Topic: RE: relationship thank you so much Danni, I ask her this morning why don't she support me and all she keep saying is you dont need it. you need to workout, i try that lost 30 pound gain 10 back i have high blood pressure broader line diabetes, because i lost the 30 pound the diabetes did go away now my knees and back hurt am 5ft 2in 230 pounds, my family history have diabetes high blood pressure heart disease my dad died of cardiac problems at 52 due to his diabetes he had an heart attack at 50. I am just tied and its sad i cried yesterday she said some real mean things to me, i was never a fat child i gain weight after having my children. i just want my body back. before i had kids i was a 7/8 now am a 19/20 and i can fit into a 18 depending on the jeans, yesterday she said why you want to do this and you might lose you hair. that's my fear do not want to lose my beautiful locs(dreads). i told her i will explain all the pro and cons to her she said she don't care i don't need that dam surgery. so i will have to make the best decisions for me.