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    Topic: RE: not quite 2 weeks post and...
    Yay! That's awesome!! Mine was gone by two weeks as well which shocked me big time ecause of how much I had gained!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Successful VBAC with induction and we're home!!!!
     Congrats!! Glad all went well for you!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Genevieve is here! Pics
     Congrats!! She's beautiful!! 
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    Topic: RE: Had my baby on 3/24
     Congratulations!!! 
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    Topic: RE: He's Home
    Yay! Congrats on having him home!!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Induction set
    Congratulations! Hope everything went well and you're loving on your little one!!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Update and a happy Mommy!
    Glad things are going well! Almost there!!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: I'm late...
    Fingers crossed!! I had a nasty bladder infection the weekend before I got my BFP.
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: March 6th!
    Good luck! Hope everything goes well and you're on your way to healing and holding your lil one!!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: aaaaand it's POSITIVE!!!
    Congrats!!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Welcome to the world, Holden Alexander
    Congrats!! He's adorable!!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: He's here!!!
    It's been a crazy week! Tuesday I went to my OB appointment for my 39 weeks and because of my issues they were going to plan induction Thursday or Friday but after my appointment with the high risk Dr. an ultrasound showed another drop in amniotic fluid and he wanted me delivered ASAP so back to my OB I went and was admitted for induction that night.
    They started Cervidil around 7:30 and 12  hours later took it out. THE second she broke my water I went into hard, brutal labor! OMG, the contractions were back to back and almost no time between! The nurse said she hasn't seen them that intense in a while! They were quick to get an epidural in and got me comfortable....THANK GOD!!!!
    I progressed pretty quick, thay had pitocin going in small amounts to keep labor from slowing down. When I started the initial pushing they noticed his HB dropping and it would drop if I was in a certain position which worried me. They wanted to pace the pushing so he wasn't in distress. Once I got the hang of the whole push, breath thing and felt his head I was determined, lol
    John Lewis was born at 4:16pm on 2/22/2012, weighing 6lbs 9oz and 19 1/2in long and a full head of hair!! The cord had gotten wrapped around his neck as he was coming down but he was delivered safely with no issues!! I tore a little needing a single stich.
    Thursday the nurse noticed some aggitation and gitteriness so they had the pediatrician and neonatolist examine him and do some tests. They weren't sure but thought maybe because of the meds I had to take while pregnant he was having some withdrawl. I wanted to breastfeed but he wasn't latching right and what he was getting was making him a little irritable. They came to me Thursday night and advised I pump and suppliment with formula while they determine if it was what they were thinking. Tests came back that he was reacting to what I needed to take so they advised I don't breastfeed. They said because I had been on the meds for years my system had built up a level of them. Once we started straight formula he responded VERY well and was calmer and much more content! They kept us an extra day just to be sure he didn't have any delayed reactions. He never needed any assistance, they just wanted to be sure his system was clear and he was doing well, feeding and sleeping well.
    Because I need to be on medication to manage my medical issues and keep me functioning, I have to do what's best so that I'm able to take care of him!!
    We got home last night and he's doing great! Eating and pooping like a champ!!
    My system is a bit shocked and I'm in a lot of pain and my insides hurt from everything settling and adjusting! 
    Overall is was a good experience and I'd do it again....in a few years! 

     



     
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: I believe I've lost my mucus plug!
    Thank you! I have my appointments with both Drs tomorrow so they'll check everything again and discuss what they want to do. Because I'm high risk they won't let me go past 40.
    All day yesterday I had the mucusy bloody show so I'm hoping it's my body responding the way it should and real labor's not far off!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Glucose Testing
    Mine had me go in two hours after eating and get tested.
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    Topic: RE: help! OT: EXtreme Weight Gain!
    Stress like that and the meds can cause you to retain fluid. Any injury to the body can cause swelling and the body will take on fluids to repair itself! Drink lots of water and get some rest! Glad noone was seriously injured! Crash dieting is probably not smart. I would just keep doing what you have been, up the protein and fluids and let your body heal! 
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: I believe I've lost my mucus plug!
     I'm 38 weeks 3 days now. Sat here for hours timing contractions, trying to determine real or not. All the info I've read, heard has said if xyz is happening then you're in active labor. All these things start happening, 3-5 min apart(4 in 10 min.), stronger, more painful, extreme pressure, things like moving, walking, talking are increasingly difficult....all happening! So I wait and watch the clock and all signs point to go, so DH takes me in. I'm contracting but no progress, ketones in my urine so they say the reason the contractions are so intense and happening like they are is because I'm dehydrated! 
    Im frustrated because I'm looking at all the indications and all the signs are there but nothing!! Ok so if everything that's supposed to be telling me I'm in labor isn't then how am I supposed to know when it is? The only sure way to know when I'm actually in labor is my water breaks which doesn't always happen! So they give me vistaril to calm down the contractions and I'm still on bed rest and trying o drink as much as I can! NST happened tonight while I was there. He's fine, keeps running from the monitors. I go in Tues. to both drs so we'll see what's next! I'm wondering if my body is just not responding like it should or if I'm feeling them more intensely because of the sensitivity to pain and how I feel it. I thought I'd be more progressed by now but still 2-3 cm 70% 
    I know everyone's different in how they experience labor and birth, but I'm seeing that all the books, pamphlets and classes that give you a general idea of what it's like are not useful! Lol cause according to everything I've  read and learned what I'm experiencing is what they call active labor but it's not! Makes me feel like its all in my head! He can't stay in there forever so it's got to happen soon, lol 
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: I believe I've lost my mucus plug!
    Friday morning I went to my high risk Dr. because he wanted to recheck amniotic fluid since it was low on Tues. It was unchanged and lil man looked good. My BP reading was high so they called my OB and sent me over to his office to be checked. They took my BP again when I got there and it had gone down some. Midwife checked me again, still 3cm and thinning and I have a yeast infection from the antibiotics I'm taking for a sinus infection! My OB wants me to go in Sunday for a NST and will probably be admitting me and I've been put on strict bed rest.  He really wants to give my body the chance to go into labor on it's own and doesn't want to rush into induction because it can be harder for some and lead to more complications but he also doesn't want my BP to continue to get worse. It's been higher than normal but not extremely high.
    Today I believe I lost my mucus plug. When I wiped a large purple/red glob came out. I've been having increased tightening and contractions since. Hoping it happens soon! Either way I'll be going in tomorrow for the NST if not sooner! 
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Anxiety overload!!
     Sheridan is who I usually see. It's either her or Carol, I love them both!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Showing?
    It'll happen! I have a LOT of excess skin so I didn't look pregnant, I just looked like I was regaining weight. As baby got bigger and came up out of my pelvis I started showing. I also wore slight compression shorts or something like spanx for pregnant women and they brought everything to the center and with clothes on I had a noticable bump. The belly really popped around 6 months, that's when I finally maternity pants and wore tighter shirts that helped me actually look pregnant. As they get bigger they come up from being deep in the pelvis and next thing you know you're knocking things over with the belly, lol
    You're small so it shouldn't be long before you might start looking more pregnant! :-)
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: 6 Months!!
    OMG!! She's precious!! I can't believe it's been 6 months already!! I'm loving the headbands! Do you think my boy will mind wearing one? lol
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Anxiety overload!!
    I see my high risk Dr. In the morning and he'll make the determination as to what needs to be done. They said the amout of protein was small but it'll be checked again tomorrow. My OB is letting my high risk Dr. Take the lead and they work well together to make sure baby and I are safe and healthy.
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Anxiety overload!!
    Thank you! Trying to keep my focus on him being here has helped me deal with the added pain throughout the pregnancy. Knowing there's a bigger reason for all of it and knowing he's worth it! An epidural is the plan. DH is great about keeping me calm which for me is vital because my anxiety feeds off the pain and then It gets to the point where I'm unable to get it under control so if I can keep it from going to that level I know I'll be ok!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Xander is 1!
    He's such a handsome lil guy!! I LOVE his eyes! The last pic is my fav too!! Looks like he had a great birthday! 
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: trying
    I have PCOS and was cleared at a yr out to start TTC. I started keeping track of my cycles, went and got an exam to make sure everything was healthy and my overies and uterus were looked at to see if there was anything that would need addressing that I had issues with before. Had to make sure I was ovulating because I hadn't without help in the past with PCOS. Got a healthy screening and Started on extra folic acid and a prenatal in Jan., got clearance in March and shockingly was pregnant by July.
    It's not that simple for everyone as everyone's body is different. My PCOS responded really well to weight loss which I'm SO grateful for! 
    Good luck and I hope you get your BFP soon! 
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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    Topic: RE: Anxiety overload!!
    This week has been brutal to say the least! I can't count how many meltdowns have happened in the last 4 days.
    The last two weeks I've developed REALLY bad swelling in my legs and feet and some in my face. Since I'm being seen weekly now by both my high risk and regular OB They've been monitoring me, testing urine, blood pressure and all of it's come back fine. My High Risk asked me if I was having localized pain in any area of my legs and I have been having sharp pains in part of my right leg which cause immediate concern, he calls my OB and what started out as a regular visit turned into a 6 hour ordeal and me being sent to radiology for an ultrasound of my leg. Because I had a pulminary embolism after WLS and have a blood clotting disorder they needed to make sure there wasn't a clot. Came back clear and everything with LO was fine! This was last week.
    I've been having more frequent contractions and when they checked me last Tues. I was 2cm, 50% effaced and thinning. This Monday they got more intense and I'm sitting here trying to keep track of them and determine if it's time or if they're just BH. As I'm doing this I look around and something just snaps, I FLIP out and am convinced that if it's happening I can't possibly bring my baby home to this dump(not really a dump but my warped mind saw it as such) and I began freaking out over EVERYTHING that needed to be done. Had to get the dog hair off the couch, wash the blankets, dishes, get the spots out of the carpet...yeah I went a little nuts! DH comes home 3 hours late, I had already made dinner (it was cold), cleaned the house and at this point was sitting on the couch between trying to time contractions, calm myself down from balling hysterically. He finally gets me to calm down and after a few hours the contractions weren't every 20 min anymore. Tuesday I had both appointments, my first one with the high risk went fine but he noticed my amniotic fluid is low so I have to have that checked again tomorrow. Then I go to my OB and my regular midwife was helping my Dr with a surgery so someone else saw me. I don't dislike her but I've only seen her once this pregnancy and she's not familiar with me and everything that's going on healthwise in my case. The contractions picked back up and she was a bit insensitive about me being a little on edge, being in pain and I took it personally and felt like I was imagining all this when she says "you're water hasn't broken, you're not in labor."
     I pointed out I noticed excess fluid/discharge and was still concerned about the swelling because at this point it hurts to walk because my legs and feet are huge. No change from last week, still 2cm, she tested for amniotic fluid and it was negative. She was alarmed at the fact that I seem to be gaining pretty rapidly(10+lbs) the last few weeks, but didn't go to much into it and passed it off as fluid retention.
    The rest of Tuesday was just a BAD day and everyone and everything made me upset. I deal with anxiety issues already and have had some during this pregnancy but not on this level! Went to my therapist yesterday and he assured me it's normal and he's actually relieved I've handled things as well as I have considering my history up till this point.
    I ended up being sent to L&D last night because LO wasn't moving like he should be and my head was pounding. The Midwife on call was my normal midwife and she filled them in on everything going on with me, ordered blood work and wanted them to make sure they got a certain # of fetal movements. I was a bit dehydrated but after a while he started moving like he needed to be. Mild pre eclampsia and my RBC was low. I go in the AM for another US to check amniotic levels again and they'll determine what to do from there. I keep hoping I'll go ahead and go into labor so I don't have to be induced but I feel selfish wanting him to just be here.
    Don't get me wrong I'm SO beyond grateful to have made it to full term with all that's been going on and the fact that I wasn't supposed to be able to have kids...but at this point I can't pretend it's not overwhelmingly miserable! 
    I feel like a wimp, if I'm having this hard of a time dealing with early labor what's active labor gonna do to me? I don't do pain well and I'm hypersensitive to it because of the pain issues I deal with, add the anxiety...yea I'm a LOT of fun right now! Thank God DH is so patient and not taking it personally, lol
    Sorry for the novel, just wanted to update since I haven't in a while!
    "Be present for your journey, get to know who you really are and then be your authentic self with NO apologies"
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