Best of luck to you! I am a Type 1.5 diabetic (latent autoimmune diabetes in adults) and have the insulin dependence of type 1 and the insulin resistance of type 2. I was misdiagnosed as a type 2 for about 24 years, and it was in the pre-surgery process that I found out that I was NOT a type 2. But, like you, I was pursuing the surgery in hopes of resolving diabetes.
So, I went ahead with RNY anyway because I knew it would improve my health overall. And that it has CERTAINLY done. I will be 19 months out from surgery this week. No, the diabetes did not resolve, but I knew going in that was not something I could have as a goal because of the type of diabetes that I do have.
So, why do it? Better health overall. I'm off all of my oral diabetic meds, on about 30% of the insulin I took previously, off hypertensive and cholesterol meds. Oh, and then there's this weight loss thing....almost 100 pounds. I started on insulin in 1987 and gained 100 pounds as a result. I am within 5 pounds of my lowest adult weight from 1987 at 30 years of age - and now almost 56. I feel great, I sleep better, I don't get tired as easily, stairs are a breeze, I can run a bit now, even with an arthritic knee....and on and on. Every. Single, Health. Issue, Is. BETTER. Substantially so,
I hope this helps you a bit. I know it does not address your issues about diabetes resolution. Everything I've heard says that the length of time you've been diabetic factors substantially into whether you'll have resolution. One thing you should think about seriously - even if the diabetes does NOT resolve, it will be GREATLY improved by having and maintaining a more normal weight. I remember when I first heard that from my doctor, and somehow that didn't seem like a big enough reason to have the surgery. But, now that I'm on the other side of it, I can tell you that it absolutely IS a huge reason to do it. I have not one single regret in having the surgery and am thrilled that I did it. And I thought about it for 9 years....
Again, I hope that gives you some additional food for thought and also that others who can speak more directly to your questions can provide them.
Keep us posted please and best of luck to you!