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My Ex-Husband regrets divorce....

teresa79
on 1/31/10 4:56 pm - Fowler, IN
AND I DON"T CARE!!!! LOL! My Ex-Husband had an affair the last 8 months of our 5 year marriage with a petite red headed younger woman. The woman actually confronted me in person and told me that she was sleeping with my Husband and that she didn't care because they were in love and that he didn't want my "fat ass" anymore. He told me that he didn't love me and that he wanted a divorce. I was distraught and overcome with heart break. It took me awhile to get over it all and with the help of family, friends, church family, and counseling I moved on. I have not seen my Ex-Husband in nearly 5 years now, and the last I heard he had gotten engaged to this woman and had a child with her. Since then I got engaged to my best friend, got married three years ago, and now my Husband and I have a beautiful 2 year old son together. In early 2009 I decided to make a change with my obesity. I know this is the main reason why my Ex-Husband left me, because I was overweight. I have lost nearly 110 pounds since April 22nd and I am 4 months post op now. I lost 50 pounds on my own prior to my surgery. I don't even look the same.

Last week my wonderful Hubby took me out to eat at our favorite Mexican resturant and GUESS who I run into??? My Ex-Husband and this woman who he had had an affair with. At first I didn't recognioze them because my Ex was bald and she was about 100 pounds heavier! Now I in no means like to talk about over weight people because I know what it feels like, beleive me...my whole life I was obese. BUT>>>>I had to LAUGH! He took one look at me and my gorgeous family and put his head down. She had the biggest shocked face if I ever did see one and I felt like one HOT Moma! LOL! Anyways, tonight I get an email (my emial has stayed the same for years) and it's from my Ex-Husband. He wrote how he was so shocked seeing me and how beautiful I looked. That he had never seen me so skinny! LOL! Wow! He also wrote that he regreted divorcing me. I wrote back that I was blocking him from my email, that I was VERY happily married with a family, and that I would like it if he never contacted me again.

Anyways...I wanted to share this tonight. I was so distraught when I went through my divorce back in 2004, but time healed everything and I am now happily married to an amazing Husband who married me literally through thick and thin. Sometimes doors are closed in your life for a good reason, I also beleive what comes around goes around.  
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terri783
on 1/31/10 5:01 pm - Pineville, LA
That is an awesome in his face story!!!  I am glad you are in a happy marraige now.  Everyone deserves to be treasured by their husband.  Way to go!
    
Kitsy W.
on 1/31/10 5:02 pm
RNY on 10/02/07 with
I am so proud of you....what a wonderful story.  You are doing great.  Keep up the great attitude.

Starting weight:  292  Goal weight:  145 Current weight:  136
 
 

Modest Vixen
on 1/31/10 5:09 pm - Surprise, AZ
That is AWESOME! My ex-husband is a case of his own, and our stories sound very similar. Except my ex told me about his other woman, and threw me out when I told him I was pregnant with my second son. He has not seen our boys in over two years, and my husband is the only father they know. It really was the best thing he could have ever done for me, and it sounds like the same with your ex!

I am close with my ex mother in law, and she let it slip I had lost 40 pounds or so around him. Sure enough, I got a text from him! I am sure his now wife would love to know that LOL

~*Crystal*~

HW-327/SW-313/CW-271/Doc's Goal:150 ......Awaiting Revision to DS     
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lindahob
on 1/31/10 5:13 pm
RNY on 02/16/10 with
That is one GREAT story!  LOVE IT!
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Highest Weight 326
Start Weight /RNY Feb 16th 287
Current Weight  158
Goal Weight 159 (not sure)

    

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teresa79
on 1/31/10 5:14 pm - Fowler, IN
LOL! Yes that does sound familar. Way to go GIRL!
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jenniferhlee
on 1/31/10 5:14 pm - Denver, NC
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YOU GO GIRL!!! Congratulations on your success and isn't it wonderful to be married to a man who loves you exactly as you are!? Sounds like your ex got what/who he deserved. Sounds like his mistress did too!
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H.a.l.a. B.
on 1/31/10 5:27 pm
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You get the best revange whithout even trying. I am happy for you!!!

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fatfreemama
on 1/31/10 5:43 pm - San Jose, CA
RNY on 12/07/09 with
 Thank you so much for sharing!  It's one of those American Express moments.  You should be so proud of yourself, and I'm so glad you were able to overcome your divorce and find true happiness and love.  Running into your ex like that must have been the icing on the cake.  How fun!
Laura in Texas
on 1/31/10 5:53 pm - Cypress, TX
Great story!!  Thanks for sharing!! 

Laura

ItalianHeat
on 1/31/10 6:00 pm
What comes around goes around ..
ladybugnessa
on 1/31/10 6:15 pm - Owings Mills, MD
LOVE IT!!!!!!!
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Funin AZsun
on 1/31/10 6:17 pm - AZ
Now thats a "WOW" story.  Good for you!!!  So glad you found your true love and are blissfully happy!! 

He got what was coming to him!!!!
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Goal weight reached 12/7/09 ~ 155lbs 5'8"
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ymkelly
on 1/31/10 6:24 pm
Thanks for sharing!!  Every womans dream, to be envied:)  And you definitely shoved it in his face:)
Andrea2222
on 1/31/10 6:29 pm - Sharonville, OH
That is a great story! I love how you so totally have the upper hand in the situation, and that you look and feel so good on top of it. Thanks for sharing.
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lrmeyer
on 1/31/10 6:51 pm - Chicago, IL
RNY on 12/14/09 with
 FRAK YEAH!

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debyo84
on 1/31/10 6:52 pm - San Angelo, TX
RNY on 08/03/09 with
Great story Teresa!!! I'm glad that you are happy and that your life is going so great.  They say the grass is never greener on the other side and it sounds like your ex is finding that out. 

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seattledeb
on 1/31/10 7:16 pm
RNY on 12/22/08 with
What a great story. I'm happy for you.
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LRPRICE
on 1/31/10 7:17 pm - ROBINSON, TX
PRICELESS!!!!!  lisa
Dianne K.
on 1/31/10 7:21 pm
RNY on 08/18/09 with
This has got to be one of the best stories I've ever read on here!!!  I bet it felt so incredibly amazing to look at the two of them and know that you have come out of that ugly situation stronger, happier, and healthier.  I also think it's awesome that he had the balls to send that email and you told him to stuff it.  I don't know you at all, but girl, I am proud of you!!!  Thank you for sharing your story!