I am worried about the same thing. My husband supports my decision to have the surgery (scheduled for 12/13/10) but he also says he has no problem with me how I am now. He prefers the "chubby chick". Other than when I'm with him, though, I'm unhappy, self-conscious and sick of being fat.
I'm just curious as to how things are going and what you two have done to work with the new you.