Like the others said before me, your child, your life, so you decide. While opinions are nice to have, they are just that, opinions. If they case you too much grief I say you keep the name private and between you and your husband and they can know the name when everyone else does. We stressed so much about finding a name for our son, and dealing with name him after this person, or that, or thats ugly, or hard to pronounce and then adding in rules of our culture and religions (Moroccan and Muslim) it was a hot mess! SO much so that my poor son did not even have a name for the 1st 2 days in hospital and after all was said and done we ended up choosing a name that was not on our list at all. And guess what, it IS hard to pronounce, no one liked it, and they DID give me grief. I will spare you the choice words I gave them and blamed on hormones! If they love me, and the child, they will respect the name, and if they dont like it, keep the opinion to themselves or have their own child to name. (Okay, off my soap box!) Good Luck with a name choice!