Post Date: 1/18/12 3:50 am LOL...Don't want to bombard anyone?? Girlllllllllll....On this site, we are like family. That's WHY we are on here, to find out stuff, get support and help each other out!! PUH-LEASE! I have only been on here since November and I've already had 'virtual' arguments, been depressed, been so excited that I almost pee'd my pants (ok, maybe I did tinkle, but just a little, LOLOLOL), poured my heart out (to only get it stepped on), and 'virtually' held the hand of someone who was depressed...but yet, folks come out of the woodwork to support me, give me virtual hugs and have my back! Be forewarned though, some folks are harsh and they 'think' that they know everything there is to know about every surgery (and the one that THEY had is the better one, LOL). They will say things that will hurt your feelings, and you think to yourself "I just won't say anything any more"...but for every nay-sayer there is someone out there that will 'hug' you and make you feel better. Some folks will say to listen to 'us' and not your doctor, "he's just a surgeon"...I don't know about the facility that 'they' used, but the facility that I use is a team. I have my nutritionist, surgeon (of course), counselor, support groups, 'Helpful Suggestion' groups, lab team...I have the whole enchilada, and I love it! Use this website as a tool - just like your WLS will be. You will be a success story!!!! You've already taken the hardest step...realizing that you want to have the surgery.
Ask away! Ask anything you want. My biggest help, in all seriousness, is looking at the Before & After pictures. When I feel like I just can't do it, I look at those pictures and think "I bet they thought the same thing"
Best of luck and KEEP US POSTED!!
Lisa