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    Topic: RE: Gained 53 pounds back

    The other lady's suggestions are great.  I just wanted to ask if you have seen a therapist or found one you connect with.  I am trying to find one that I like because I have huge food issues that this surgery won't be taking away!  I too always felt out of control with eating and that food ran my entire life.  That's such an unhealthy way to view food... like the opposite of being anorexic, instead of being scared of food, we are letting it run our lives. 

    Along with setting up a plan for eating and exercise to get you back on track, seeking out a therapist (if you aren't already seeing one) to help you deal with your food issues seems like a smart idea. 

    Good luck with getting back on track... you still have so much to be proud of and I have seen many people on OH that have gained some weight back after surgery but then changed their life and their habits and lost it again... AND kept it off!  You can do this, you just have to get yourself back in the right frame of mind. :-)

    KittyKarin :-)

        

    Topic: RE: GAINED 1/2 OF WEIGHT LOSS

    If the medication is working for you, you may not want to mess with it but if I were you, I may go back to my doctor and ask about others.  I know there is a medication for migranes out there called Topamax.  My aunt took it for a long time and one of the side effects is extreme loss of appetite. She lost a lot of weight while she took the medicine because she had no desire to eat.  But again, ask your doctor and if the medicine is working for you, maybe stay with it. Good luck!

    KittyKarin :-)

        

    Topic: RE: Anyone have 2 Revision Surgeries?

    hmm... I am questioning what is goin on here, you offered very little in the way of details. my insurance wouldn't even consider revision surgery unless I was 5 years out and considered a failure, why then did you get a gastric sleeve 1 year after having lap band surgery? this seems very odd to me.

    also from your photos and weights posted, you do not look morbidly obese or even obese to be getting surgery. maybe overweight, but to warrant getting cut open and surgery  seems very extreme to me in your case. most people who get these surgeries are morbidly obese and are prob. going to die without it, why does that not seem like the case with you?

    I am struggling with the idea of getting revision surgery and you are getting one every few years, there is something going on here that both you and doctors aren't even addressing.

    Topic: RE: Lapband Out!

    Hello-

    I am glad I found this group.  I had mu original surgery in July of 2007- which was ok for 5 years- originally lost over 80 lbs.- then started with the acid reflux problems, bad digestion, throwing up, etc.  Over the first 5 years I think I maybe had 2 fills that were good- others too tight, some I had to go to the xray dept to have because the port had changed position.

    Last June underwent a revision surgery.  Well, it's 10 months later and I am now having the same symptoms again.  Underwent a routine endoscopy by a different doctor who told me to get in touch with my surgeon.  Called and said I am having problems and want to come in.  Of course, I am made to feel as if I have done something wrong.....and being told that maybe it's acid reflux due to diet....I said it is a different feeling- like I had last year before the revision where I actually had the food not digest causing me unbearable reflux....

    I am at a loss.  Thought of trying to see if I am a candidate for the sleeve, but now thinking by pass may be my only option.  Just would like to feel good again.....

    Topic: RE: Doctor's advice.

    Poached egg with a sprinkle of non fat shredded cheese.  2oz

    Non fat greek yogurt with a few drops of 'Sweet Leaf' liquid stevia English Tofee flavor.  2oz

     

     

    Topic: RE: GAINED 1/2 OF WEIGHT LOSS

    People tend not to like it if you go off the typical Dr prescribed diet for WLS.

    Joe Cross did a 60 day juice feast/fast that reset his body. It's extreme but I have a co-worker doing the full 60 days, only 5 days left, he looks great and feels great. I've only done it for a 2 week time period. You can Google Joe Cross and reboot your life.

    Of course if you dumb on juice it may not be for you. I had to start slow and work myself up to being able to drink a full pint. I had a VSG and we don't have a dumping issues as much as RNY but I know some RNY'ers that can drink fresh juice, mind you it's fresh juice only nothing processed allowed.

     

     

    Topic: RE: GAINED 1/2 OF WEIGHT LOSS

    Why would you get slammed?   I have a real problem with dumping when I drink juices even if they are watered down.  What\  do you mean by reboot your life with JOE Cross?

     

    Topic: RE: GAINED 1/2 OF WEIGHT LOSS

    Ok, I will probably get slammed for this and I do not know your medical history but have you looked into Juicing? or heard about Reboot your life with Joe Cross? I know people who have had migraines and they go away with juicing as well as the weight.

     

    Topic: Doctor's advice.

    Hello, I have a few questions, and Yes, I have asked my doctor already, and he told me 9 days post -op, that I could start eating food, not pureed, not liquid, food as chicken ( soft of course) and that I can drink water, ( and not 2 oz every 15 minutes) I thought we were supposed to drink normally about 3 month's post-op ? And when I do a protein shake with soy milk, I was only able to drink about 3 oz, should I stick to just 2 oz? My doctor told me to eat 2 oz -3x a day, how am i supposed to get all the protein I need on 2 0z meals, 3x a day. He told me I can eat, chicken with some green beans ( 2 oz), and two more  meals and that is it.I can't even exercise yet for I still have this tremendous pain in my abdomen, I have to hold my gut up when I walk outside . Am, I eating enough, I had my surgery on April 24, 2013 . My starting weight was 383 and I lost 39 pounds post-op and since April 24, I now weigh 325, I have lost 19 pounds in 15 days. I can't wait for this abdomen pain to go away so as I can go walking and workout.Can you give me any food ideas on a 2 oz meal ?

    Topic: RE: lap band problems?

    Hi Travis,
    sounds like you are having similar problems with the band. well at least you lost  over 150 lbs. I lost 60 and gained it back and lost some of it then repeat ad nauseam. so the success you have had with the weight loss and band is different. right now I am 5-10 lbs away from being at my highest weight.

    the part about the band suddenly being super tight, I have been dealing with problems like that with my stomach and band since Feb 18th of this year. Now I did have problems with this band in general it is either too open and I can eat just about everything and am hungry, or I am so tight I get stuck and have constant heartburn or throw up. so all in all band is not working for me, never has worked right but this is different, the sudden pain and tightness.

     ok you may not know this but for a woman with a lap band it tightens during certain times of the month when we are bloated. so on Feb 18th that is what I figured this was, when that happens I have to have more soft foods. as a week went on, the band should have been returning to normal, instead it got tighter and tighter. I could not get down my medications, I could only get down liquids for 3 days, even tryin to eat apple sauce, diet pudding and jello hurt. felt like I was eating rocks. I lost 16 lbs, which sadly I have gained back plus another 15 since band is now wide open. so in addition to the pain and discomfort, I am belching and burping all the time. even when I drink water.

    I was doubled over in pain most of the time. I went to the ER where they removed all the fluid from my band on March 1st they did xray and said lap band looked in proper position, so they thought wasn't slipped but to be sure I would need more tests.  had barium swallow with fluroscope done Monday April 1st, no slipped or eroded band, but to be sure they wanted to do surgery. In fact they said basically if it was slipped/eroded I needed surgery, but if it wasn't I would need surgery to remove it because my body was 'not tolerating the band.'

    I felt this was rather aggressive because they wanted to do an endoscopy to see what was wrong and while I was out do the surgery to remove band as well as do gastric bypass RNY. I decided to get a 2nd opinion and see a gastroenterogist instead of a weight loss surgeon who seemed to be pushing me to get surgery so they could profit, instead of find the cause of my pain. at first  after opening the band my stomach felt a twinge better, and at least I was open now and could eat but still the pain no matter what I eat, junk food, lean fish/meats, veggies, just pain in my stomach, and belching burping.

    saw this new doctor and had an endoscopy done on April 11th, no uclers, no band slip or erosion. some bile in stomach so he ordered gastric emptying tests. got that done on 24th of April. they gave me oatmeal which I hate and normally gag on, and sadly was dry heaving and in such pain before test. results of that were fine. doctor says to me 'no news is good news.'

    no it isn't. my stomach hurts now for almost 3 months non stop. I have lost 16 lbs and gained back 15 more on top of that. I am burping and belching like a pig. it is so loud it sounds demonic. it is embarrassing. an ulcer would be a fairly easy fix/cure. if the band was slipped or eroded I could justify removing the band ASAP. but it's not. so now I don't know what to do either and sounds like we are in a very similar proverbial boat.
    here is what I think is goin on with you and me both. our bodies are rejecting the band. are stomach lining and esophagus for whatever reason are inflamed and causing pain/discomfort. for me luckily (or maybe that is unluckily since I am gaining) I can get food down, but I am in pain 24/7. they are not sure but now sending me monday to get CT Scan.

    so I am curious how you are doing? what you think is going on? do you take NSAIDs for pain because my doctors warned me not to take them, that those and other medications upset lining of stomach even if nothing shows up on scans/tests. do you have barrett's esophagus?  I am curious if you get the band removed if you will get some other surgery and if so what? add me as a friend so I can see how you are doing and we can swap band stories.

     

    Topic: RE: Am I failing??????

    have you tried Overeaters Anonymous? it's not so much that you are eating huge amounts but that you are eating foods that are high calorie.  you don't lack will power, you are powerless to certain foods because you are addicted to them, namely caffeine and junk food. I wish I knew a therapist who specialized in either weight loss surgery or eating disorders, but not sure they would help.

    IMHO most therapists don't get it:  food is addictive.  people use it like a drug addict uses drugs or an alcoholic uses booze. food addicts often overeat or eat their trigger foods to cope with stress, to numb themselves out emotionally, to deal with anxiety, or as a stimulant (sugar, coffee, caffeine).  there is a reason people call it comfort food.

    so while therapy may help, they may or may not totally understand what you are going thru. the people at OA will though, maybe not the part dealing with surgery but the not having willpower and eating stuff you know is bad. you can find meetings in person or even online.  http://www.oa.org/membersgroups/find-a-meeting/

    I am struggling too and have been in OA for over a year but I am still an addict, I am still not abstinent and still abuse my trigger foods when I am in pain, anxious, bored, frustrated. everything from sugar, chocolate, carbohydrates, pasta, cheese, junk food, pizza. :( it is very hard to give up my trigger foods, but I am trying and not giving up on myself.  I hope this helps.

    Topic: GAINED 1/2 OF WEIGHT LOSS

     I was put on a medication for migraines  called depracot.  I was warned before hand that weight gain was a side effect of this drug, so I was very careful about what I ate and exercised religiously>   I still gained 40lb!  l'm so angry with myself and the mediation didn't even help with the headaches>   Is it possible to lose the weight.  It has been 10 years since my RNY I'm not even sure of the rules anymore.  Hope someone out there can help me.  Thanks

    Topic: RE: Hard to believe.
    Maybe time for revision - band to VSG.. Good luck.

     


    H.a.l.a RNY 5/14/2008     Lost over 100 lbs, now app 162-166..
    Maintenance phase of my life; size : 6-10  (depends on a brand)

    "Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell..." 
    "So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...." 

     

     

    Topic: RE: Has anyone lost regained weight 8 yrs post op?
    IMO you never too old unless you lost your drive and believe you are too old. Go for it.

     


    H.a.l.a RNY 5/14/2008     Lost over 100 lbs, now app 162-166..
    Maintenance phase of my life; size : 6-10  (depends on a brand)

    "Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell..." 
    "So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...." 

     

     

    Topic: RE: Discrimination

    All that is nessary for the  triumph of Evil is that good men do nothing. "Edmund Burk"

        Doris Cervenka

     

    Topic: RE: Discrimination

                  I guess our reality is so different from a normal persons.  When Your had a high B.M.I. Most Over-weight people know what it like to to be treated like dirt and to be disrespected in life and  at work by co-workers and Bosses alike. Sometimes even by family members get resentful.   I am the same person with the same compassionate, feeling and the same heart and Education. That I had when I 400 pounds. But, , All of sudden.  Because,  I lose weight.  You want to open the door for me.  A Year before you would let the door slam in my face.  All of Sudden people want to look you in the eye and smile at you.  Sales people who would have not given you the time of day.  All of a Sudden,  They rush to help you in the store.  When your not use to it.  It is scary feeling.   You people for *****ally are self and vain.  Trusting people is something.  That I can,t  do. I just don,t trust .  I was so use to people . Kicking me when I was over- weight.  True trust is not something that i give freely.  I see people for who they are on the inside.  I learn that it is nobody,s business about.   How you lost my weight.  Your true friends,  Will always be your true friends.  The rest don,t matter.  If people can,t be happy for you and enjoy your happiest . Then, They are not worth having in your life.  People you work with our no exception.  It is you that give them the power to make you feel bad. Don,t let other  people have that power over you.   Sometimes it easier to tell a complete stranger your story than someone you known all your life or work with.  Compassion is something that over weight people know about.  Your know and feel it in your heart. Having weight loss surgery saved my life and  It made my life better in so many ways.  But, It did not  change.  Who I was on the inside. The Anger and outrage and injustice of this world is just something  your going to learn to live with. You have to learn to forgive people.  I told a lot of people my story. You know who they are.  You  can see it in their eyes.  True Honesty comes  through you can see it a persons eye,s.  That,s the people who I share my weight lose story with.  I let them know that life is not hopeless and That your Life can get better.

        Doris Cervenka

     

    Topic: Discrimination

    How do people treat you now that you have had weight loss surgery and lost a lot of weight? I guess discrimination comes to mind --I wonder how you handle the comments.

     

    Topic: RE: Has anyone lost regained weight 8 yrs post op?

    I had the RNY in 2001-- initially lost 150 pounds from 350.  I was good until 2008 when i had a pre-cancerous growth on my thyroid removed as well as the thyroid. Since then , my body has changed completely-- i developed neuropathy and fibromyalgia which made it near impossible to get any exercise-- walking is a huge chore for me and i have lost my mobility. I am in constant pain all the time.  i had to quit working, now waiting on a pending disability claim for the past 4 years. I am quite depressed nearly everyday.  I have re-gained 100 pounds.  i am disgusted with myself-- i have tried the get back on track program, along with riding a bike last year and water aerobics and did not lose anything.I was on this plan including using an on line food tracking program for over 6 months. There is no cure for what i have, and the treatment includes a med called Lyrica which the side effects is weight gain I feel lost and unable to lose weight-- i feel like i eat the way i should and still can't get the scale to move.  Is there anyone else out there that is struggling--will a revision help this? I am 56 years old and wonder if i am getting too old to have a revision..