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Jean M.’s Posts

Topic: RE: Wouh what happened to this forum?

What happened to this forum? That's something I ponder myself. It would be great if you (and those lurking on the forum) would keep posting and help get the band forum back to a safe and supportive place. In the meantime, congrats again on that darling baby boy. He's hyper? How could that be? Maybe he's taking after his very smart and active mom?

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: What's the deal with this "happy weight" business?

Yeah, I know, it's a good problem to have...just not one I have any past experience with!

I agree that 1200 calories isn't a lot. My Diet Organizer food log tells me that my BMR is 1857 calories, plus I burn 200-400 calories a day in workouts, and goodness knows how many when I'm running around at work. But the dietitian (who looks like she's about 15 years old and has never - I imagine - struggled with her own weight) repeated that 1200 calories is fine.

 

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: What's the deal with this "happy weight" business?

Thanks, Ms Shell. I'm only 9 mos post-op. If my weight's going to stabilize in another 3 months or so, I can deal with that. If I drop another clothing size between now and then, I'm going to hang on to the bigger clothes just in case. I just don't want to end up with a closet full of 4+ sizes like back in my fat days! I know it's silly to worry about my clothing as much as my health, but those clothes are a visual daily reminder of my lifelong weight problem.

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: What's the deal with this "happy weight" business?

I'm glad you're back on the weight loss track, Melly. 7 pounds in one month is fabulous!

Last week I rediscovered an evil slider food when my husband came home with a bag of sea salt and balsamic vinegar potato chips from Kroger's. As my great aunt Adeline would have said, OH MY SOUL. Fortunately, going to the nearest Kroger's is very inconvenient (70 miles round trip).

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: What's the deal with this "happy weight" business?

I'm eating about 1200 calories a day (protein, fruits, veggies, dairy) which the dietitian said is fine..."Just keep doing what you're doing."

I wish I'd thought to do more "closet shopping"!

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: What's the deal with this "happy weight" business?

At my 6-month post-op visit (which didn't happen until 7 mos post-op due to my work schedule), I weighed 127.8# (4.2# below my goal weight. The NP didn't remark on it and neither did I, but when I got into see a dietitian 30 minutes later, I asked her, "Why am I still losing weight? I'm not even trying now."

She said, "Just keep doing what you're doing. Your body will find its happy weight. Commonly we see patients get to a low weight and then inch back up 5-7 pounds."

I was speechless (which is remarkable for me). Since then, I've found myself thinking, "My happy weight? My body seemed very happy to be 100# heavier, and enjoying half a gallon of ice cream a day. How can I trust my body to find a healthy happy weight?"

I asked some WLS pals about this, and they suggested adding more complex carbs to my diet, which I've been able to do. For example, I eat cooked barley with fruit and Greek yogurt for breakfast. Like that. This strategy has an additional benefit in that it seems to quell the constant, ferocious hunger I've had since my sleeve surgery. 

But...

At my annual GYN exam today, my doctor said, "So, you're the Incredible Shrinking Woman!" She was very supportive of my band surgery back when my ex-PCP pooh-poohed it, and I was glad that she's proud of me, but...

This morning I weighed 123.6# on my scale (126 at the GYN's office), or 8.4# below my goal weight. So is THIS my new happy weight, or am I on my way to underweight?

I know it's a problem some of us have wished we had, but I can't afford to replace my wardrobe right now. And neither can I spend my days at work hiking up my pants every 10 minutes because they're creeping down towards my knees. This is a mind-bending experience, to say the least.

 

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: Lap-Band Problems - and solutions

Dr. Simpson,

You are a brave man to post this on the band forum. I salute you.

Jean

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: And now for something completely different

I attribute 100% of my weight loss to my WLS....At 3 years out I attribute 100% of my 25lb weight gain to myself.

Your honesty is refreshing. If we can't be honest with ourselves about our eating, lifetime maintenance of weight loss is an uphill battle.

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: And now for something completely different

WLS has allowed me to hit a "reset" button in my brain. I tell myself that after 3 surgeries (band, band removal, and sleeve), there are no excuses for me

No excuses for me, either!

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: And now for something completely different

My WL attributions have varied during my WLS journey. Overall, I'd say that 30% of my WL success goes to my surgery, 30% to me (good nutrition, exercise, lifestyle changes), 30% to my support system (including online and in-person groups), and 10% to God. But that may be arrogant, and God's probably laughing at me even as I hit enter to post this comment.

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: And now for something completely different

I'd like to take a break from failed band discussions and spend some time talking about something any WLS patient ought to be able to answer, namely:

How much of your weight loss (if any) do you attribute to your WLS, how much do you attribute to yourself, and how much to other factors? Has this changed since your surgery?

Jean

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: What to do after a band slip??

A complete unfill and 6-week rest period cured my band slip. You might need surgery to reposition your band, but an unfill might be all you need. I wouldn't leave a band slip alone, but in your case that decision is up to you and your surgeon.

I know this is all very unsettling, but try to stay calm until you have more information. If your surgeon recommends surgery for this, you (or his insurance coordinator) can check with your current insurance company about your coverage for that. Even if your policy doesn't cover first-time or revision WLS, they may cover a repair if it can be shown to be medically necessary.

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: Seven year band check.

Great news, Kate!

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: Fairness: DANGERS OF GASTRIC SLEEVE

Let's add to this list:

esophageal strictures
micronutrient malabsorption (e.g. iron deficiency > anemia)

My sleeve has also wreaked havoc with my blood sugar so that I have to take a diabetes med (metformin) for the first time in the 8 years since I've was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes, but I don't know how common that is.

 

Topic: RE: What to eat

So give them a call and ask for an eating plan for regular food. It's their job to help you, so don't think for a minute that it's an unreasonable request.

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: What to eat

Did your surgeon or dietitian not give you a food plan to follow?

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: Dr Jorge Rincon ?

There's a woman whose blog (wasabubblebutt.blogspot.com) focuses mostly on reviews of surgeons (especially Mexican surgeons) who could probably respond to this question. Her e-mail address is: bipley@gmail.com.

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: slipped band

My band slipped. It was fixed by a complete unfill and 6-week rest period, after which we started gradually adding fluid. I do know a few people who needed surgery to reposition their slipped band. I think it depends on the severity and nature of the slip (for example, did it slip downward on your stomach, or upward onto your esophagus).

I asked my surgeon if one band slip would predispose me to another and she said "Not necessarily."

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: My tool is broken and so am I

I'm not sure why you feel you have no restriction when you have many stuck episodes. And I don't know what your expectations of your band or restriction are. If you lost 55 lbs, something must have been working for you at the time. What has changed since then? What's been going on to make it possible for you to regain 45 lbs?

I understand what it's like to have to start over again with a new surgeon because I went through that myself. Just finding a surgeon willing to take on another surgeon's patient was a challenge, and I had to pay a patient transfer fee out of my own pocket. Fortunately my new surgeon was willing to fill a band she didn't place. Have you checked with your new insurance company to find out if your plan will cover band removal and revision to the bypass?

I know my questions are all loaded ones, so I don't expect quick answers to them. While you're thinking about them, I strongly suggest that the next time you have a stuck episode, you immediately stop eating, and follow a liquid diet for 24 hours. Then follow a puree diet for 24 hours, then soft foods (that you can cut with the side of a fork) for 24 hours, then carefully try solid foods. That will give your upper GI tract a chance to calm down after the irritation and inflammation caused by the stuck episode. Doing this will help you get out of the endless cycle of stuck episodes that you seem to be in. Until you can go for a few days without stuck episodes or other eating problems, it will be hard to accurately judge your restriction and whether you really do need a fill.

Jean

ETA: I also wonder if your frequent stuck episodes have gotten you into what we call Soft Calorie Syndrome. When eating solid food is too hard, you can start eating soft and liquid calories that are easy to eat but are often higher in calories and offer no satiety. That's happened to me a few times and I've gained weight at those times. Something to think about, anyway.

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: What type of eater are you?

Pre-band, I was mainly a volume eater. I could out-eat my husband, who is 9" taller and does manual labor for a living. I also snacked, but didn't graze all day and night.

Post-op, I learned the value of planning healthy snacks into my day. That worked very well for me as a bandster. I still do it now, but my interest in food since being sleeved is much greater than it was when I was banded, so it's harder for me to resist food thoughts and cues unrelated to physical hunger. Lately I've been doing a bit better with that by finding something to distract me when the food thoughts arrive. It doesn't take much - sometimes just a change of scenery is what I need. So yesterday afternoon when I was working in my home office and started thinking about food, I got up and went into the bedroom to fold laundry. By the time I got done with that chore, the food thoughts had passed.

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: 4 yrs out

I think you're doing fine considering what's going on with your back. I hope this next surgery will be your last back surgery!

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: Stretched Esophagus

The title of your thread is Stretched Esophagus, but you're saying that it's your "small stomach" that has stretched. A dilated (stretched) esophagus is a different problem from a dilated stomach. The 2 problems seem similar but (in my experience) they have different implications for the future of your band.

The esophagus is designed to move food up or down, not to store it, and certainly not to store it long enough to cause dilation. The implication here is a problem with esophageal motility, meaning that for some reason, your esophagus is no longer able to push food into your stomach. In a bandster, that can happen because the band is too tight. I know you hate the very idea of it, but a complete unfill can relieve the dilation, though it can't necessarily cure the motility problem. The longer you leave the dilation untreated, the harder it will be to resolve.

Dilation of the upper stomach pouch can also be caused by a band that's too tight. I know that it's perplexing to for your body to suddenly decide that your band is too tight, but the human body is a living thing, not a machine. It's affected by hydration, medications, illness, etc. etc. The treatment of stomach dilation is the same as for esophageal dilation - a complete unfill and rest period. The prognosis here is likely to be better than with esophageal dilation because unlike the esophagus, the stomach is designed to expand, contract and churn to break down food enough to move it into the intestines.

In my opinion, you really need to get a complete unfill and let everything rest for a few weeks. You may regain weight, but if you don't take action now, you could end up losing your band.

Good luck!

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: Newbie need help!

I'm not familiar with any bariatric surgeons in your area. Just want to say hello. I lived in the Pioneer Valley for almost 20 years. I don't miss the winter weather!

Jean

P.S. -  You can read some OH member reviews of Dr. Fiallo here:

http://www.obesityhelp.com/profiles/bariatric-center/viratio-fiallo-md-bariatrics/

 

 

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: Yea me!!!!

I know you've been doing some hard work and hard thinking. I'm both proud of you and inspired by you. Good going, and thanks for sharing your story. It always helps me to know I'm not alone in struggles like the ones you described and conquered.

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com 

   

 

Topic: RE: Long overdue update with pics....

I'm glad your absence has been due to the demands and joys of your new life, but it's wonderful to see you again. Your pix are so inspiring. And hey, if I was a guy, I'd be hitting on you too!

Thanks for sharing your story.

Jean

 


Jean McMillan c.2009-2013 - Always a bandster at heart
author of Bandwagon (TM), Strategies for Success  with the Adjustable Gastric Band & Bandwagon Cookery

Read my blog at: jean-onthebandwagon.blogspot.com