I had a lap band put in in 2005, lost weight initially and then started developing problems with my esophagus. After deflating the band totally (and regaining all my weight plus some), my Dr said come back when ready and he would do the RNY. I finally made the decision to have it done in July, 2011, and have gone through all the steps with my health care provider and insurance. It has been a long year with much anxiety on my part. (i was like a pendulum swinging back and forth.) but I am so thankful that my heart over ruled my head on this and I had it done. I feel wonderful (with the exception of the incision sites which are healing nicely). Now I'm just mad at myself for putting it off for so long. I wish you the best.