What is the unmoderated R&R board? I really only visit this board, but really spent a lot of time in the RNY board before and right after surgery. It was really helpful.
I've only had one message moderated and it was when I was going my dissertation research, which I could understand. However, with other messages it gets close to censorship which is a tricky road to travel. When to start/stop, etc. I don't have a good sense though since I'm so rarely anywhere else on the boards now, but hope you get the support you need somewhere.