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Happy for you!
Flying solo here.

Leslie

Leslie I cant tell if thats a happy solo or a not so happy solo....either way, thanks!

 The Day I met my Husband,
I was at home getting ready for a house warming party. It was for the Conductor of the singing group I was in though college. This group were, and many still are very close friends. I was 28 and we were all still very close.
I was very excited. It had been a good couple of weeks. I graduated from nursing school, I then took my test and passed.  So I had been working on my "Temporary Licence."  I got my REAL  licence in the mail that day !! IA great start to the day !!!
The party was awesome so much fun !!!! It started around 2pm and about 8pm the director's new girlfriend came in. THE PARTY ENDED!!!!
Several of us were not ready to end. It was decided to go to the closest bar. It was a "townie gay bar. "  One of my friends had to work in the morning and was getting ready to leave early. I was walking out to her car because there had been some trouble in the parking lot with car windows smashed and some gay bashing...SOO I was walking her out....and the most beautiful man was walking in.....I smiled at him and he smiled back....I promptly started dragging my friend to her car. I was first torn if I should go back into the bar. My friend told me to go back in. I told her "OK I am going to marry that man." ....I went back in and he was at "my place at the bar." I worked A LOT during college and nursing school  !!! And would go out on Thursday night just to go out. I went home with him that night. Our first date was the next weekend. I never left !!!!!! We have been together the last 17 years.........SO THAT IS THE STORY

Awww, it's nice to see an internet match up that actually worked!

I met my wife when she joined my women's chorus (read 90% lesbian!) and I was instantly attracted to her! I was in a relationship at the time, but the moment I wised up and ended it- I went for her!

:Danni

Danni I love it! Especially the wising up part, I know a few who still need to do that. And the chorus, so true! One of my friends here at work is part of the NC one, and shes in heaven lol.

Thanks marc.  My oldest sister and her ex-husband get along better now than when they were married, so it must run in my family!  I think the time just came when we both realized the relationship had run its course.  I'm very lucky in that we're not at each other's throats, having to hire lawyers to divide property, etc.  Way too expensive and requires too much energy! 

As far as meeting someone new, I've always been told that when you're NOT looking, that's when you find 'em!  Time will tell, won't it?? 

OMG that is amazing!! I got chills!!!!!!
I am so happy for you two!
Why oh why can't this be the norm and not the exception?????

I'm with marc, amazing story!  Congratulations on finding a "keeper" cuz they are hard to find!  I wish you and your partner and the little one(s) many happy, healthy years ahead!  But, as someone who just became single again (after 18 years), I'm curious:  how long after your current wife's breakup did you wait to start "dating" her?  I've been told I need about a year to "be myself" again, and that may be true.  But, like everything else, I figure it depends on the person involved.  I have only met one woman I want to date and she isn't interested.  So it's probably a moot point right now, but just wondering! 

Yes, 18 is kind of a long haul.  But things could be alot worse.  Thanks for replying & congrats on the upcoming arrival!

Its never easy being alone kikiv, especially if you are a social creature!