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After LBL how long before you can "BE" with your hubby?

I was so good about asking my PS questions off a list I would make (2 consults)  BUT I forgot to ask him how long before my hubby and I can "be together" Anyone give me some idea.  I told him it would probably be like when I had children, God that was forever ago.  But maybe longer? I guess he wants to "stock" up before all he can. Thanks, Montie
Good question Montie!   Kinda thinking the same thing, but I was the one who stocked up.... So folks just how long?  It isn't like the wls when they say wait til your out of the hospital. Giggles, Jenni

                        Live life to the fullest!
         You only get one go around so use it well...

Well now, here's the difference between an LBL and anything else you may have encountered.  You're skin is cut and lifted off of your body, you have heavy duty sutures sewn into your core muscles, and then you have drains to expel serum fluid that collects from all of that trauma.  That right there ought to put you in the mood for romance, no? Cool But here's the deal.  Activity makes you produce more fluid, so nothing til the drains come out.  And then too much activity can cause seromas and wound separations.  My doc says six weeks for "activity".  For me, it was seven.  But hey, there have been people here who got busy with their drains in! Shock 2  My doc would have had a whole herd of cows. Mary 
At least you didn't put my name in this post lmao. But I guess I just outed myself.... hey I had to take a test run after the coochie lift.
445/425/123/1??
brachioplasty 7/11/07
Breast reduction/lift and axilla repair 9/5/07
Mons reduction and L arm brachioplasty repair 01/02/08
Tummy tuck with Anchor cut  3/12/08
Lower body lift TBA
Ladies and gentlemen of the jury...I give you exhibit A.  She ain't known as the Seroma Princess Glitter Princess for nothin' ya know!  I could say more, but since she allready convicted her ownself...I rest my case! Mary
Mary,  You are such a hoot! where do you come up with all these funny things you say???? You must keep your hubby in stiches. I can promiss you, there will be no hanky panky till the drains are long gone!!!!!!!!!!!! And then, whenever I FEEL LIKE IT, ya hear. No, just kidding, I am just glad at our ages we like to still fool around. So, I am off to "stock up" for the next week and a half, OMG, did I just say that?? Thanks have a great weekend. Montie

Well, isn't that funny?  I just asked my PS about that on Tuesday   She said she usually recommends at least six weeks, but as long as you feel up to it, you're careful and it's not painful it should be ok.  Hubby kinda happy to hear this  I was a little pleased myself   hmmm, 3 weeks out... 

Oh Oh Oh I am 6 1/2 weeks out from LBL......my last drain came out yesterday.   I'm not feeling the whole sex thing at this point and don't know whn I will.   My Ex-husband whom I happen to live with, is driving me crazy.   Well he already loves they way I look, with swelling and all but he has a long wait in front of him. Poor man!!!!!! Madeline
At last I have found freedom
TT/BL   4/14/07
BA/ Brachioplasty   11/22/07
LBL   4/21/08
Thigh Lift w/ lipo  11/17/08
ok...I gotta ask..... ex husband?  Live with him? lol.... See where I'm comin from? Inquiring minds HAVE to know!
445/425/123/1??
brachioplasty 7/11/07
Breast reduction/lift and axilla repair 9/5/07
Mons reduction and L arm brachioplasty repair 01/02/08
Tummy tuck with Anchor cut  3/12/08
Lower body lift TBA

Yeah..long story but he made a big mistake and we ended up divorced. 

At last I have found freedom
TT/BL   4/14/07
BA/ Brachioplasty   11/22/07
LBL   4/21/08
Thigh Lift w/ lipo  11/17/08
woot a sex question. Ok.. I am the queen (or princess as mary would have it) of kink, but lemme tell ya after the extended TT w/ anchor cut I told SO to keep that pelvis FAR from me. Here is some help for him.. supplies needed...tissue and lotion www.uporn.com For you: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lorena_Bobbitt
445/425/123/1??
brachioplasty 7/11/07
Breast reduction/lift and axilla repair 9/5/07
Mons reduction and L arm brachioplasty repair 01/02/08
Tummy tuck with Anchor cut  3/12/08
Lower body lift TBA
Oh Hell No!  You ARE the Queen of Kink. And drama.  But you're the Seroma Glitter Princess only because others have had more.  Imagine that? Mary
me drama?????????????????????????????????? omg you did NOT go there I am soooooooooo not dramatic. Fine I am going into the bathroom to sit in the DARK and its all YOUR fault!!!!!!!
445/425/123/1??
brachioplasty 7/11/07
Breast reduction/lift and axilla repair 9/5/07
Mons reduction and L arm brachioplasty repair 01/02/08
Tummy tuck with Anchor cut  3/12/08
Lower body lift TBA
Are you going to sing the "No body likes me, everybody hates me, think I'll eat some worms..." song while you're in there?  LOL
Anissa 

OH MY GOD!!!! 
Teach me that song!!!!!!
PLEASE! please pleasepleasepleaseplease??????
I swear, I'll give you a dollar if you'll teach me that song!!!!
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http://kids.niehs.nih.gov/lyrics/worms.htm http://everything2.com/e2node/Nobody%2520likes%2520me%252C%2 520everybody%2520hates%2520me%252C%2520think%2520I%2527ll%25 20go%2520eat%2520worms There's a couple links for you to read!  LOL  If you want more, just Google the beginning of the song and you'll get tons of stuff.  The way I sang it was..."no body likes me, everybody hates me, think I'll eat some worms.  Big ones, little ones,  even little juicy ones, I'm gonna eat some worms"   When I was young in grade school, I would get made fun of sometimes (weight related...imaging that) and I would go in the bathroom and sing that song.  One time (when I thought I was all alone with my song) someone was in there too and started laughing!  Glad those days are over!!!  LOL
Anissa 
I had anchor cut TT not LBL. I waited 9 days. The drains were out. I left the binder on during. I made sure no pressure was put on my insicions. B

 

Anchor cut TT 9/27/2007

Why did you opt for the TT anchor, as oppose to the LBL?  And what is meant by TT "anchored"? Scheduled for LBL on July 9th.
I didn't feel like I needed it.  I didn't have much of a behind when I was heavy. I didn't feel the little butt wrinkle I had was worth the extra incision around the back. Spin class has helped lift behind. Anchor cut TT has a vertical componant. This gives the scar the appearance of an anchor or upside down T. I really needed the vertical incision as I  had alot of skin and fat to be removed from my belly. See before and afters on profile. Belinda

 

Anchor cut TT 9/27/2007

After my LBL, I was told as soon as I felt like it.....usually around 3 weeks.  Well.....I felt like it on day 9!  I couldn't really do much but lay there and enjoy it, but that was fine with me!  LOL