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    TravelingMomofTwo
    Member Since: 04/15/12
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    Topic: RE: ANY DS REGRETS?
     I'm curious myself....thanks for posting this question.

    Im sorry to hear (sorry I couldn't recall name) you are in the hospital. Did you have health issues before the DS that may have contributed to the problems? Are you on a regular protein/vitamin diet, with regular dr and surgeon follow-up? Just trying to see if there is anything we can do to protect ourselves from medical harm IF we get the DS...
            
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    merrymorris
    philadelphia, PA
    DS (04/26/12)
    Member Since: 12/31/09
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    Topic: RE: coping skills
    I am totally with you. I did all the research and tried to prepare myself...even went back to my therapist. I didn't really know how I use food for EVERYTHING. Especially when I need comfort. It is sad to realize that food has been one of my closest friends.
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    Wannabhealthy barbie
    Member Since: 06/07/09
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    Topic: RE: I gained 40lbs in 2 months
    The NUT said the RNY changes, slows down your metabolism. My pouch is still tiny, but I was eating frequently, badly.
                
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    MzKeepinOn
    Member Since: 03/10/12
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    Topic: RE: I gained 40lbs in 2 months
    what do you mean when you say that the RNY messed up your metabolism?  Did your pouch stretch too?  Im sorry you feel so crappy :(
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    Wannabhealthy barbie
    Member Since: 06/07/09
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    Topic: I gained 40lbs in 2 months
    Doc came back nothing wrong but not enough b12 or vit D. It is my diet and lack of exercise. I slipped into this comfortable wine drinking after work and ordering pizza  for dinner and now I am paying for it BIG time. So my surgeons book says 800 calorie diet and exercise,,,,,I am doing that now and logging my food. But I just wanted to let you know it was all me I was in denial. Now I have to fight to get back down to a resonanable size and I am miserable and completely depressed! But only eating 800 calories a day is miserable I am starving and feel like throwing up all day because I am so hungry.....the rny messed with my metabolsim doc said and this is the price I pay.
                
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    Greg S.
    Ypsilanti, MI
    RNY (05/08/12)
    Member Since: 02/01/09
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    Topic: RE: RNY takedown (reversal)
     Just wondering, I thought rny was irreversable? and does insurance pay to reverse it?? Thanks G.S  surgery next wk in MI.
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    reversedgrace08
    Member Since: 01/08/10
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    Topic: RE: RNY takedown (reversal)
    I sprouted numerous neurological problems even tho I only lost 40lbs. I was unable to eat meat, veggies , fruit and basically anything UNprocessed.
    without the takedown my family and my long time physician beleive I would not be here today to type this . If I had been told or had found thru my 6 months of research BEFORE I had my rny that it would have a chance to lead to ANY of these nuero and other issues not just in the short term but in the long term as well, I would have to not have any type of wls.
    a quick snyopsis of my story

    For 3.5 years and I had
    1. An inability to eat ANY veggies and fruits (maybe applesauce)
    2. An inability to eat any meat aside from sandwich meat
    3. Vomiting daily at the least (yes despite chewing my food well and taking small bites)
    4. Injecting myself twice a week with vitamin b12 and it having NO EFFECT on how I felt
    5. 2 strictures, four endoscopies and no effect on my healthy (all the docs said everything looked good and I SHOULD be able to eat what I knew I could not)
    6. Joint pain (nope, never really had joint pain pre rny)
    7. The beginnings of what *I know* would eventually be reactive hypoglycemia
    8. Inability to do either job because of memory problems. My mental processing speed tested in the 14th percentile. Both jobs required good memory and one required quick processing speed
    9. The worst depression despite a slew of anti depressant drugs I tried
    10. A loss of only 40 frickin pounds, thus now I was still morbidly obese AND sicker than I had ever been in my entire life
    11. Dizziness for almost 4 years consistently. It finally started going away a few months after my takedown.
    12. Rotting teeth that would take upwards of about $8000.00 to repair and that was quoted when I HAD dental insurance. I used to get compliments on my teeth all the time but the vomiting and dry mouth the 8 or so additional medications I was on left me with ugly, painful and rotting teeth.
    13. Seizure activity that I NEVER had pre RNY
    14. Unrelenting fatigue. To give you an idea, my daily choice of activity was EITHER taking a shower OR making a simple dinner for my family. If I made the mistake of doing both or anything extra, my body would make me pay dearly and for days upon days
    15. Almost 80k of medical debt and no way to pay it
    16. ICE cold feet and burning sensations in my palms aka peripheral neuropathy
    17. Vision problems
    18. Finally pain but mainly just in my upper right back which seems to have also been a form of peripheral neuropathy

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    cepjo330
    Miami Gardens, FL
    Member Since: 04/18/12
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    Topic: RE: PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU HAVE GB
    Thats fine.
     
    I too feel like it was a mistake, yes I lost a lot of weight but i was left with sadness, constant stomach pains, throwing and a sense of feeling not excepted. I just need some encouragement to help me step out of the slump am in. I am so sad because in any given week I have two to three good days. I never thought that it would be like this.
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    Deb H.
    Duodenal Switch (10/23/07)
    Member Since: 02/28/07
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    Topic: RE: RNY takedown (reversal)
    Why did you have your surgery taken down?
      I do it all now...Just because I can !
    DS 10-23-07
    Sw-280
    Dr. goal -138
    CW - 110
    Miss Doob
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    susieq35
    Espanola, NM
    Duodenal Switch (04/24/12)
    Member Since: 01/30/12
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    Topic: RE: ANY DS REGRETS?
    Hi

    I had the same conflict but have decided on DS mainly because of the sustained weight loss over time.

    Best wishes
            
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    Batwingsman
    Garland, TX
    Member Since: 08/10/08
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    Topic: RE: ANY DS REGRETS?

      You bet ..    But, what WLS alternative is there that gives (supposedly) as great % of EWL and maintenance of loss?   Until something better comes along, I guess we can't complain much .. 

    Frank talk about the DS / "All I ever wanted to be was thin, like that Rolling Stones dude ... " 

     HW/461  LW/251 CW/313 (yep, on the way back up  :-(   )

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    Batwingsman
    Garland, TX
    Member Since: 08/10/08
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    Topic: RE: PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU HAVE GB
    and much less problems with severe nutritional deficiency.

     I don't know about that!    B/c we have much greater malabsorption than RNYers, I would say our nutritional deficencies are greater, as well .   

    Frank talk about the DS / "All I ever wanted to be was thin, like that Rolling Stones dude ... " 

     HW/461  LW/251 CW/313 (yep, on the way back up  :-(   )

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    jessicalovegold
    Member Since: 08/12/11
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    Topic: coping skills
    I didn't realize how few coping skills I had outside of pigging out on food.  Handling my emotions has been really hard.  I don't regret the surgery, I just didn't realize how difficult the emotional stuff would be.  I read all the books and did therapy pre-op, but you don't really know how it feels until you are experiencing it.
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    utahrob
    Member Since: 11/15/11
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    Topic: RE: PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU HAVE GB
    Brian, 

    Thanks for your honesty.  I'm thinking about having WLS in the coming months, but I have fears of secondary addictions and depression.  I hope you are doing well now and thanks again for sharing your story.

    Sincerely,
    Utahrob
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    reversedgrace08
    Member Since: 01/08/10
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    Topic: RNY takedown (reversal)
    I had my rny takendown 3.5 years after the surgery and it saved my life and restored many of my health issues caused by rny
    grace
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    FatReva
    NJ
    VSG (03/27/12)
    Member Since: 01/17/12
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    Topic: RE: Missing the weight?
    Once upon a time, a therapist of mine asked me if I was using my fat as an excuse to not date men.

    At the time, I thought that was the craziest question ever. Why would my weight keep me from dating? I just couldn't see the connection.

    Now, I realize that I have used my weight - my overabundance of fat - to keep men at bay. This way, as a fat woman, I didn't have to try to attract a man, I didn't need to worry about being rejected since I was never approached to begin with.

    In the past year, I've started to really lose the weight - twenty pounds on my own with lots of effort and set backs; on March 27th, I'll have VSG surgery and hopefully within a year be within a 'normal' weight range - and I'm sure I'll miss my fat then, when it won't be around to insulate me from male attention any longer.

    - Reva
            
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    stinkysmommy
    Member Since: 01/19/12
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    Topic: RE: 7 months out frome RNY reversal

    This is to the nurse that posted.  These are the kind of comments that are so annoying.  I had 1 cavity my whole life until a couple years after my surgery, then I got 2 more then a few more until now I had 13.  Same with the muscle pain.  Nothing like this has ever run on either side of my family.  If you read these posts you will see that these things are prominent in people that have had the surgery.  I don't think we were all prone to get the same things.
     

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    stinkysmommy
    Member Since: 01/19/12
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    Topic: RE: 7 months out frome RNY reversal
    Hi, I had my surgery, rny in feb. of 2004 I believe. I had it open, a lot of pain the first 6 weeks or so.  My doctor was awesome.  I loved that I was losing weight, but hated how I felt every time I ate anything.  I have regained  some weight but manage to diet and get most back off, back to dieting again, which is one of the reasons I had surgery, tired of dieting.  I am glad not to weigh as much, but in some ways sorry .  I thought it was easier to lose weight before surgery.  I still hate feeling bad everytime I eat the wrong thing.  I also think the person above was a jerk, and had no need to respond the way they did.  I have had problems with my teeth alot of cavities, and pain sometimes.  I also have been having muscle pain lately.  In the last 6 weeks or so, I feel like I have over -excersized .  The muscles in my upper arms, thighs, and even butt hurt when I even just stand up.  I don't know if it is fibromyalgia, but I guess I'm going to have to go  see.  I don't know which is worse, the way I felt at 332 lbs. or the thought of having to have false teeth, and the possibility of having pain the rest of my life.  I have small kids and it is starting to worry me that I won't be able to move by the time they grow up, so what part of my life did I improve by having the surgery.  I don't know if I would have this surgery if I had known any of this, but would definitely tell anyone I care about not to.   Can you tell my off-hand how I can tell if it is fibromyalgia?  They didn't tell my I could end up with any of these problems, and when I ask my general physician if it causes any of it, she says no.  I honestly don't think they have a clue.  My surgeon moved out of state, so I haven't been able to ask him any questions.   I think I may e-mail his office to see if I can get a response.  He used to e-mail me back every  time I did in the past. 
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    NeedsSleep
    Member Since: 11/15/11
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    Topic: RE: Lap-Band or RNY?
    Did you ever make a decision? If so, what was it and why? I'm in the decision making stages myself so any input you can give would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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    rbb825
    Suffern, NY
    Member Since: 04/28/00
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    Topic: RE: anyone with severe abdominal pain
    Yes, I had the Nissan fundoplication back in 1998 for severe acid reflux but no hiatal hernia - I just had severe spasms of my LES - the sphinxter that stopped the acid from coming up - it just came up all the time - the sphinxter just opened and closed whenever it felt like instead of just after eating causing unbearable reflux.  It came on real fast - very strange - I was diagnose with an ulcer, the ulcer healed and then the reflux started - backwards of anything they ever saw.  Within 6 weeks, I had lost 35 pounds because I couldn't keep any food down - I just vomitted mouthfuls of acid all day long - lost all my top teeth.   I was put on really strong acid suppressors, PPI's - nothing helped.  I was on Prilosec 4 times per day and something called Propulsid also.  Finally after 6 months, I had the surgery and I was reflux free.

    Then in 2006, I started researching WLS and it was tough to find someone that would do it and was capable of doing it.  Lap band was out - not an option with the Nissan - I didn't want it anyway.   After about 1 1/2 years, I went to the surgeon that did my Nissan since he started doing gastric bypass about 6 years prior but do to insurance reasons, he was out.  So, I kept looking.  I then went to a 3 others but didnt' feel comfortable with any of them.  I felt that I needed someone with a ton of experience and someone that had experience with a prior Nissan.  I then found my current surgeon and he had the experience and was known for difficult cases.  So, I proceeded.  He did tell me that the Nissan might have to be reversed in order to make the pouch for the gastric bypass but that I should still be reflux free afterwards since most gastric bypass patients are and to make sure, I would just take my protonix for life as a precaution - I also have a history of ulcers, so taking   a PPI, would be a good idea anyway.  So, I am now 3 years out and no reflux, no ulcers.

    During the gastric bypass, my esophagus tore during the take down but my surgeon was able to sew it back up easily through a scope.  I was on fluids and mushies for an extra 2 weeks but all went fine after that.

    Just make sure you find a very experienced surgeon and make sure they have worked on someone with a Nissan before.
      
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