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    Topic: RE: Motorcycle photo inside! Living life post op gastric bypass!
     You look amazing!  Keep up the great work.

    Hugs...

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: I didn't know this site had a forum for the LGBT community!!!
     Welcome to the site!  I too found it  a great resources, both before an after surgery.  They people here are great.

    I hope your recovery is going well.  It's been a couple of weeks so I imagine you are adjusting and getting used to your new pouch (or sleeve).  Post again and lets us know how it is going wil ya?

    Hugs...

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: Realigned my goal.
     That's wonderful news and a great post.  Thanks for the reminder to always be ready to change our goals.  I got a bit frustrated when I couldn't get below 185, so I just decided that's where my body wanted to be and let it be there for a few months.  I've lost a bit since, but it's not a huge deal to me now.  I just monitor where I'm at to make sure I stay on track.

    Hugs...

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: is there anybody out there?
    Have a great time on that cruise!  And I AM horribly jealous.  We're going to Alaska next May, so I'll have to live vicarioiusly through you until then.

    I am here but not as often as I would like.  I'm defending my dissertation October 9th, and I'm six months into my new job.  My partner had RNY June 28th.  Life is C-R-A-Z-Y.  While I "should" be able to get on and say hi from time to time, I don't nearly as often as I would like.  I'll try to do better though.

    Hugs...

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: One Year (and slightly more) Surgiversary
     Thanks everyone!  It is always such a good motivator to get your comments and guidance.  It's good not to feel alone in this.  Hugs to you all...
           
    Topic: RE: One Year (and slightly more) Surgiversary
     Hello All,

    It's been way too long since I've posted, but wanted to drop in and say hello.  I tried changing my avatar to no avail, but I did put a new picture in my profile.  I've lost 145 pounds and my body has found that 180 is where I'm going to be no matter what.  I eat comfortably and am back in they gym, but am not loosing any more weight.  I'm okay with that, although I do miss seeing the scale go down.  Overall, I'm content.

    My last lab report from the doctor came back NORMAL.   It's the only thing normal about me, but I enjoy saying it just the same.  My life is completely different, but just the same.  It sounds contradictory, but it is true.  I've found it to be one of the werid things about WLS.

    I still have a hard time with self image.  I look like a shar pei with my clothes off.  My stomach isn't so bad but my butt and legs are scary.  I don't care though.  (Well, I do...but I would rather be dealing with this than the weight.)

    All is amazing in my life.  I miss you all.  Best of luck and I'll try to do a better job of coming by and saying hello.

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: Put that d*** thing away!
     I like your idea of brining it out once per week.  I have to make sure and keep myself in check, so I don't want to put it away indefinitely.  However, getting it out once a week is a bit more healthy than checking every morning.  

    Congrats.

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: February Goals
    You are doing so good, and you make me want to go tan.  I've been doing the walking and running, but want to try some of the class.  I'm glad you liked Zumba.  Any others you'd recommend?

    -Danny
           
    Topic: RE: What's your guilty lil secret?
    Oh if only I could have a bowl of Captain Crunch!  I tried, but nada.  Dump like crazy....which is a good thing.

    My guilty food isn't so guilty...crackers and cottage cheese!  God I love the stuff.  That and peter pan honey peanut butter.  :)

    -Danny
           
    Topic: RE: 32 Week Post Op Pics!
    Wow!!!  You look great!  Congratulations on the success.

    -Danny
           
    Topic: RE: My Fat Brain
    Wow...and here I thought I was in the minority having these issues.  I do this all the time!!!!  I'm very proud to say that now I am able to throw some of the food away, while at first I felt like I was committing some horrible act but not being able to finish all the food.  I usually only eat a half portion now and feel very content after.  My biggest problem now seems to be eating somethign carby and then dumping afterwards.  I tell myself, "Maybe this time will be different."  Nope...not so much!

    - Danny
           
    Topic: RE: what are your pets ?
    I'm glad we're not the only ones with a zoo!!! 

    Our herd

    Dogs - 4
    Zoe - Black Pug - She's the queen of the house and rules with an iron fist.  She's known to get down and bite the other dogs when they're having too much fun and then jumping back up into our laps to enjoy her rule.
    Beau - Fawn Pug - Zoe's brother from another litter.  He's a sweetie but lacking in the smarts department.
    Cleo - Black Schnauzer - She's so sweet but the most annoying dog ever.  We love her, but it's still all my husband's fault that we have her.
    Jimmy Bean - Black and Tan Dachshund - My little baby.  I had a dachshund for 17 years (Casinova) who was my best friend all through high school and my early 20's.  Jimmy is true to the personality.  I love him dearly.

    Cats - 2
    Tiger and Lily - Both siamese and litter mates.  Tiger is a boy and Lilly is a girl.  They woudl be more than happy if we just fed them, cleaned their litter box and left them alone.  True cats!

    Birds - 3
    Sparky - ****atiel - He's a happy bird but wants to be left alone.  Don't get between him and his millet though.
    Olive - Pineapply Brown Cheeked Conure - My husband's baby.  She's attached to him from the time he gets up till he goes to bed, usually asleep under his neck or eating is food.  She's rotten!
    Harley - Congo African Grey - We've recently adopted him and he is certainly a character.  He likes to call me an asshole after he gets a bath.  He loves me though!

    Fish - 55 gal - All tropical.

    Thats our zoo!
           
    Topic: RE: what are your pets ?
    Aren't pugs the best!!!!
           
    Topic: RE: do you visit the unmoderated R&R Board?
    What is the unmoderated R&R board?    I really only visit this board, but really spent a lot of time in the RNY board before and right after surgery.  It was really helpful.

    I've only had one message moderated and it was when I was going my dissertation research, which I could understand.  However, with other messages it gets close to censorship which is a tricky road to travel.  When to start/stop, etc.  I don't have a good sense though since I'm so rarely anywhere else on the boards now, but hope you get the support you need somewhere.

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: Am I really in the Century Club? I believe I am!!!
    Thank you all so very much.  I would have never made it this far without all of your support and encouragement.

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: Am I really in the Century Club? I believe I am!!!
    Wow!  I got my lingo mixed up.  I'm further ahead than I thought.  Wowza!!!!

    Thanks so much...

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: The one word to describe ___ is _____
    The best work to describe my boss is mentoring.
    The best work to describe my husband is mind-blowing! 
           
    Topic: RE: I AM BOOKED !!!!
    LOL!  Too funny!  Good planning.  Congratulations.  Keep us up to date on your progress, and let us know if there is anything else we can help with along the way.

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: Exercise Regimen?
    Hello Bill,

    To be honest, I haven't started strenght training yet but know that I need too.  I'm still very self conscious as well, and while I'll do the aerobic equipment at the gym, I'm still out on the other stuff.

    I do exercise six days a week, 40 minutes each day.  I do the Couch to 5K program, and I'm up to running six-minute segments followed by two minute walking segments.  It's about to kill me though.  I do one day running, and then one day walking.  That gives me three days of each.  I make sure to keep my heart rate in the aerobic zone on the running days and the weight loss zone on the walking days.  So far it's working for me.

    Let us know how you like the bow flex!  I'd love to get one.

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: Am I really in the Century Club? I believe I am!!!
    Hello All,

    After really kicking in and sticking to my gym time after January 1, I am officially below 200 pounds.  I weighed this morning and I am at 198.8.  I did a little happy dance, right on the scales.  (Hope they didn't break.  )  My weight fluctuates around three pounds a day, with the higher end in the PM, but I'm still counting it by golly.  Thank you all for your support.  I couldn't have done it without you all!

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: A little over 1/2 way there...
    Congratulations Bill!  What amazing success.  Even when I couldn't see the changes, when I started changing clothing sizes it helped.  For me, it seemed like I woke up one day and finally saw the changes, and I was like "Oh wow."  Keep it up and it'll happen.

    I too struggled with exercise at first, primarily because I was self conscious about going to the gym.  At about five months, I finally go over it and started going.  It was sporadic at first, but now me and Mrs. Y (my pet name for the neighborhhood YWCA) are on great terms.  I'm training for a 5K and am really starting to enjoy hitting the gym.  My advice is be patient and kind with yourself, but persistent.

    Keep up the great work!

    Sincerely,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: appoinment made !!
    Good luck!  Let us know how it goes.

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: First Holiday Season after surgery.
    Hello G,

    You should be really proud of your success over the holidays!  You did really, really good.  I hope you and Laine get to go somewhere very warm and sunny and good for him for twisting your arm to get you on a vacation, even if he does have to wrestle your director.  You deserve it.

    I did well mentally, but not so well physically.  I didn't eat to the point of being uncomfortable, but I did eat foods that normally I would not have.  I am doing well exercising though.  I did have to cut down on the jogging since my knee was acting up.  It's not my age has been my mantra!  :)  Mrs. Y (my pet name for the YWCA) and I have been on good terms and will be getting closer.  I'm going to start the Yoga class, and maybe more.  They have a PiYo class (Pilates and Yoga) that I think would be fun.  We'll see.

    Hugs to you and everyone else.

    Regards,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: Hawaii legalizes civil unions!
    Congratulations Barb.

    You do live in Hawaii.  What a wonderful place to be...especially now.  Best to you and yours!

    Hugs,

    Danny
           
    Topic: RE: Collar Bones. Pic inside!
    Isn't it amazing!  Congratulations!

    Hugs,

    Danny