so here goes no one but my husband knows im bi because everyone is so judgemental yes i am a christian woman and thank god for dying for me and i dont see a problem in liking men and women both i have only been with one woman in my life and it just made that urge more prominent anyways just wanted to get that weight off my shoulders i am bi and there shouldnt be such a stigma about it thanks for reading:)

My wife and I are both Christians, and don't have any conflict of belief with our gayness! We love each other- and that's all that really matters.

I'm sorry to hear that you live in a place that has issue with who you find attractive. I don't see why it's anyone else's business what you are attracted to, but I hope that you and your husband have made peace with it.

Hugs to you!

No, there shouldn't be a stigma about it.

Let's see, my partner (a man), my whole family and all my friends know I'm bi.  Actually, they were all rather surprised when they learned I was dating a man.  My partner's family doesn't know I'm bi, though.  I've never brought it up with them because it's never seemed real relevant.  My partner is perfectly comfortable with it, but I'm not sure he'd be comfortable with me coming out to his family.  That's actually something we've never talked about, and maybe we should.  Because my personal policy is that I'm open about my sexuality when it's relevant.  I don't go around announcing it for no reason, but I don't keep it a secret, either.  At some point in time, his dad is probably gonna make a comment about the issue of gay marriage or something and it will be relevant and I'll feel compelled to speak.  I should probably warn my partner.

Obviously, I see no problem liking men and women both.  I've always said I was attracted to the person, like who they are inside, not the body, not their sex organs.  Most of the time, I am more attracted to women, to be honest.  I was married to a man when I was very young (got married in high school) and we divorced and I kind of assumed I would not be with another man after that.  Then I fell in love with my partner, who happened to be a man.  For a long time I identified myself as a lesbian and for a long time after I was with my current male partner, I still thought of myself as a lesbian.  How weird is that?

I'm guessing your husband doesn't have an issue with you being bi?  Good for him.

 ive always been open with him about it and he has no problem we are very secure in our relationship and i love my husband with all my heart he is my rock

I guess I could "label" myself as bi because my wife is the only woman I've been with. And I've been with a lot of men. What I've learned is, like Kelly, it's the person, not the gender, that is important to me. I'm so glad I was mature enough when I met my wife to be open to being with her because we've now been together almost 10 years, the longest relationship I've ever been in, and by far the healthiest. I've learned from her that I can feel an attraction to someone, man or woman, and it's okay. If I act on it, then it's not okay. She's very secure and it's amazing to have such trust. We both have a serious crush on Sophis Varagara. OMG!

I'm glad you found a place to share your feelings. I'm also very happy that your husband is so supportive.

Ohhhh Sofia Vergara is amazing . . . I don't know how Hollywood missed her for 20 years!  Gorgeous, comedic actress

Congrats, Sarah!  It feels pretty good to tell people, huh?  I'm very happy for you!

Andrea

 There shouldn't be any stigma to it, but sadly people are very close minded and judgemental. At least you are true to yourself. 

When people judge you, just remind them of John 3:16  "For God so loved the WHOLE world.....".  God made me who I am and He doesn't make mistakes. I'm proud of who I am, a Chrstian who just happens to be a lesbian

 You are who you are.  You can't be happy any other way.  Good for you.