If anyone is serious about not feeling alone with their band problems and really want to ask questions that will get answered without getting blamed for the band failing them....
Go to Facebook, there are 2 groups....
One is.... Failed Lap-Band and Realize Bands,
the other one is.... Lapband 911 - Complications.
You will get honest answers, you will not feel alone, and you will not be bullied or blamed for your band failing you....
I did find some of the members here first when I was having serious complications and almost died. Without them I would have been a basket case, especially since a lot of other people were telling me it was all my fault without even listening to what was really happening. Some were telling me I was too tight with too much fluid in the band (I was empty for 3-1/2 years). Some told me I was eating too much, (I would puke after eating 2 bites of yogurt). Without the help from the people in this group, I probably would have just beat myself up more as some other people on this forum were doing for me.
Don't feel like you have to go through this alone.... Come join us on FB....