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    Elaine2’s Posts

    Topic: RE: Mind games...what the h*ll is wrong with me??
    You'll do fine!  It's probably like riding a bike (which I know you do)---the moves will come back to you in a flash!

    You'll probably find all kind of skill levels in a group session. It'll be good!

    Headlines in June 2013----Alison takes Wimbledon!!!!



    By the time you read this----HOPE YOU HAD FUN!

            

    Topic: RE: Sleeve on Monday!
    Congrats!  Just a few days away!

    Stay busy---the time will really fly! 

    Let us know how you do!

            

    Topic: RE: NSVs :) Finally!
    I know you've been having a difficult time recently.....you seem to doing so well in the WL numbers....4.2 last week, 3.2 the previous week.  And look how close you are to that 299 number.   But hopefully the therapist will work with you on that.

    Great NSVs and, of course, they all count!  If it's an NSV to you...it's one to us!  What a positive list! I just hope you see them as a great accomplishment!


    PS----New bras---nothing better to lift the girls and lift your self esteem!

            

    Topic: RE: feeling dissapointed and i dont know why
    DISAPPOINTED??? Sarah, you're doing great! When did you last lose 40+ pounds in 6 weeks?

    Get rid of those BIG goal numbers!  If you want to celebrate lots of accomplishments, set small goals like celebrating every 10 pounds lost. It's so much more positive and affirming!

    And the previous post is correct---when they give % numbers, they are usually talking about % of EXCESS body weight.  You beat those numbers if it makes any difference!

    Congrats! 

            

    Topic: RE: Thinking about Maintenance
    Hey Sharon--
    I agree with everything you said.

    As I've been losing weight I was making plans on what I was going to do when I hit goal. Had all types of activities planned. Then asked myself  (see a pattern? I talk to myself allot. That's what happen when you've been single as long as I have)---Why are you waiting? Your life has been on hold for so many years! You used to do things when you were more mobile--fat but mobile.

    So I decided JUST DO IT as opportunities presented. Life has improved so much. I feel 20 years younger and I'm finally  having some fun again.

    Folks on this forum will understand it!

            

    Topic: RE: Thinking about Maintenance
    This is the reason I believe in little goals----10 pounds at a time. 
    ACCOMPLISHMENT vs. DISAPPOINTMENT!

    You're right---I'm feeling very good about what I've done---at peace with where I am.

    Thanks

            

    Topic: RE: Thinking about Maintenance
    Must be a cosmic thing---I was going to say "sisters from a different mister" EXCEPT----I think I'm double your age! 

    Yep---I've done the extreme WL and diet thing so many times over the years. Then came "off the program" to horrible weight gain. This time---not a program. I think I've turned the corner on that finally!

    Some might say--Thinking of maintenance with 40+ pounds to go? But it's in sight!!

            

    Topic: RE: MONDAY WEIGH IN
    Thanks for the congrats, everyone!
    Looks like it was a pretty good week or two for all!  Yahoo!

            

    Topic: RE: Thinking about Maintenance
    Still have pounds to go but.......
    I was having a lovely beach lunch with my sister and Mom on vacation, talking about weight loss and...
    --- I said, "I had hoped to be at my goal weight by my birthday but I don't think I can make it."  (Still have 40-45 pounds to go and BD is 6/16----big BD this year--yikes). 
    ---Mom, of course, said "Oh, honey, that's OK. You've done so well." 
    ---
    My sister said, "So what changes when you get to maintenance?"  
    ---My response was----Satisfaction from reaching my goal is #1; Also, I can add in about 200-400 cals per day (maybe) to maintain my weight..............Then I drew a blank.

    Sister-----  Are you hungry and deprived now?   NO
                       Will you stop all this tracking?    NO
                       Will you still do your cooking in advance?  YES
                       Will you start ordering out and fast fooding it again?   NO
                       Are you still going to go to the gym?   YES
                       Gonna leave that bottle of water home?    NO
                       etc. in her rather direct manner! 
                       So what's the big deal whether you make it in June, July, August....as long as the 
                          scale keeps going down?

    I thought about it---she's right. Damn, the skinny little thing (nickname was DINKY due to size). I really have kind of settled into this new lifestyle. Temptations---absolutely!  Demons to fight---every night (which is why I'm typing this and not standing in front of the fridge). But I'm really comfortable, for the most part, in this new food related lifestyle. I guess i don't consider it a diet anymore which is probably a break thru for me. I think I can do this comfortably for life.

    Just my thoughts this evening!

            

    Topic: RE: I really hate exercise
     Sorry--but I had to go back and re read for a great laugh. Lots of folks say they hate exercise and don't give allot of detail. At least you know exactly why you hate it!

    I think you hit the nail on the head---it's the effort to get there. Every morning I have that thought---Do I really want to go? but leave and hit that treadmill then pool. Hate the treadmill, love the pool.

    I noticed on vacation---I looked forward to the exercise---just an elevator ride down to the sunshine...plus I could spend the day there. No car ride--no locker room--no tiny shower stall, etc.

    I would suggest trying different classes like yoga, Pilate's, Zumba... to see if there is something more tolerable for you. Notice---I didn't say THAT YOU WOULD LIKE.

    You've just gotta do it! Keep at it. The results are worth it!

            

    Topic: RE: MONDAY WEIGH IN
    CONGRATS!!!     Doing the happy dance for you, too. 

    Every pound seems to be a struggle now so we have to celebrate each one.  Great job! 

    I usually don't celebrate success with food/drink anymore---but what the heck!  A drink on me if you decide to come to Atlanta for the OH conference later this year!   

            

    Topic: RE: MONDAY WEIGH IN
    Back from vacation!  I'll start this before I begin reviewing emails for 2 weeks!

    SW                              428
    LW (2 Weeks ago)   230
    TODAY                        227
    GOAL                          185

    DOWN 201 POUNDS IN 23 MONTHS!  FINALLY!
    I usually won't change my ticker until I have an official weigh in at the PCP, surgeon, etc.
    But it's been the same number for 3 days, so I don't think I'll have that little bounce back I often see.

    Vacation was FABULOUS!  Pretty easy to stay on track with food but a little too much juice of the grape, if you get my drift. It's the only "fruit" that tempts me--  

    And YES----my ass fits in a kayak!  I've found a new favorite--kayaking is so peaceful plus a good work out for the upper arms!

    Next-------

            

    Topic: RE: Monday Morning Weigh In
    Morning, everyone.

    SW-----428
    LW-----231
    TW-----230  down 1
    GW----185

    Hitting that -200 is coming VERY slowly!!!!

    Just want to post this AM as I'm out of here for vacation....beach and hot  weather!

    You all have a great couple of weeks and.......... I'm GONE!!!!

            

    Topic: RE: Back from vacation....
    Welcome back!  Sounds like you had a great time. Love hearing about all of your activities!
    Can't wait for the photos!

            

    Topic: RE: Just wondering if any body have joint pain after their weight lose.
    You've done great on your WL!!!

    But I would expect the opposite regarding your joint pain. Seems like it should be getting better with WL. Maybe your just using them more with increased activity?   I would call your PCP or someone to discuss. Particularly since it's worrying you!

    Let us know!!

            

    Topic: RE: ****tails
    I was a regular (weekly) drinker of wine or margaritas as a pre op. Not allot but regularly with friends.
    Since surgery I've had 2 glasses of wine on Christmas 2010 (8 months post op) and again 2 glasses Christmas 2011.  Family time-you know. Really it doesn't even taste that good and I still don't get a buzz---never did on just a few glasses.

    Might have a glass or 2 on upcoming vacation---but it really screws with my calories when those vacation temptations are already there.  Suggestion if it makes you uncomfortable---have a lemonade or crystal lite in a pretty glass with a ****tail garnish in it. No one will know. If you plan to drink just see where it will fit in your calories.

    You can be the DD 

            

    Topic: RE: Hello!!
    Welcome---this is a great board and more and more folks are dropping in all the time.

    Keep us up to date on what's happening with you. We all share a common goal....and starting place.

            

    Topic: RE: I got my date - April 2nd
    Wow---another April 2nd---congratulations, Pix.    FABULOUS!

    While you're doing your tandem glide----I'm doing a tandem jump!    Yikes---probably in September (I'm starting to love these Groupon/LivingSocial  gift certificate deals.)

    Again---Congrats!

            

    Topic: RE: Approved and scheduled
    Fantastic!!!!           and weren't you  waiting...waiting...waiting just a few days ago?

    Congrats!  April will be here before you know it!

            

    Topic: RE: Coincidence??
    I'm going to give you my personal opinion.....I think you are making a mistake by only eating 2x per day. I assume that includes any protein shake?  I'm not talking about "starvation mode" and the like---too much controversy about that. Are you getting 60+g of protein? and all your fluids? It's the most important---protein feeds and fuels the body and forces fat to burn for energy. Without it, your body while start using itself as fuel damaging your organs. So make sure you get your protein and then the fluids, of course, helps eliminate the spent fuel. I truly believe you will lose with 60+ (my program is 80) protein and fluids (I have to do an oz of fluid for a gram of protein). If you don't want to eat, that's your business---but at least do 2 or 3 protein shakes.
    (And I am a low carb nut but we won't go there).

    About today---ok so you ate horribly. I'm not a fan of saying, "That's OK". But I do believe in saying, "No More...why the $%%&%$ did I do that?"  I don't think it impacted the scale today one way or another. Your weight will fluctuate up and down all day---water, waste, clothing, etc.

    Just my humble opinions.Not meant to be harsh and I hope you don't take it that way.  Maybe others can give you additional insight.  Good luck.

            

    Topic: RE: NSV!!
    Wow---look at you!  Less than 30 days out and you have an NSV already!
    They only get better and better.

    Drink lots of hot tea---tea and toast---oops, no toast!!!---try some tea with lemon.

            

    Topic: RE: Waiting...Waiting...and waiting
    It will seem like forever until you get your approval---that's for sure.
    I wouldn't "over call" the insurance company but I'd be watching on line for any change in status. Maybe call 1x per week if it takes that much more time. If you see a change in status, then call and find out what they need.

    No excuse but the ins companies have probably been buried in folks finishing up 2011---to close their books and prep for taxes.

    Take a deep breath--it will happen.  Good luck.

            

    Topic: RE: Pre-Op Diet
    Well, I didn't have to do the pre op diet like you have---mine was just for a few days. It varies by surgeon.

    But I can tell you to shake off the bad feelings and get right back on a roll! You ate it---it's gone! A better choice, if you had to have something,  would have been some protein (cheese sticks or even just the cream cheese, jerky, almonds, etc). Sometimes carbs trigger the desire for more carbs.  But you can get back with it now!

    I'm sure you know that the pre op diet helps prep the liver for surgery---you want to be in the best shape possible.

    Roll on---it's a small blip in time until your surgery date.  Good luck and keep us posted.

            

    Topic: RE: My Steering wheel
    Have a FABULOUS time! Sounds like you deserve the vacation! Every one will be surprised at your weight loss---enjoy the compliments!

    I'm leaving for FL also next week to visit my 80+ years parents. It's been nice and hot there, let's hope it continues a few more weeks.

    PS---I have searched the city of Atlanta for the crystal lite margarita and mojito mix. Not a packet in the city---is it good?  I'll have to check FL this time.


    Have fun!

            

    Topic: RE: Brief Text with Sherrie, she's better...
    Glad to hear it!  Good thoughts going her way.

    Brenda--how are you doing?