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Topic: RE: financing?

Hi there,

That is a good question.  I have been wanting to get some plastics done and face the same issues.  There are a lot of creative ways to raise money.  Fundraisers, sales, bake sales, and I could go on.  I don't know much about you but maybe your church, if you go to one, can have an event to help you raise money.  I don't encourage people to get loans because that is just more debt but it is an option. 

I wish I was more help but life is hard money wise and I think we all struggle with having enough.
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Topic: RE: Formula as effective as gastric bypass?

Yes I have and I told them they need to change their name because it is truely false advertising. My concern with fad diets is that they don't address the maintenance issues, head issues and side affects.  I went through so many fad diets and wasted so much money on their claims to fame.  I am sure there are a few people who benefit from it. Like all new things, they don't have the stats and statistics for long term success.  I can't tell you what to do but seriously think about it. If it was the miracle it claims then all the obesity research and all the major networks, newspapers, and scientific communities would say, "yes, this is totally the cure and our job is done".
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Topic: RE: Grads Group Discussion

Hi Barb,

Wish I could join you but I work Thursday nights.  I am thinking of talking to my co-worker about switching evenings but we shall see.

Have a great time!


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Topic: RE: Difference

Hi,

Well if you want to really know, go to http://clos.net.  Give yourself plenty of time to read.  This website is packed with information.  Once you have read it, you can make a pretty logical opinion on the choice.  I, personally, am 12 years post op.  The MGB is an extremely powerful surgery.  As with any surgical procedure, there are risks.  Nothing is fool proof.  Saying that, I think knowledge is a big help in deciding which procedure is "best" or "better" for you.  I would do it again in a heartbeat.

Case in point, yes, with any surgery you can eat wrong, be lazy and probably gain a little bit.  However, since I started working at Curves, I have lost 10 lbs and 3 inches off my waist without a  whole lot of effort so activity levels, right food choices play a huge part in how successful a surgery is.  I know I am rambling so I will stop lol.

Hope this helps.
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Topic: RE: Mini Gastric Bypass?

Hi,

It's working now. http://clos.net

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Topic: RE: Gained 1 lb during soft food phase?

Hi,

Don't worry.  Weight will fluxuate.  I would suggest, just a suggestion, that you use your clothes as a guide to weight loss.  More rewarding, less painful.   When you are able to exercise, it should help.  Hang in there!!


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Topic: RE: Depression after surgery...

Hi,

Sorry you had such a hard time with your surgery.  I am sure that was depressing in itself.  Yes, depression after surgery is common, any kind of surgery really. 

Rent a funny movie, or go to an animal shelter and get some pet therapy or get a friend to play a game with you.  Laughter is great medicine.  Once those pounds start coming off, you will feel a whole lot better.


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Topic: RE: Mini Gastric Bypass?

It's actually quite different.  Please go to http://clos.net and check it out.
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Topic: RE: MGB Rules and Regain (Question for a friend)

Hi,

Your advice is fine.  Sometimes we have to look back and figure out what changed.  Did we change what we eat, stop exercising, or was there a situation that caused us to fall off track.  For many folks, these things do happen.  Is she going to support groups?  Something triggered a change and she needs to figure out what that was and then, get plugged into support groups, journal her food to see if she has indeed taken on some bad eating habits.  Change her exercise routine to something else she enjoys.  Stress is a huge factor in weight gain.  Eating too many carbs can also trigger weight gain.  Carbs act like sugar in the body and burns fast but if too many are introduced into the body, the body is so busy burning all that off, the fat never gets burned off.

She is lucky to have a friend like you.  The tool is still there and works very well.  Bring her onboard here if she has a computer.  I have a virtual support group she can join as well.  It is Victorious Losers2.


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Topic: RE: Removing Band & Getting MGB!

Hi,

I think you have to go to your profile and change it there.  Sorry the band failed but happy you decided on the MGB.  Keep us posted on how it goes.


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Topic: RE: Mini Gastric Bypass?

Hi,

Well, in layman's words it's like this.  A small pouch is made from the stomach.  Then at least six feet of the small intestines is bypassed and then the pouch is connected at that point.  It is an extremely powerful surgery.  It can be revised, less bypassed or more bypassed and it can be reversed back to no bypass.  To read about it go to http://clos.net.



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Topic: RE: Help! I am desperate to find answers...

Hi,

I agree, get your labs checked by Dr. Rutledge and see what he suggests.  Also I agree with the salt.  You need the salt to help with hydration.  Are you drinking enough water?  You didn't mention it and you need a lot of that also. 

Osteoarthritis is something that can be handed down through the family.  Do any of your family members have it?  I have a little myself but not like my mom.  Her hands were terrible.

Keep us posted on what he says.  Sometimes, however, Dr. R can be hard to get.  My advice is to call him and keep calling until he answers. 
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Topic: RE: How long were you unable to function...

Hi,

Many folks are ok after a few days.  Just a little discomfort at the port sites.  I'd give it a week and you should be fine.


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Topic: RE: Share the Reasons You Personally Opted for MGB....

Hi Angela,

The main reason I chose the MGB is because it is reversable and revisable.  I liked the approval process that is in place.  It prepares you and your family and educates everyone about the procedure. Once the 12 steps are complete, support systems are set in place. It was later that I learned all the other benefits associated with the MGB and embraced it.  It has been eleven years ago and I'd do it again in a heartbeat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you go to http://clos.net, you will find some comparisons.  However, everyone will tell you that their surgery is the best.  That is because they are satisfied with their choice.  Some will say no, don't do this one or that one.  So you will find the negatives if you look and the positives as well.

I am sure you will make the right choice for you.


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Topic: RE: Question

Hi,

You are asking a lot for your body to endure all at once.  I don't know if you will find any doctor that would do all that at the same time without some risks.  Good luck.


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Topic: RE: I'm feel like I'm on the island of misfit toys...

Hi tthere,

Yea people who haven't done THEIR research will tell you it's a bad surgery.  There is so much documentation out there to prove otherwise.  This surgery is being done all over the world with fantastic results.  Very few gain their weight back and barring any other complication, have great success.  All surgeries have their risks.

Hang in there.  The nay sayers will always be out there regardless of what the issue or topic is.


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Topic: RE: WOW! A whole year already!

I know.  Isn't it great!  I remember being a 2/4.  Everyone thought I looked sick. So, I am up to a 10.  Just got a job working at a Curves so hopefully I can get back down to a 6 or so.


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Topic: RE: test

Well, no, he/she will talk to you about what is going to happen.  Ask you a lot of questions about how you react to anestesia, etc.  Regular pre-op labs will be done in the lab somewhere.
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Topic: RE: Bing eating late at night

Hi,

Binge eating is not related to any surgery.  There is usually something else going on.  As I said, it may be something you are not even aware of.  I would not toss away the idea of talking to someone who knows about this issue.

Yes, I know about the eating.  I have many RNY friends who are struggling big time because they still have to diet, count calories etc.  Yes, I have, in the past, gained weight due to my lack of discipline in watching what I ate, but with the MGB, the weight comes off very quickly with a little wisdom in my food choices and more activity.  I am very pleased.


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Topic: RE: Bing eating late at night

Hi,

I used to have hypoglycemia and was told to eat six small meals/snacks a day.  Maybe a nutritionist can help you with that.  When we become our own doctors, it can sometimes do more harm than good.  Glad you are doing well otherwise.
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Topic: RE: Bing eating late at night

Hi again,

How is your bloodwork?  Are you getting your labs done?  This might give some indications but not sure.  Also, since the MGB only helps with calorie absorption and does not cure our eating issues, you may want to find a counselor who specializes in food addictions/disorders.  There may some food triggers that you are not aware of.  We did not put all this weight on because one day we decided to get fat.  There are all kinds of situations, crises, trauma, and other issues that can be triggers.  It's like peeling an onion layer by layer to find the source.  It's nothing to be ashamed of. It's just finding it, confronting it and dealing with it.  Yes, it may be unpleasant but once that is taken care of, you would be aware of the trigger when it rears it's ugly head in the night.  You will be given the tools to deal with them in a positive manner and then not have this eating frenzy to worry about. This is just a helpful suggestion.  We need a whole body healing, not just a physical one.

Hope this helps.  Try emailing him if you can't call.  He will eventually respond.


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Topic: RE: HELP TO FIND A GOOD SURGEON WITH LOW COSTS

Hello,

I have been to South Africa, Simon's Town and Cape Town.  They were beautiful!  I am not familiar with surgeons in your country.  You may want to ask on the Main message board.  You would have a better chance of finding someone there who can help.

Good luck!
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Topic: RE: Bing eating late at night

Hi,

I would contact Dr. Rutledge about this since he is the pilot for the MGB.  You MAY get a response here but I would go to the source.  It may just mean an adjustment on your meal plan or it may be something more.  Please, call him until he answers.  That is what his office staff say.  Keep me posted.  I'd like to know myself.
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Topic: RE: HAS ANYONE TRIED OR EVEN HEARD ABOUT CHIROHCG???

Hi,

No, please tell us what this is?
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Topic: RE: 5 Days Post Op Gastric Bypass

Welcome to the other side and your journey to good health.  Find a good support group.  This is very important.  Ask ask ask.  Knowledge will eliminate many fears and doubts.  The more you know, the easier it will be to face each day.  Keep us posted.


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