Rumor about me having WLS? I tell anyone who asks. It is NOT a secret.

Jen Lyn
on 5/17/14 11:46 am
RNY on 11/11/13

My daughter got a call from a girl she hasn't seen in a year asking if the rumor I had weight loss surgery was true.
She wanted to know if I was bad off like everyone else who had it. I am a success so far with no complications.  It is so weird to me that she asked my daughter.

My daughter's friend has a mother who HATES fat and now that I have lost a bunch of weight wants to be a part of my success. She calls and asks me how much I have lost and how I am doing.  She tells everyone how great I am doing and how I took charge of my health and becoming the person I was meant to be.

Is it just me who finds both reactions weird?  Why do people I am not close to even care?

I am so glad to be free from so many medical issues. 

martitalinda
on 5/17/14 8:49 pm

People will always talk, that which they do and that which they don't know about you ... I brush those things off and don't even give it/them an audience ... enjoy your success and do YOU and let the weirdo's fuel your determination to remain successful... CONGRATS on your awesome journey...

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autumnsiggy2RNY 2/5/07 no regain having implemented lifestyle changes....

 

Gwen M.
on 5/18/14 1:46 am
VSG on 03/13/14

People can be so frustrating. 

I have a group of people "in" my life who have decided that since I got WLS it means that I've lied about everything in my life prior. I guess since it's an online group they just assumed I wasn't obese, because I've always been happy about my life, so now that I got WLS that somehow made me a liar?  I don't get people at all. 

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

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