knees were so bad that I simply couldn't handle the pain anymore.
I know I'll still have some knee issues even after I lose the weight (as knee problems had a small part to play in me gaining my weight), but the thought of even occasionally wearing heels again gives me a warm fuzzy glow. I miss them so much, I really enjoyed them.
Referral to CABSC: Aug 2016 (weight 267lbs) Orientation (Online): Sept 2016 Intake Assessment: Oct 2016 Nutritionist: Nov 2016 Psych: Dec 2016 Nutritionist: Jan 2017 Surgery Info Class: Feb 2017 Nurse Practitioner: Feb 2017 Meet the Surgeon: Mar 2017 (weight 225lbs) Surgery Prep Class: April 2017 Nurse Practitioner Check in: May 2017 (weight 221lbs) Endoscope: May17th 2017 Surgery: July 10th 2017
M1: 14lbs M2: 10lbs
I hope your knees recover and I also hope you can wear heels and anything else you want!