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I had a RNY on December 13, 2008.  I lost 100 lbs and have gained back 50.  I did not gain weight because I fell of the proverbial wagon.  I started developing allergies to fruit, vegetables and nuts.  I'm severly allergic to birch trees and if a specific food has birch protein in it or is cross pollinated with birch pollen I end up with an anaphylaxtic reaction.  I've been in the ER more times than I can count.  My last stint in the ER occured because I drank a protein drink.  Now I can't even follow the prescribed diet!  My allergist has told me to stay away from all fruits, vegetables and nuts and anything containing these things.  He says I have the worst case he has ever seen.  How do I lose the weight now?  Will a revision help me?  Any advice will be welcome.  I can only have certain kinds of meat, because most gets caught in my stoma and now I'm limited to processed foods. 

When you have big all your life.  Seeing yourself in a different light is hard to do.  So many people who are over weight suffer from depression and don't really know it or  see it.  People who a large amount of weight. 
They are still finding themselves. They carry alot of emotional pain and shame. They have not lived their life because, They have been waiting their whole life to finally lose the weight.     Once the weight is lost. They don't know who they are.   When you never been on a date.  All of a Sudden people notice you.  People who could care if lived or dead before. Not just men but, Women too.  All of sudden want to get to know you and all details of your life and business.  They want to know all about your weight lose.  Most people who entroverted just don't how to deal with it all.  So most just shut down out of an unknown fear. It not that their trying to gain back the weight. They are just stop trying. They just shut down and don't even know it until half the weight is gained back. They just do nothing and let the weight come back on.  Sometimes doing nothing is worst than pigging out. Sometimes in life all you know is failure.  It becomes your normal.  It took you years to gain the weight.  Sometimes it takes year of therapy to get a breakthrough.  To understand who you are as a person.  So you can learn to like yourself.