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 FLINT, TX Member Since: 04/21/09 [Latest Posts] | |
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 Member Since: 10/16/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 9:07 pm Topic: RE: Rheumatoid Arthritis My siter has RA (she is a lil overweight but nothing like me) and I didn't realize till now how serious it is. In the last week she has been to the ER twice, they just give her a shot of morphine and send her home. She cant walk rite now and thats hard to imagine how one day she is fine, walking, working and the next cant move . . . almost like shes paralized. I found out that she has not had her embrel shots since february because she lost her insurance and couldnt afford the $2500 a month for the 4 shots. anyhow, my prayers are with those of you who suffer with RA. |
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 Staten Island, NY (07/23/09) Member Since: 08/26/09[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 9:06 pm Topic: RE: Greek Yogurt..Need options I love Chobani.....its my favorite....I add fruit and granola to the plain...Lisa |
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 Canada Member Since: 09/01/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 9:03 pm Topic: RE: Frustrated... Aggrivated and Sad ~ Hi there. I am so sorry to hear the bad news. I was wondering how you were making out with the diet and I have been thinking of you. I was looking forward to knowing someone having the surgery the same day as I am. I will keep fingers cross it will not take long to get approved. Keep in touch |
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Staten Island, NY (07/23/09) Member Since: 08/26/09[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 9:00 pm Topic: RE: A silly WOW moment but still a wow moment Wow......isn't it a wonderful feeling! Lisa |
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 Wilson, NC Member Since: 04/08/04 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 9:00 pm Topic: RE: Can I donate Blood? Maybe. THey check your hgb or hct before giving which gives you a yes or no.. however, this is only what your number is at this moment in time. Unless you know what your ferritin, or reserve, number is, then no. My hct and hgb are good enough to donate. However, my ferritin is in the toilet. If I donate, my body will need to replenish using ferritin and given that I don't have any, it will put me in an even further bind. This is not a good thing. But yes, technically I can donate blood. |
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Staten Island, NY (07/23/09) Member Since: 08/26/09[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:58 pm Topic: RE: 15 days out!!!!!! WhooooooHooooo for you.......thats great.......Lisa :) |
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Wilson, NC Member Since: 04/08/04 [Latest Posts] | |
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Staten Island, NY (07/23/09) Member Since: 08/26/09[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:56 pm Topic: RE: Had this for dinner last night....numm! sounds good....thanks...Lisa |
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Member Since: 09/12/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:56 pm Topic: RE: High Ferriton and B12 Levels It's not that there are no report incidents of too much B12. It's that there are no symptoms or problems that have been associated with taking large amounts of B12 or having very high levels of B12. What don't you trust about that? Kelly | |
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Staten Island, NY (07/23/09) Member Since: 08/26/09[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:53 pm Topic: RE: I'm so excited!!!!! Congrats! Its so hard...you should be proud of yourself Lisa |
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 New Windsor, NY Member Since: 11/20/08 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:52 pm Topic: RE: Have You ever felt this way? Great post, and congrats on your surgery and your new life- you will make a new better friend in yourself! I am 5'5....Goal reached in 7 months!  |
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 Member Since: 07/18/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:51 pm Last Edit: 11/7/09 8:51 pm Topic: RE: Things to have on hand after surgery Looks like you are doing well, but please make sure your tea is decaf post-op...AND Pepto has Aspirin in it,.....and is therefore a no no after surgery. Yu may want to try something like chewable Pepcid instead. |
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 North Aurora, IL Member Since: 07/16/07 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:47 pm Topic: RE: Can I donate Blood? Check with your surgeon...mine said that I could still donate IF my iron levels were good and since the check your iron before anyway, you should be okay. But I still say ask your own Dr first Monica
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 Lebanon, OR Member Since: 06/16/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:45 pm Topic: RE: Wii Fit Plus the wii fit plus has a lot of extra features and games it is the same game as wii fit just some cool features added, you could buy wii fit plus for only $20 and you use the same wii board. it's up to you if you think the extra features are worth it. I think they are pretty worth it.  http://wiifit.com/ Create in me a clean heart, O God, And renew a steadfast spirit within me. psalms 51:10 my pre-op weight loss:   |
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 Newberry, FL Member Since: 09/17/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:42 pm Topic: RE: Why no gum again? On November 7, 2009 at 5:42 PM Pacific Time, Orecic wrote: I know for RNY it is also because when u chew gum your adding excess air like using a straw which is a no no.... It makes sense, but I have also not swallowed gum (on purpose or accident) since I was a kid.  Becky  |
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 Nashville, TN Member Since: 07/18/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:41 pm Topic: RE: I'm so excited!!!!! Congratulations on your success! Family gatherings can be hard. I have noticed that I have talked more than eating these days. What is three way chili? |
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 North Canton, OH Member Since: 01/28/03 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:41 pm Topic: RE: Help I 'm having a mental breakdown!! Yes, this is hard. But, there must be a specific reason you choose your journey. My reasons were to get rid of the diabetes and to help me get pregnant (I've had unexplained infertility for 8 years). I focus on my reasons and I get selfish and I focus on myself. The struggle is hard and tears will be shed but focus on why you made this choice and taking care of #1 and know you do not struggle alone and many of us shed a few tears too. good luck with everything!  |
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 KY (12/17/09) Member Since: 07/28/09[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:41 pm Topic: RE: 3+ years out from surgery and starting to have issues I had this problem before surgery,my pcp said to cut back salt,soda, sodium, but I would seek your Dr.,s advice. |
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 Sandy, UT Member Since: 09/21/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:37 pm Topic: RE: I'm so excited!!!!!  YOU DID AWESOME!!!!! Ohhhh, congratulations! Be proud of yourself because that is a MAJOR thing you did today! You give me hope that I will make it through Christmas 10 days after my RNY without hurting myself! LOL  Linda |
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Member Since: 07/18/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:37 pm Topic: RE: Why haven't lost weight? Are you getting enough protein? According to a lecturer I saw today we need extra protein when stressed or sick...just thought I would put that out there. |
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 Federal Way, WA Member Since: 08/22/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:33 pm Topic: RE: Especially for those of you without health care coverage... now we'll see what they do in the senate.... it ain't over yet...  jeris  To live would be an awfully big adventure -- Peter Pan |
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 Seattle, WA (11/11/08) Member Since: 12/03/08[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:33 pm Topic: RE: Whatcha Eatin' Today EveryOne? Good Evening- Just a quick post with the foods: B: Protein Shake- 30g and coffee, L: Small salad bar plate (at my boys soccer party) S; Protein Shake-30g, (more coffee) D; small bowl Spicy Sausage & Cabbage Soup, few bagel chips and Laughing Cow Garlic Cheese, S; 100 Calorie Popcorn. Enjoy- Nancy 21 pounds lost on 10 day pre-op diet  |
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Sandy, UT Member Since: 09/21/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:29 pm Topic: RE: need info about whey I got Genisoy. Soy protein powder. It is gritty, but doesn't have the after taste that some of the stuff does. I mix 2 tablespoons of pumpkin spice coffee creamer in it, skim mil**** pumpkin pie spice and shake the crap out of it. I'm also going to get some SF vanilla coffee creamer after surgery. I had Muscle Milk Banana Creme today which I thoroughly enjoyed. I'm trying a little bit of everything because I have to find something I like before surgery. I went to Whole Foods and got a bunch of single serving packs of protein powder to try. Just don't try the yam protein. Ecch. LOL Good luck! Linda |
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 Mcalester, OK Member Since: 07/12/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:23 pm Topic: RE: Rheumatoid Arthritis Well I have RA also, I did have to get off methatrexate (which I didn't mind) before having surgery, but I was also having liver tests come back bad while on it - I am suppose to start Humira in Janurary since having surgery 8-24-09. I did have to give up my pain procedures for my pancreas (celiac plexus blocks) which has been hard but I will survive. I know alot of meds do cause problems with WLS...so I guess the docs know whats best...but I know since I have been losing weight (yes slowly but I am losing) I have noticed less pain from RA as well as being able to excercise which helps with my fibromyalgia...so I feel being without the meds has been a good thing for me.    |
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 TX Member Since: 07/14/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:23 pm Topic: RE: Salad Friends, I was just cleared for salads by my doc on Thursday! And guess what?! I've yet to eat a salad! Mind you, I have been craving them for weeks but was so afraid to upset "Wilma" (my pouch's new name) that I have let that keep me from venturing out. A friend of mine who had surgery the same day eats EVERYTHING!! Seriously!! She eats foods high #s of sugar, an almond joy every other day! She's even had a Dr. Pepper!!! Regular!! She's been eating solids for a while now, eating out and everything. She NEVER, EVER drinks her protein...EVER!! I even make her laugh because I've stuck to my assigned diets and she just looks at me stunned saying how proud she is. Not to mention that I LOVE MY PROTEIN SHAKES!! How is this possible with my friend?! Anyway, I need to stop being so afraid...or do I? I mean, having read that some of you want to experiment, and my doc agrees within reason, I think I will try a salad tomorrow. I've had episodes in the past where I eat too fast, or too much or too something, and Wilma just wants to send it back up...and does. I hate vomiting!! It's such a drag!! I'm 3 months out and have followed my diet to a T; however, I think a salad is in order tomorrow!! I think I'll try one at home first to see Wilma's reaction!! LOL! Thanks, friends!!     |
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 Member Since: 09/03/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:22 pm Topic: RE: Help I 'm having a mental breakdown!! thanks so much for the both of you for responding to my urgent need and I will try harder embracing this lifelong journey of better health. Thats how I see it. |
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 Greenville, OH Member Since: 03/27/06 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:20 pm Topic: RE: Todays Oldie But Goldie Song I slept in some this morning, thats why I was running a little later than usual...Usually I am up around 6 a.m. but this morning I was just so sleepy and didnt want to get up...Its been a long, slow day...But beautiful outside... I dont know a thing about twin grandbabies...am I behind on times, or what? Yes I got the link about the crock pot recipes...Thank you so much...Theres tons of recipes on there...I sent it to a few friends and also to my 2 sisters.... I am sure that you will love the shows tonight/ and tomorrow...Well at least I did... Am heading to bed soon...Am beat... Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only TRUE FRIENDS |
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will leave footprints in your heart...And may that friendship have such a ONENESS that when one weeps the other will taste salt...Friends are like balloons ; once you let them go you can't get them back....So I'm going to tie you to my heart so I never lose you.
 Brooklyn, NY Member Since: 05/12/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:17 pm Topic: RE: Especially for those of you without health care coverage...  Vida Cambio |
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Mcalester, OK Member Since: 07/12/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:16 pm Topic: I'm so excited!!!!! Today was a big test for me...Today I went to my first family get together - you know the kind, lots of good food, calories galore, and yummy birthday cake to die for. Honestly I was really worried, I waited until everyone was done making their plates - this way I didn't feel rushed...I looked at the ham, the pulled barbque pork, the 3 way chili, all the different salads (past,veggie,layered,etc.)..Hmmm what should I eat...first off the plates were huge, divided styrofoam...I looked at the green bean casserole - is it good for me or not...I used my clean plastic spoon and got a spoon put it in one compartment, I then got some pulled pork (yes it had barbeque sauce which has sugar in it) I take another clean plastic spoon andd got one spoon of meat...hey this isn't all that hard...Man does that Ham look good - but hey I want to visit more than eat...even though I am starving. I pass by the desserts, no wacky cake, no brownies, and no birthday cake - man does it all look good...wait there is banana pudding that shoulkdn't hurt me right? I will plan on that being dessert...yes it is loaded with calories but it is a special occassion....lol I go sit down next to people I haven't seen for a while (my cousin who had rny wasn't there...dang I was hoping I could kinda watch her choices) I find a seat, prepare for the meal...talk to my cousins little kids, take a small bite of green bean cassorloe - man does this taste good...chew chew and chew some more - listen to kiddy jokes...take a bite of pork - oh man was it good....when I was finally all done eating, I got full - I didn't even finish my plate...I realize Hey I made it through dinner without hating myself. I could have made better choices but hey I did good - no third, fourth or fifth refills, no ice tea jus****er, and NO DESSERTS...I made it through a family meal and did fine. While I started cleaning up while others were still eating my niece, who is 14, and tells us all the time fat people are lkazy, came to me adn patted my tummy and said I think you look so different - You don't have that big ugly stomach now - Yes it sounds rude for a kid to say...but I took it as one of the biggest compliments I have ever had...she made my day. Today showed me I can deal with thanksgiving and Christmas..woo hoo look out world I am going to survive this obstacle and succeed. Does anyone else have any stories to share about the big changes with family gatherings? I would love to hear them |
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Brooklyn, NY Member Since: 05/12/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:15 pm Topic: RE: Have You ever felt this way? I am really sitting here pondering the fact that your best friend was there before and after sex...I'm like what..but I ignore...You really had me going...I was like half way to tears thinking if I lost my best friend(god forbid)..I am such a sap Vida Cambio |
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Member Since: 08/15/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:12 pm Topic: RE: Help I 'm having a mental breakdown!! Nothing worth having is easy in this world. You have to work for what you want no matter how steep the mountain. You have made the right decision and there is always a new day. You must also remember that your hormones are running rampid right now..you just had major surgery and it is natural to feel emotional. This journey you have chosen to take will only be a struggle if you allow it to be. Like the old saying you are what you eat..well you are also the life you have chosen. You can chose to fight it every day making your journey miserable and possibly sabotaging your success, or you can chose to embrace it and make it the positive lifestyle change that you were hoping for when you started this journey.. Give yourself some time..it will get easier. chili |
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KY (12/17/09) Member Since: 07/28/09[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:11 pm Topic: RE: Help I 'm having a mental breakdown!! Hi there,sorry you have to go thru this. If you need someone to talk to,you,ve came to the right place ! I decided to have ds at the last moment, I was going to have Rny in dec. and I changed my mind. But a lot of the Rny,s say it gets better with time. |
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 Southern Caifornia, CA Duodenal Switch (11/28/05) Member Since: 08/07/05[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:09 pm Last Edit: 11/7/09 8:11 pm Topic: Especially for those of you without health care coverage... 220 aye votes... the House just passed their Health Care Reform Bill. Good luck on getting the surgery you need. |
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 San Diego, CA Member Since: 11/02/02 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:03 pm Topic: RE: Salad I like testing the waters, but it isn't recommended on my plan until 3 months out and I am counting them! I may even try it this coming week. I am just so bored sometimes but I am sticking to it as much as possible. HW: 284 CW: 247.4 SW: 273 1st Goal: 200 2nd Goal: 150 My Ultimate Goal: 120 or less and healthy!! Surgeon's goal: 140ish  |
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KY (12/17/09) Member Since: 07/28/09[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:03 pm Topic: RE: Help!! I am addicted!! Be sure to check out ( d.s. facts.com ) so you know all the choices,pro-cons !!!!! check out duodenal switch board too. We would be glad to answer any questions !!!! There are more surgeries than bands and Rny,s !!! There is the sleeve and DS. |
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 Willow Grove, PA Duodenal Switch (10/19/09) Member Since: 03/01/07[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:01 pm Topic: RE: Obesity Surgery and Mortality ... any new stats? This article may be of interest to you: www.usatoday.com/news/health/2009-07-31-obesity-surgery_N.ht m. 320/285/150? "The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity." - Dorothy Parker |
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concord, mi Member Since: 07/24/00 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 8:01 pm Topic: Rheumatoid Arthritis I am almost 54 years old, 5'2" and weigh 245 lbs. I was in the process of getting approval for weight loss surgery when I was diagnosed with rhuematoid arthritis. I contributed all my aches and pains all these years (and so did most of my doctors) to my being obese. I know my being fat didn't help any, but at least I had some answers to all my pain. Heres the question. I currently take the highest dosage of Embral, Methorexate, and Plaquenil that you can take and they say my disease is "under control". When I asked my doctor about weight loss surgery she said that I was NOT a good candidate because the medicines I take weaken my immune system. Both my private doctor and my rheumatologist hesitate to endorse the surgery. They say that I already have a comprimised immune system and would be at too high a risk for infections and complications especially for the band surgery, but also the gastric bypas. It hurts so much to walk and exercise, and I am only gaining more weight each year!! I feel this is my only chance to gain back my life. Weight loss surgery for me, is my only option. Tried all the diets,, its a viscious circle. You all know what I mean. What should I do now? Any answers out there for me? |
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 MN Member Since: 04/10/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:59 pm Topic: RE: 15 days out!!!!!! Good for you!!! I had surgery the day b4 you..that is a wonderful weightloss...good luck to you ******SHELLBELL***** WEIGHT B4 SURGERY 235 WEIGHT DAY OF SURGERY 220  |
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Member Since: 09/16/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:58 pm Topic: RE: My body is a ONEderland!!!!! wow, you have lost so much weight in one year. what an accomplishment! That is truly amazing and something to celebrate. Go shopping...........take a hot bath..........do something nice for yourself. MaRIA |
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Member Since: 09/03/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:57 pm Topic: Help I 'm having a mental breakdown!! I am on day 5 of this rny surgery and some moments I feel fine others I tend cry, like now!!! This surgery isn't the easy way out! Its actually the hardest way in to better eating and living. I felt over the last 3 or so months after reading various profiles on journeys before and after the surgery, but when do I come in and give my positive side? I needed the surgery and at times like most of you I felt like earlier today I should've stayed the way I was and dealt with whatever. I need right now some serious members who feel my pain and just continue for a renew strength for me in this journey. My tears I do believe will turn into joy one day. But for now my struggle is sooooooo hard. |
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Member Since: 09/16/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:56 pm Topic: RE: Have You ever felt this way? wow, good one. really good one. thanks for sharing, maria |
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MN Member Since: 04/10/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:54 pm Topic: RE: Salad Mmmmm... can't wait for a crispy fresh salad... ******SHELLBELL***** WEIGHT B4 SURGERY 235 WEIGHT DAY OF SURGERY 220 |
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 Member Since: 05/24/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:50 pm Topic: RE: Salad Hi Fenice! I ate salad at about 3 months. It has to be chewed very well but I've never had any trouble with it. Now I can eat all raw veggies in my salad. Connie |
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KY (12/17/09) Member Since: 07/28/09[Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:50 pm Topic: RE: Obesity Surgery and Mortality ... any new stats? check out ( ds facts.com ) they list all the facts,they list pro- and - cons. They list all the surgeries,bands,rny,ds,and sleeve !!!! |
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 Member Since: 06/16/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:48 pm Topic: Have You ever felt this way? So I have this friend that's been with me through thick and thin but all of a sudden my friend is gone. She was there every since I can remember. I would see her on my way to school, she was the first one I ran to after school. She was the one that was there when I was happy, sad, mad, or glad. She was my best friend! She was there when I went out on my first date, she was there when I couldn't get a date. She was there when I walked into woman hood, she was there when I wished I was still a child with no responsibilities. She was there I went off to college and discovered knew things, and she was still there when I graduated and figured out I still had nothing. She was there when I got my first interview, and she was there when I didn't get the job. She was there all the way when I got married, and oddly enough she was there right before and after I had sex for the very first time. She was there when I excepted Christ, she was there when I pushed him to the side to do my own thing only to find out I was nothing without him. Finally, she was there this morning, afternoon and tonight. BUT Now she is gone never to be my friend in that capacity. I'm sure I'll see her around being friends to everyone else but me. I know I 'll survive my best betraying me because my best friend was never a true best friend to me . Gone forever Food that's not good for me Cry now  and smile later |
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Monsey, NY Member Since: 04/28/00 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:47 pm Topic: RE: Pain pill side effects - any suggestions Percocet is the same as Oxycodone(Generic). Wow, you have covered everything I can think of. I am onthe Fentynyl patch and percocet (Oxycodone) After my surgery I took Dilaudid and liquid morphine. The only thing you didnt' list is Ultracet. It is pretty tiny. It isn't a narcotic but is as strong as codeine. Have you tried codeine? Percocet comes in liquid called Roxicet.  |
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Member Since: 05/24/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:47 pm Topic: RE: My body is a ONEderland!!!!! Woohoo!! That is awesome news!! You have really done a fantastic job!! Go go go!! Connie  |
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 Columbia, SC Member Since: 05/13/09 [Latest Posts] | Post Date: 11/7/09 7:45 pm Topic: RE: Why haven't lost weight? I feel ya girl. I am 7 weeks out and have lost 27pounds. I am losing slow but I know it gotta eventually come off because I'm not eating nearly as much as I use to. I'm trying to be patient. We both will lose the weight. Just hang in there.  |
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