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I don't think she was serious about having a reversal.  A reversal is a big deal and not typically done just because a patient asks for one.  In any case, I think she was just making the point that after a while all her patients have been happy with the surgery.
Does your surgeon have a support group?  That may help you with the support.  If that doesn't work come here and we will do our best.
As far as the surgery not working, everyone has that fear.  Before you decide if the surgery works or not you have to be clear on what what surgery is supposed to do.  It is supposed to help you eat less so you can follow a healthy eating plan, to help you develop healthier habits and make necessary lifestyle changes.  There is a small amount of malabsorption in the beginning that helps you not absorb all the calories you take in but it isn't a lot and doesn't last long.  After a while you are able to eat more, too, so if you haven't changed the way you eat then yes, the surgery won't work.
If you have any illusions that the surgery will let you eat whatever you want and not gain weight then you need to address those right now.  No surgery will do that.  If you think you won't be able to change your eating habits you might want to look into seeing a counselor or going to a program like OA to address your eating issues.

Thanks for the replies.  I am currently seeing a therapist that is helping me work out some emotional problems.  I am hopeing to get on here more in order to gain the support I am not receiving from home.  Thanks again!

Thank you so much for your advice.  My goal is to get my RN license so I can move back to a larger city.  I find that I will get more support there, and better opportunities to get better foods for me.  Sometimes, it is hard to find in the small town I live in.  Even my therapist has told me that I do not belong in this small town...lol.  Hopefully, things will fall into place the way they are intended.