Yikes! TEN more months to go!!!

Terri70
on 6/6/16 11:05 am

I so keep getting this feeling that I'm gonna fail one of these tests/appts and I'm going to have wasted a year of my life on this. I have 10 more appts with my insurances health education program. Each time I talk to them (once a month on a 30 minute-50 minute phone call) I feel like I'm gonna say all the wrong things. I'm also very afraid of meeting with the Bariatric Clinics Psych Doc for fear of him thinking I'm just too crazy to get this done. OMG I'm driving myself bat-crap-crazy! lol

How did you all manage it all with such grace?

Laura in Texas
on 6/6/16 11:19 am

It took me 10 months from the time I went to my first seminar until my RNY. I just took things one day at a time. Before you know it, it will be time for you to have your surgery. Try to be patient!!

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Deanna798
on 6/6/16 11:34 am
RNY on 08/04/15

I thought I was too crazy to get the surgery. I have a lot of underlying issues from my past.  hell, I burst into tears during the psych eval and I honestly thought I was screwed.  Turns out what they really were looking for was if I was in denial about the fact that I have issues with food, if I'm willing to actually move forward and deal with my issues with food, and if I'm intelligent enough to understand what I'm getting myself into.

I know every eval is different, but I don't think you should worry unless you really think that you don't actually eat a lot of food or think that you don't have issues with food.  

Age: 44 | Height: 5' 3" | Starting January 2015: 291 | RNY 8/4/15 with Dr. Arthur Carlin| Goal: 150

Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise. ~Proverbs 19:20

SkinnyScientist
on 6/6/16 12:55 pm

My appointment with teh psych was filling out a test a lot like the minneosta multiphasic disorder test.

It asks the same questions many different ways...to see if you are lying.

 

The psych said it was more for my surgeon, so he could learn how to work with me. For example, some people like to be told what to do and just do it.

I am not one of those people

I really dont trust authority or those that try to send the dicta on down.

So, the way for the surgeon to get me on board and keep me on board was to actively involve me in my care. For example, asking things like "What do you think about this alternative? How about alternative b?"...

 

RNY Surgery: 12/31/2013; 

Current weight (2/27/2015) 139lbs, ~14% body fat

Three pounds below Goal!!! Yay !  

White Dove
on 6/6/16 1:12 pm - Warren, OH

If you fail one of the tests because you are not healthy enough for the surgery, then you have dodged a bullet.  The good thing about all the testing is that you know you are healthy when it is all completed.

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends

Grim_Traveller
on 6/6/16 1:16 pm
RNY on 08/21/12

Use the time wisely. Get a good running start going into surgery. You'll be glad you did, and it will really help you reach your goal.

I've seen some legitimately crazy people here. You'll be fine.

6'3" tall, male.

Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.

M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.

Terri70
on 6/6/16 1:24 pm

I've actually started seeing a counselor that specializes in eating disorders (not that I have one) on my own. The last call I had with the ins people, she said she was impressed with that. So I guess I'm doing something right so far. lol

Terri70
on 6/6/16 1:35 pm

Or maybe I do. I don't know. That's why I'm going! lol

pammieanne
on 6/7/16 7:56 am - OK
RNY on 05/16/16

OK, you made me laugh out loud! 

Height 5'5" HW 260 SW 251 CW 141.6 (2/27/18)

RNY 5-16-16 Pre-Op 9lbs, M1-18.5lbs, M2-18.1lbs, M3-14.8lbs, M4-10.4lbs, M5-9.2lbs, M6-7lbs, M7-6.2lbs, M8-8.8lbs,M9-7.8lbs, M10-1 lb, M11-.6lbs, M12-4.4lbs

(deactivated member)
on 6/6/16 1:17 pm
RNY on 11/22/16

I am in the pre approval process too. I think the best thing that you can do is just be honest with your care provider about everything. You are going to do great!

 

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